Going crazy, help me 30, going crazy, help me

It can be seen that your parents put a lot of pressure on you on your upbringing, making you competitive and self-esteem from an early age. But there are two sides to everything, it makes you a dumpling in the eyes of people, so you can't tolerate a little denial, when you find someone who is not sure of you in the new environment, you feel very inferior and feel inferior, or you will feel that you are not as good as people except for your family scenery is actually better than people, so that you will have a personality change that you ignore people and never say good things, in fact, to put it bluntly, you are using an alternative way to attract everyone's attention to you, but everyone has no intention of playing dumb riddles with you, the more you do this, the more your performance is inventive, Even with your husband now, the purpose is simple, that is, to make people affirm your existence and value. But you have made a mistake that many people will make, that is, to ask people to affirm you, first of all, you have to affirm others, as long as you really give, there will be a reward.

Your husband must have something you admire, how can you say that a man is not trustworthy? This is a denial of yourself in the first place!

I think it's impossible to start over in the past, you should face your life positively, knowing that if you continue like this, your home may fall apart. Your child is just over 1 year old, and if you don't correct this kind of personality, he will inherit your personality, so your life will be over!

From a psychological point of view, any psychological problem is related to the growth of childhood. You have a strong personality due to external pressure in your growth, and while achieving your grades, your self-esteem is too high, so when you are hit by reality after the college entrance examination, your hard self-esteem makes you fall into the abyss of inferiority.

Since I was a child, I have seen the world in a hierarchical way that surpasses others, so I put my position below the people around me while bearing the reality, and I can't help but become sensitive and inferior. Judging from the actual performance, you often oppose others, in fact, to attract the attention of others, not the opposition of opinions, and you don't like to talk, but also because of the inferiority complex, afraid of the consequences caused by your words, and then sensitive to the point of difficult contact.

In fact, you have already had a deep analysis of yourself, and you know the crux of the problem, but you have not yet found a way to adjust yourself, first you need to build your own confidence, which can be adjusted by giving yourself some simple goals and achieving them. Secondly, you need to establish an equal view of the world, everyone in the world is equal, not to surpass or lag behind, any expression of your does not represent the gap in status, relevant understanding, I recommend you to read some guiding books.

Changing any habit is not overnight, let alone a deep-rooted psychological habit, I hope you can read more encouraging books, or find some hobbies, to distract your pressure, and then adjust your mentality. Thank you.

It can be seen that you have strong self-esteem but low self-esteem, many people have had such contradictions, but your experience is more profound than others. If you want to make yourself normal, you can only rely on yourself. Remember to always believe in yourself and try to trust your loved ones and friends.

If you don't want to be miserable, you can liberate yourself, life always has to be lived, whether you want to be like this for the rest of your life or want to live every day, happiness can actually change in an instant. Changing yourself and overcoming yourself is the most important thing. Poverty is not a sin, I think it is a kind of wealth, it can inspire people's fighting spirit.

You are wrong to fix your position, all wealth is accumulated, think about how others have been poor and how they become so confident, this experience can only be experienced and known by yourself, this is the greatest wealth.

I think you have a little problem with psychology You have to change yourself and communicate more with others Like you don't like to talk, you can start with your best friend and slowly adapt to it Say your thoughts, and then listen to your friends In fact, there is no need to be inferior in life, I have a friend who said to me something like this: "You feel sad when you walk in broken shoes, but there are still people who walk without shoes".

There are bad people in this world, there are good people, of course, there are still many good people, and people are mirror animals, what you do to him (her), he (she) will be.

For you, you might as well care and cherish those who really deserve your attention, you.

As long as you believe that there will be a reward for paying, do a good job of yourself, and believe that with such a mentality to live, you will feel happy and happy every day, take your time, it is not easy to change yourself after all!! Come on.

People are defeated by themselves because you have not adjusted your mentality, and you can't blame others. You have to look for the reason from yourself, and if you can't find it, you can seek help from a psychologist.

For the sake of your children, you have to learn to see! In fact, life is not a big deal, you have to say this to yourself often!

Why is it said that there are no good men? Could it be because. Don't be too sad, look ahead, the sun is going to rise after all.