Some problems in high school getting along with relationships .

If you like to watch boys fight, it means that those boys are not in the range that the girl likes. If a girl likes a boy, she will worry about whether he will fight with others and worry about whether he will get hurt. She said that she was very bored and wanted to beat people, and you said that she was usually quieter.

In fact, people's emotions are temporary, and so are boring moods, everyone will think about something they don't usually think about when they are in a bad mood, but it's just words, and not everyone wants to see the violent picture they imagine in their minds. What she needs most now is someone who can accompany her to talk about her psychology and her depression when she is bored, or can take her to the playground for a few laps to change her air and mood. Come on, there's nothing wrong with guys not liking fights, and people who like you never want to see you hurt.

First of all, boys who like to fight in high school may be because they vent the stress that is usually suppressed in their hearts through the actions of boys.

And then, everyone's preferences are different, and there are many reasons why girls like boys, some like boys who are serious, some like gentle boys, and so on, so you can't say that girls like to fight, and if there are, it's only a very few, not the majority.

Hope it helps

I can only be a manifestation of three wrong views When you study hard, you have to study hard When you fight and smoke in junior high school, people may think you are handsome, and in high school, others will be perfunctory with you, and the people who fight are the black sheep.

No, high school was an adolescence, and they didn't have the courage to vent when they were under pressure to study, so of course they just looked at others, and when they looked back when they were older, they probably felt amused by that thought.

No way? But sometimes when I watch a movie, I think the boys who fight are handsome, and I shouldn't be able to.

Stay away from these people.

When I had an argument with my classmates in high school, I chose to take the initiative to prevent the development of the conflict as much as possible, chose to use words to solve the problem as much as possible, and chose to take the initiative to solve the problem as much as possible.

1. Prevent the development of contradictions.

Studying is a very stressful thing for high school students, and it is best to spend students' time on studying, rather than fighting each other in their daily time. If there is some conflict between high school students, it is best for both parties to choose to stop the conflict, and if there are some quarrels between you right now, it is best to choose to take the initiative to shut up and walk away. If your problem is not solved, then pay attention to your emotions, don't let the problem worsen too much, and figure out what you want to gain from the problem.

2. Use words to solve problems as much as possible.

No matter what kind of contradiction occurs, whether it is a quarrel or a relatively serious problem, we must try our best to solve the problem with words. Because high school students are close to an adult in terms of physical development, if violence is used to solve the problem at this time, it will deepen the misunderstanding between each other, and will also cause some damage to each other's bodies, which will also bring certain obstacles to the academic career of high school students, which is not conducive to the physical and mental health development of high school students. Therefore, if there is a conflict, try to solve the problem in words as much as possible, and explain clearly what you need and why you are angry.

3. Take the initiative to solve problems.

When a conflict occurs, one of the more commendable things is that one of the parties chooses to calm down and communicate, or chooses to walk away temporarily, so that both parties' emotions can be calmed down, and then communicate. When solving things, the party that can take the initiative to solve the problem is relatively strong, and the problem should not be subjective or emotional, only in this way can the contradiction be successfully resolved. Once the contradiction is resolved, don't leave it in your heart overnight, some people will think about this contradiction repeatedly, causing themselves to fall into internal friction, which is an extremely bad thing.

This is very normal because people have the same personality, and you have conflicts with your classmates in high school. Because in the real environment, people are in this state, so I think it's very normal. There are contradictions in this matter, and it is not terrible, you should be ordinary and the contradictions are exposed.

Actually, I don't think it's anything, everyone is also fate to go to high school for three years together. It's possible that something is up, and I think you should be in good shape. If you think the other party is a very good person, then if you think he is a garbage, you don't have to get along with him anymore, that is, this matter is actually a relationship between people, not a mutual relationship, relatively speaking, it is also a relationship of continuous cognition, continuous understanding, this is the case, in fact, I think it is normal in high school or in junior high school, elementary school and classmates, you don't expect everyone to be able to say it.

So the personality of people is like this, everyone's personality is different, you are an extrovert, you expect you to be friends with an introvert. Maybe you have different interests and hobbies with him, how can you expect to be friends with him? So don't think that everyone can be friends, and every classmate can be friends.

It's impossible, but if there is a real conflict, it should be dealt with properly. You have to see what is the cause of this contradiction? Is it personal, or is it because of something in the class?

Actually, this is not a problem. Because these things are very small things in high school, compared to when you go out into society. So I think you should look at this objectively.

First of all, you should first formalize this problem, first of all, this problem exists, it depends on how you solve it, you want to leave this thing like this all the time. Ignore him or say that you want to make friends with him again, that's the kind of thing, in fact, I don't think there is a relationship between people, sometimes it's such a thing, if you think the other party is a very important person, then you can continue to make friends with him. If you think he's a piece of trash, you don't need to make friends with him, and you will say goodbye after graduation, which is such a thing, in fact, it is such a simple thing.

You must adjust your mentality, never conflict with others, and sometimes find problems from yourself.

You have to learn to help others, and then you have to take the initiative to resolve conflicts, you can talk to your classmates about everything, and you have to face each other sincerely.

You can take the initiative to be friends with each other, you can also take the initiative to invite each other to go out to watch movies and eat together, and you can go out shopping with each other to chat more with each other during breaks.

High school is an important year, don't think that high school friends are useless, every period of life is a special meaning, if high school friends are good, they will help you a lot, and when dealing with relationships, it is nothing more than two things.

1. Self First of all, you must be clean in your own image, not to make you dress up beautifully, but to love clean, to be tidy, if you don't take a shower for a few weeks, do you still make friends with you?

2. Be respectful of others Everyone has their own habits You can't ask everyone to be your friends Be generous and don't care about those who treat you badly Those things are all clouds after graduation On the contrary, friendship will be remembered There can be many friends, but there must be a few very good ones that will make your high school life better and can take care of you when you are sad.

Friendship at every time of life is a lifetime of wealth I wish you to find your friendship and have a great high school life.

Honesty, honesty is fine.

In fact, high school classmates are still very simple.

Believe that you are good to others, and others will be good to you. Care.

Make as many friends as you can, high school is half a society!

Don't mind too much about this, you don't need too many friends to go to high school.

The 1st floor is not good, who said that you don't need friends. If the other person does something sorry for you, you have to look at the reason. Don't convict each other lightly!

I don't think there's much point in comforting you. Since you said you were precocious, then I will say something a little sharp, I don't know if I can help you.

Strength and interests. These two words are decisive in any relationship, except for specific family affections. Only those who have strength will be concerned, and those who have interests will form groups.

To put it mildly: if you don't have the strength, you don't even have the value of being used. On campus, there are also many kinds of strength:

is extremely cheerful, making people feel like a spring breeze; Sports are extraordinary, making people's blood boil; looks cute, makes people think about it; Spending money is like dirt, which makes people extremely envious; But the most powerful thing is good grades (although this becomes less useful when you go to college).

Why is junior high school like a fish in water? Interpersonal communication is not complicated? Largely because of good grades, which means you have the strength.

Your good grades and strength don't you have to work on your interpersonal skills. But in high school, the grades are average, and even in any aspect is very ordinary, and if you want to have a good interpersonal environment, you must use interpersonal strength. However, if you didn't cultivate it before or say you don't need to cultivate it, you naturally feel very distressed now.

The above is an analysis of the reasons, and it may not be true. Just take a look, here are the suggestions:

The first way: exercise your interpersonal skills. (It's difficult, it's a long-term workout, it's even harder for introverts, the method is naturally there, but now I'm too lazy to say it, I'm going to talk about it for a long time).

The second way: get your studies up and leave others alone... This is the most direct, the simplest, the most effective, after learning well, you will find: why so many boring people to annoy you? Huh).

Finally, I want to say: people who don't have strength are like this, and they won't be taken seriously. Either you become powerful, or you adapt to the powerlessness you have now. Different ages should have different ways of interpreting, and your age should be a great time to not admit defeat...

Learning is for your own good, not for others.

You can try to start with topics that interest them, I'm very good at making friends with people, and I don't know how to deal with them.

I think that the problem is still on yourself, if a person shows that he is very good to get along with, others will naturally get close to you unconsciously, if that person shows that others think that you are not easy to get along with, others will not dare to provoke you.

That's all I want to say, I hope it will be of some use to you.

This classmate, in fact, I also encountered the same problem as you in high school, I think this is determined by my own character, in fact, you don't have to worry about this, high school is still focused on learning, as long as you study well, naturally someone will communicate with you, high school is only those three years, you have to think about your university, and after the college entrance examination is over, you will find that there is really nothing in high school, and you have to be cheerful, don't always live in your own world, I know that girls are sometimes very shy, But when you enter the society in the future, you can't tolerate shyness, you have to face everything confidently, life is to go on like this, girls can also have a girlfriend, you can talk about anything, friendship in high school is the purest in student days, you don't have to care how others see you, just be yourself, come on!

Learn to communicate with people. Overcome psychological barriers.

1. At least find a confidant by your side, even if you are not a confidant, at least you can speak from your heart.

2. Try a small gathering of 3 or 4 people, pay attention to the proportions of the conversation, and slowly let everyone understand your thoughts.

3. If conditions permit, participate in more interactive group activities.

4. Overcome the mentality of gains and losses, and keep a normal heart!

5. Learn to care for and be considerate of others, and exchange sincerity for sincerity!

Are you at the table male or female? Getting out of introversion is the ultimate inevitable goal, and there must be a lot of embarrassment in it. May you hold on.

Under normal circumstances, if you're a man at the same table, it's not a problem to develop into an iron buddy. If you're a woman, you can also make jokes or something.。。 Feelings can't be taught.

Otherwise it will be very stiff. It is very good to have 1 or 2 close friends in a person's life.

A group of people's elementary school, a class of junior high school, a few people's high school, a person's university, I am all high school students in school, you can work hard, don't be discouraged.

Then don't mess with them, at least that's what I am.