Falling out of love is too painful I want to drop out of school, what should I do if my student is t

Updated on psychology 2024-05-13
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Don't go my way. But I was in my third year of high school at the timeIt was still when I was about to graduate from the first semester.

    Because the one I love doesn't love me, I left the land of right and wrong in a fit of anger and went to the army (young and frivolous).In fact, society is much crueler than the little love you have at school! You can understand how you're feeling right now.

    It is indeed painful to watch a loved one talk and laugh with others, but refuse to be thousands of miles away. But I still have to continue my studies. Maybe it's hard for you to calm down and concentrate on reading.

    But as a man to take up and put down. Live a little more freely. Besides, you can't be the only one in your school who can attract you, right?

    It's okay to divert attention. You have to study hard, too. Take a step back and say:

    What can you do when you're so young (estimated 16 or 17 years old) to go out without studying? What will you do? What do you want to do?

    Even if your family is okay, I don't think your parents will agree. If the family is not good, he will not agree. When you really mature, you will realize how worthless and ridiculous it is to change the life you originally wanted just for the sake of a woman!

    Far from it. Of course, what you want to see most is a double harvest of your love students. Good luck!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Your real life hasn't started yet, and I can understand your discomfort. But feelings are not forced, it is a matter of two people on both sides. You don't regret it. Because you've tried.

    Your task now is to study, and you drop out of school for the sake of a girl. It's going to affect you for the rest of your life. It's really not worth it. You have to adjust your mindset now. Do well at your level.

    Even if you meet her, you must be like an ordinary classmate, don't have *** in your heart. Besides, you have to continue to go to school in the future, there are many girls who are suitable for you, study hard, this is the most important thing.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    A child, what should you know for going to school, for a girl who left you, give up your future, stupid, right?

    Study hard, make yourself better, find a good job in the future, and maybe at that time, she will regret it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    When you get to university, there are all kinds of girls, you study hard, get admitted to a good university, and find a better one.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    But don't, I'm the same as you, I dropped out of school, I broke up with my girlfriend, and now I regret it, and in the end, I have nothing, and I ended up hurting myself!!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Answer: Establish the mentality of working hard to learn scientific and cultural knowledge and putting your focus on studying. The most normal thing to do when you are a student is to study. Learning is what a student's mouth should do, since love is gone, then study with all your heart.

    As long as your academic performance is good, are you afraid that some girls will not like you? If you study well, you will have enough self-confidence, and the whole person will appear to be particularly energetic, so you don't have to worry, and naturally there will be girls chasing you. The boys who do well in our school are especially marketable among the girls.

    2.Go to your school's counseling room. The counselors in the school have national certificates, they must have been in the school for many years, they have dealt with students the most, and they must know the hearts and personalities of students best.

    3.Enlighten yourself. Falling out of love is really nothing, and falling out of love is to lay a solid foundation for the next relationship.

    I hope my answer will help you, dear, do you have any other questions? If you're still satisfied with my answer, please give a like (click on the lower left corner to rate, like), give a follow! I wish you a happy life and a safe life for good people!

    Ask if there is any way to completely forget about a person.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Lovelorn people are particularly easy to be emotional, trapped in the quagmire of pain and unable to extricate themselves, at this time we must learn to adjust their state in appropriate ways: first.

    1. Establish a correct view of love and tell yourself that falling out of love is not terrible, which is a small setback in the emotional field. Clause.

    2. Learn to divert your attention, keep yourself busy, and don't have time to think about falling out of love. Clause.

    3. Enrich your connotation and strength, and make yourself better, so that you can meet a more perfect partner.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Try not to think about the other person every day, and you have to avoid all the things related to him. You have to go through painful times like this in your life before you can really grow. When you get into college and look for a relationship, you'll know that you'll meet someone better.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In the matter of love, there is often no one right or wrong, love is just a kind of fate. When the edge comes, it gathers, and when it ends, it disperses. Being able to get married and accompany each other to the end of the world is a precious and inexhaustible fate.

    There is always such a person in this world, who is your thoughts and your warmth. Even if he is not far or close, as long as you think of him, you will always feel stable, feel down-to-earth, and feel confident in your heart. Even the air around them became calm.

    I have the ability to deal with relationship issues, maybe you can take the time to ask, should success not be a big problem.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    What is the reason for the breakup between you?,If it's not for the principle of reason, it's possible to get it back.,But if you can let it go, it's best.,If you can't let it go, you can try to redeem it.,After all, it's the person you love who missed it in vain.,It's really a little regret.,Redeem it, at least even if it fails, you won't regret it in the future.,The effective way to redeem can be seen in this book, which introduces in detail some basic skills and some wrong ways and means., Finally, I hope you can quickly get out of this lost emotion.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The most feared thing in the relationship is that one has been let go, and the other is still looking back, you are not good for yourself like this, but it will make him feel that you can't afford to let go, don't miss the old, don't entangle, don't look back.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If there is no sadness when you fall out of love, there is probably no taste in love.

    But young man, how do I find that you are even more devoted to broken love than to love?

    Girl: I lost the grapes in my hand, this regret, this loss, you are not a person, how do you know the sourness in it?

    Zen Master: If you lose it, you lose it, why don't you keep going, there are still many delicious grapes.

    Girl: Wait, wait until the sea is dry until he turns around and comes to me.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Would you like to talk? I once liked a girl, and then I confessed that I failed, and then I was very miserable and my grades dropped a lot.

    I can understand your feelings very well, at that time, I listened to a ** cry I heard before confessing every day, and I didn't know how I came out.

    Comfort you first!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It will be painful to fall out of love, but this is something that must be experienced to grow up! There's a reason why they broke up, right? Go for it hard, if you try hard and you still can't keep it, then let it go!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It must be the most important thing to regulate your mood, learn to let it go, look at your personality and usual methods, I will teach you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    First, analyze the reasons for your breakup, but the premise is that your three views must be correct.

    Second, you are only in love now, and you are in high school, and many problems are self-exaggerated, such as some boys are not dating in time, girls are dating without makeup and other small things are on the line, and even in high school, they talk about supporting their parents and children in the future, these are all nonsense! Study together, ** interests and ambitions are reliable, and don't talk about the outlook on life at the beginning of life.

    Third, you are not motivated to learn by other people, and you are not alive to achieve others. If you give up studying, you will be farther and farther away from the world, not to mention your front and back tables.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Even if you fall out of love because of your looks, or education, or cultivation, or temperament ......If you don't like the other party, they show you a "red card", and you don't have to look very hurt and blown: instead of envying the fish in the abyss, it is better to retreat and close the net.

    This is very insightful.

    If you have to ask for "high", you can't do it and you can't do it

    All I can do now is to enrich and improve myself.

    Save the good and remove the bad, check and fill the gaps, and make use of the strengths and avoid the weaknesses.

    Calm down, turn sadness into strength, change pressure into motivation, keep forging ahead and strive to enrich and improve yourself, and make yourself perfect and mature day by day to enhance your attraction and centripetal force.

    Follow the fate, and make a comeback.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Concentrate on your studies and don't think about them.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    There's no one here to help you, right? The process of forgetting a lost relationship and forgetting someone who no longer loves you is as painful as quitting drug addiction. When the addiction strikes, you tremble in pain, your body twists, you churn, you want to hit the wall headlong, you fall to the ground and struggle, crying bitterly, and you lose your dignity as a human being.

    There may be a lot of things you don't understand about the concept of love, and I think you can also learn it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It should be that the children's learning pressure during this period is already very high, and the emotional problems encountered by the digging line, so the mood swings will be very ruined, and if the judgment continues to be in school, it is very likely that an accident will occur.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    In this case, the child should not be withdrawn from school, and the child should be enlightened by liquid culture, and the child should be correctly recognized for emotional problems, and if necessary, the doctor should be seen to accompany the state.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It was indeed time for him to compromise, because depression affected him very badly, and the school environment would also make his depression worse.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Not everyone who passes by will know each other, and not everyone who knows each other will be worried.

    At least we didn't miss the ...... in this life, in that place, when we turned around

    Even if you said I was in the wrong time......

    Maybe we have all forgotten ourselves and experienced that sincere love.

    It's just that there is a relationship that can no longer continue, there is a person who can no longer snuggle up to each other, there is a voice that can no longer ring in the ears, and there is a pair of hands that can no longer hold the temperature and comfort of the palms.

    Not every love has beautiful memories, and not every memory is so unforgettable.

    Since we can't grow old together, let me celebrate the annihilation hand here to bless you.

    Because you are a concern that I will never be able to part with in this life. It's just that no amount of thoughts and worries can be exchanged for the days when I had you.

    It turns out that it is not easy to love you as it is to give up on you.

    Although you are vague about the questions I have asked, I still give the most sincere heart.

    If you really love me, then I am happy. Even if I can't go to the end of the world with you, my heart is still worried about you.

    I will pray and bless you forever, may you be happy --- safe forever.

    When you're unhappy, I want to shed tears with you. When you're unhappy, I want to be your pistachio.

    When you're lonely, I want to talk to you. When you're sad, I'm just as depressed as you are.

    When you dream of me, that's when I miss you again.

    I don't want you to give me too much, I don't want any promises from you, and I don't want any worries from you.

    I don't want you to remember me deeply, I don't want you to remember everything we used to do.

    I just want you to think of me occasionally, occasionally think of the person who once loved you so deeply, the person who once gave you tenderness with a smile--- gave you a complete heart.

    Remember! Your world, I once really came to ......

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