How do you evaluate the sloppy 40 year old poor household, and after receiving funding, he still ask

It's really speechless! There is a reason why these people are poor, so they say that poverty alleviation is the first thing to do, and they don't even bother to feed the pigs they send, preferring to sit and bask in the sun by themselves, and now they are begging the staff for their mother-in-law, saying that they are very ...... alone

The incident is really unexpected, recently, an incident happened in Leshan, Sichuan, which makes people feel ridiculous. Poor households in their 40s asked the poverty alleviation staff:If you have money, get me a wife.

This really makes it difficult for the poverty alleviation staff, as can be seen from the **, this poor household is in rags, and there is an obvious layer of oil stains on the clothes on his body, which has basically not been cleaned. In the summer, the smell on the body is unbearable. But the man didn't seem to know what he really was, and there were some rags and messes around his waist.

He even said that it was purely for the sake of good looks! Poor households are now not asking for material help, but asking for spiritual help, and the staff said that they are helpless. When questioned about the mess in his house and his image was a mess, the man actually said that because there were no women, he had no way to clean up his house and house.

The essence of the incident is that the man belongs to the object of poverty alleviation work, and the staff also helped him build a new house, which was very clean, the road was neat, and even the piglets were sent to his home, hoping that he could re-establish hope for life and rely on his hands to get out of poverty. <>

A man in his 40s who does not have any health problems. However, the pigs that were sent before are now starved to the bones, and they would rather bask in the sun than get up to feed the pigs. You say that such a person, is his present poverty not caused by his own hands?

Reflection on the event: Poverty alleviation is indeed the first thing to do! In fact, in life, spiritual poverty is often far more terrible than material poverty. Through Leshan, a poor man, we also understand clearly what causes poverty among the poor.

If it is said that such a person only blindly asks for it and sits on the empty side, how can such a person, even if he has the help of others, to achieve a reversal from the predicament? <>

People are not poor, and they are often used to praise others, but now it is better, and when it is used on this man, it can be said that "people are poor and short-minded". Material poverty can be helped by the public, but spiritual poverty can only be solved by oneself!

If you don't even have the ambition to maintain your dignity, then you have lost the basic principles of being a human being!

Personally, I think this person is no different from those healthy and begging people under the overpass, they are all lazy people, who have hands and feet but are not willing to live a good life through their own efforts.

I think that such a poor household does not know how to repay his kindness, and people have helped him solve his worries about life, and the rest of his private life should be fought for by himself, and happiness is in his own hands.

Such a person should be poor.

In my opinion, his words are simply whimsical, because today's girls would not marry someone like him.

He lived the way he wanted, and he didn't care about him in the future.

This, let's send it to Sanwa to be Sanhe God.

Love and marriage are free, regardless of gender, species, or age.

Marriage is different from love, it contains too much, and love is just two people who love each other together.

Although the law advocates the freedom of marriage, it is not a wise choice to solve the problem with the law.

Freedom of marriage is protected by law in accordance with the law. No unit or individual may interfere. Interfering with the freedom of marriage of others, serious circumstances constitute a crime, and may be sentenced to criminal law in accordance with law.

Love is not explicitly stipulated in the law, but love is often an act for the purpose of marriage, marriage is protected by law from the inside, as a process of concluding marriage, free love is also protected by law, otherwise it will not be possible to guarantee the realization of marriage freedom.

Article 2 of the Marriage Act.

The marriage system of freedom of marriage, monogamy, and equality between men and women is practiced.

Protect the legitimate rights and interests of women, children and the elderly.

Family planning is practiced.

Article 3 prohibits arranged marriages, buying and selling marriages, and other acts that interfere with the freedom of marriage. It is forbidden to solicit money or property under the pretext of marriage.

Bigamy is prohibited. It is forbidden for a spouse to cohabit with another person. Domestic violence is prohibited. Abuse and abandonment between family members are prohibited.

Article 5 Marriage must be of complete voluntary choice between the man and the woman, and neither party shall be allowed to force the other or any third party to interfere with it.

Article 257 of the Criminal Law: Whoever violently interferes with the freedom of marriage of others shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than two years or short-term detention.

Where the crime in the preceding paragraph is committed, causing the death of the victim, a sentence of between two and seven years imprisonment is to be given.

The first crime is dealt with only if it is told.

Of course, it is protected by the law, and the modern era is not the past. But you still have to look at it clearly, and you can't afford to lose.

Freedom of love, family, law, no one has the right to interfere.

Because marriage has legal benefits, marriage has a marriage certificate, but there is nothing to prove in love.

Young men and women fall in love with each other, and it is a process of getting to know each other. After a certain period of contact and understanding, the love relationship is confirmed; Don't be interested, don't like it, and cut off the relationship; It takes a long time to get to know each other and then decide whether or not to decide whether to be in a relationship. The love process is sometimes short, and some are several years.

On the one hand, young men and women who are in early love lack social experience and are immature in considering problems, and on the other hand, due to changes in personal conditions such as going to school, employment, going to the city, and being promoted, it may lead to changes in thinking and affect romantic relationships. These situations are not uncommon in society. If the marriage contract is not protected by law, it is convenient for young men and women to choose their partners freely, to adapt to the changes that may occur in love, and to avoid the formation of marriages in which both parties or one party are not completely voluntary, so as to ensure a happy and happy life after marriage.

Marriage should be based on feelings, and they are all proposed by the poor, because they have nothing, so they talk about feelings, this sentence is originally a lie, you look at how many people around you are based on feelings.

When falling in love, first of all, a number of conditions are put forward, such as a house, a car, etc., and I haven't seen a few people, especially women, who have feelings for food on the street.

In fact, everyone has to give themselves a way of saying what they do. The purpose is to get something, and the feelings that can be grandiose are nothing, and they can change at any time, so the relationship between men and women should be bound by a contract (marriage).

Marriage has gone through legal procedures, has been recognized by the law, and has become a civil legal relationship protected by the law, and love is only a matter of two people, and no one will register with the civil affairs department if they are in love. In the eyes of the law, marriage is not just a matter of two people, it is closely related to family, upbringing, inheritance and other relationships, and it is necessary to be regulated by law. Love is limited by morality and society, and does not need to rise to the height of the law.

In short, not all relations between the parties can be interfered with by law, otherwise it would be contrary to the most basic principles of civil law of autonomy of will.

If you don't admit to being in love, you'll be hit. Isn't there a legal constraint on "illegal cohabitation" now, then it can also be regarded as a kind of protection, that is, to promote a normal love relationship, there is no legal constraint, and it is also the difference between love and marriage.

Because there is no legal certification for love, it does not have legal effect, and there should be no love certificate, so love is a matter between two people, and the law has no right to interfere; And to get married, you need to get a marriage certificate, and the marriage certificate is legalized, not just between two people.

What is love, and who can set this love boundary.

If you fall in love with Xiaosan, it can be regarded as love, if this has to be protected, then the world is in chaos.

The law must have valid evidence, and there is no "marriage certificate" for love

Because there is no way for the law to define something so emotional......

Of course you don't need to, but remember to be safe! If not, it's not good, but I guess not, remember that you must be safe, you have no financial ability, once something happens, there will inevitably be legal responsibility, you must know that the woman's parents and family will not tolerate it, and the reputation of the girl is not very good! You have to grasp the rest yourself, and the boy must be responsible.

If both parties are consensual, then it is not paying.

If you have children, you will be legally responsible ......

Depending on the age, free love is protected by law when you become an adult, but love is not marriage, and you cannot enjoy the rights and obligations under the marriage law. If a minor or girl is under the age of 14, there are some things that cannot be done, and it will be a crime.

There are two levels: the moral level and the legal level.

Two points: age, status conditions.

Falling in love with the stepfather's son, because there is no blood relationship, is legally permissible and will not interfere.

What is not allowed by law is the marriage of close relatives, that is, collateral blood relatives within three generations are not allowed to marry.

And in this case of yours, as long as you are not afraid of the eyes of the world, there is no problem.

It is also legally permissible to fall in love with your stepfather's own brother, if your household registration book is not in the same book, and you can prove it, it is also possible.

He bullied his own brother, and it is definitely not legal for you to fall in love, because your skin and your mother form a family, and legally you are brothers and sisters, although you are not related by blood, but you can't fall in love.

Legally, it's definitely okay, if you're not related by blood and you're single with each other, what's not okay. It's just that this relationship is awkward.

If you are not related by blood, it is legally possible, but ethically it is difficult for everyone to accept.

The law does not stipulate that you cannot fall in love with your stepfather's brother, as long as you are not a blood relative.

Hello friends.

This should be unrelated.

As long as there is no blood relationship, it is legally recognized.

It's just that I'm afraid the pressure from relatives and friends is relatively large.

You have to be mentally prepared for this.

Legally, yes, because you are not related by blood and are not consanguineous marriages.

There are no regulations, this is not a close relative.

This should be fine! You are not related by blood.

It's okay if you're not related by blood, because it's not legally allowed to marry close relatives, but it's okay if you're not related by blood.