Some problems getting along with girls after a blind date

There is only one truth in feelings, if you like it, you are brave to chase, you say you are introverted, but you are a boy, you don't take the initiative which your 2 feelings how can there be progress, I think no matter what shortcomings you have, as long as you pursue her very fiercely, sooner or later she will be impressed, girls like to be good to her, you are careful with her, Valentine's Day to give some gifts, of course, are all pluses. Don't always think that this is not good, that is not good, a brave attack can impress her.

1.Because I work in the field, every time I send her home, ask her to come out next time, okay?

There's nothing wrong with that, you can only say that you care about her, but you can't do it every day. Occasionally, I have to say that tomorrow I have a job (explain what kind of work) may not be able to go out.

2.Introverted girls don't like to think about me? Actually, I'm not wooden, but I don't talk much. And I'm new to her, and I don't know what to say.

Not necessarily, everyone has their own fate. But when two people are together, you always have to take the initiative at the beginning, you talk less, but now you can't talk less, and after you get acquainted with her, she will talk more with you.

3.The first time I came out, I wanted to have dinner. She said she wasn't hungry or anything, and she didn't want to eat.

I don't know what she doesn't like to eat, she says there's nothing she doesn't like. Then I went shopping and walked around, and finally didn't eat dinner. Isn't that rude?

Wasn't I a man enough, so I should have found a place to eat at that time? Because she doesn't say what she doesn't like to eat, I'm afraid of something taboo or something.

This, depending on what you said, you were not right at the time, he said that if he was not hungry, he would not eat, if he really went out for 1 day, she said that she would not eat, what should you do, don't you eat either? When you were strolling around, you bought your sister some snacks for her or something? After watching it for a long time, I also think that she seems to be a little unassertive or can't make up her mind (there are many people in society who don't know how to make up their own minds).

This is when you have to show the good in your man. In the future, when you get married, you will have to make your own decisions about major things.

4.She went to work on Valentine's Day and got off work at nine o'clock at night. Can I pick him up? Isn't it good to pick up someone after only one contact?

Talk to her about text or ** that day, it's best to mention Valentine's Day, and then casually say that we have a Valentine's Day together. Or text yourself 'I'll surprise you on Valentine's Day today' or something.

Let's talk slowly, don't be too anxious, it's not good to cause the other party to be annoyed.

1. You can make an appointment, but not too often, 2-3 days.

2. When chatting with her, try to pay attention to her hobbies and talk about things she is interested in. Relax and don't feel like chatting is a burden.

3, you can't be rude if you don't eat, she may not want to spend your money just after you know, if you don't want to eat, take her to drink some milk tea or something, just order.

4. You can pick her up, but just send her home and take her time.

It's a good opportunity to pick it up.

1. Take a group of relatives and friends on a blind date.

When many brothers go on a blind date, sometimes they will bring relatives and friends, in fact, I can understand you very well, after all, it is a blind date, you and the girl don't know each other's shirts, and I feel a little embarrassed to be alone, so I want to say that I will take a military advisor to go, so that I can help you check the gates.

But this is not an ordinary party, this is a blind date, in the world of love, can you still accommodate a third person?

You take a large group of people to meet a girl, do you think they really won't say anything? Although she said that she wouldn't say anything on the surface, she must have scolded you to death in her heart: What kind of person is this, it's really speechless to bring so many people on a blind date.

So since it's a blind date, let's go alone, spend this date together, find a quiet place to chat, talk about each other's intimate words, and shorten the distance between each other.

2. Qualitative evaluation.

What is qualitative evaluation? There are many brothers who have their own set of opinions, for example, when they meet on a blind date, they will say: What's the use of girls working so hard, and they don't have to return to the family in the end.

I think you have to have children when you get married in the future, and you have to give birth to two, etc., you listen, you listen, is this what people say, although you may think so in your heart, but these words, it is really not suitable to say them on a blind date, which will make girls feel that Zhenzhou, you are discriminating against women, and you will feel that your values do not match her, and your emotional intelligence is too low, so this type of words should not be said when you go on a blind date. Otherwise, you'll be out.

3. Ask the other person about their emotional experience.

There are some brothers, who may think that their conditions are not bad, and when they meet someone for the first time, they ask them about their emotional experience as soon as they come up, how many people have you talked to?

How did you break up before, that emotional intelligence is really too low, let me ask you, are you polite? After all, it's just the first time you've met someone, and it's a bit bad for you to ask them such a private question, no matter what they say on the surface, you have been eliminated in the hearts of others anyway.