My boyfriend bought me a gift and he asked me to lend him some money...

Updated on psychology 2024-05-08
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I also think you're a little indulgent to your boyfriend. It's not wrong that his family is poor, but he doesn't know how to save, he doesn't know how to work hard, and he frequently borrows money from girls, which makes me look down on me. As a child from a poor family, he should be more sensible and self-respecting than others, right?

    If it's because of something at home, there's no way, but if it's borrowing money to spend, to satisfy the vanity that is already there, I despise him. To put it mildly, I think you're too used to him, give him a feeling that you're his bank, and I'll look for you when I run out of money, and you'll give him money anyway, I don't know if it's because you love him too much or if you're a little stupid. He won't be grateful to you for doing this, and if one day you don't have the money to lend him, maybe he will break up with you.

    In any case, you should make it clear to him that your relationship should not be full of money, and you should also encourage him to be independent and self-reliant. The above is a personal opinion, I hope you think about it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Although I don't pay attention to relying on men now, at least men and women are equal, and if you indulge him like this, he will spoil her, and I don't think you need to give him money. If you really want to give you a gift, even if it's a rubber band, you will be happy, if you love him very much, please let him be independent, you can't change it, and you don't like this, it's not appropriate!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Annoy him, then it depends on his ability, whether there is a problem with his attitude to life, if not, kick him! Think twice, but for a lifetime!!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Do you know why poor people are hateful?

    Don't go and pity the poor people!

    He has hands and feet, why can't he make money! I bullied you so much if I didn't get married! You are still willing!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I don't approve of him, it's not good, I don't like men to do this......It makes people feel that the purpose is not pure......

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you ask your boyfriend for money and he gives it to you, it means that he loves you, and if he doesn't love you, he can't ask for it, after all, he will give you money if you want it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Yes, of course, any man will spend his money on people he doesn't like. If a man is willing to spend money for you, it means that he has you in his heart. If he is not willing to spend money for you, then leave decisively.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you ask him for money and he will give it to you, it shows that he still loves you and is willing to spend money for you. So you have to cherish it too.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think he should love you, if he doesn't love you, even if you have no money, he won't give it to you, let alone care about you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Love needs to be tested by time, and at the moment it can only be said that he is quite satisfied with you and will not be too stingy with money.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

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  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The boyfriend asks himself to borrow money to buy gifts for himself, which means that he has no financial strength and likes to save face, such a person is not worth dating, because a man can no longer borrow money from a woman, let alone his girlfriend.

    For a person who is not capable of creating romance, but does not forget to reach out to his girlfriend to borrow money to create romance, I think the best way is to let him go first and make good money to support himself decently.

    A qualified lover should have the ability to take good care of himself and then love others well. Therefore, it is better to break up.

    Male and female friends get along with each other

    1.Boyfriends and girlfriends should know how to respect each other when they are together. A pair of lovers have just arrived together, everyone has their own living space and living habits, when they are together, they should pay attention to mutual respect, and slowly adapt to each other, so that the relationship can last for a long time.

    2.Don't be too macho for men.

    Finish. Many lovers end up breaking up because women can't stand male machismo. Machismo is a legacy of Chinese history, men should pay attention not to fall back to masculinity too much, learn to understand women, let women feel that you care about her, and not always show domineering in front of their girlfriends.

    3.Men and women should be careful to respect each other's parents. Parents have raised us from childhood to adulthood, and if you respect each other's parents, the other party will also respect your parents, so that both parties will be together to reduce the resistance from the family side.

    4.There may be some contradictions between men and women, but to solve them by yourself, it is best not to tell your own thoughts to others at will, causing deeper contradictions.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Ask your boyfriend to give him a little money, and he will give it. It shows that he still likes you and still loves you. You don't want to be sure that he really likes you and loves you just because you ask him to give you a little money and he gives it to you.

    It also depends on whether there is real affection between you Dear friends, hello, boyfriend gives you money to spend is like your dear friend, we can understand it this way, because men they are more rational Oh, their words give us money to spend means that they are more recognized by us, give you money, the meaning of the flower is not on behalf of or like our dearest, friends boyfriend to you, money to spend is, like you Oh but if he doesn't like you or him, It's a small-bellied guy who won't give us money to spend at all.

    Dear friends, hello We all know that a man who loves you must be willing to spend money for you. When he spends money for you, he doesn't pay attention to the money itself at all, but to your feelings. You are happy and pleasant, then everything is worth it.

    You can buy whatever you want, and you can spend it however you want. You spend hard and he earns hard, which is the deepest thought in his heart. So, when your boyfriend is not stingy when he spends money for you, then he must love you very much.

    Not necessarily, if he has no money but is willing to spend all the money on you, then he must love you, but if he is rich, he just wants to get you by spending some money for you. It depends on what the situation is. You have to see what he has and what he lacks, if he himself needs something very much, but he is willing to give it to you, that is to love you, then do you think that not spending money means love?

    Willing to spend money, at least in material consumption, treat you as your own person (maybe temporarily) Unlike ordinary friends, draw a clear line in consumption Of course, you rise to the spiritual level, love or not, you must not just talk about money to measure, after all, talking about money hurts feelings, it only accounts for a small part, and you have to figure out the rest, such as character, character, your three views, and whether you can tolerate the shortcomings in each other's life....In short, the relationship maintained only by money does not last long, and if you feel inappropriate and uncomfortable, you should make it clear as soon as possible and leave.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Hello, he should still love you, after all, after you asked him, he immediately replied, so it means that he still cares about you in his heart.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    "Judge whether a man loves you or not, ask him for money, love you if he gives money, and don't love you if he doesn't give money. According to this statement, of course, the more money you give, the more you love. A woman who truly loves you and wants to marry you for the rest of her life will never try to spend all your money when she is in love with you, she is just testing you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Since two people are in love, if they lack money as lovers, of course they should help, if they don't give their boyfriend any money, it means that he is very picky, and he doesn't love himself, but don't frequently ask his boyfriend for money, otherwise he doesn't have a taste in his heart, after all, everyone is equal, and it is not a husband and wife relationship. As long as you are good to your boyfriend, your boyfriend will still love you, and if you are short of money, you can ask your boyfriend to help, but it's best to give it back, otherwise it will seem that you are taking advantage of him, as if you are using your boyfriend as an ATM.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Look at you, you think he is good to you, and it is worth your gift for him whether or not to give a gift, and how much to give.

    For example, love is a matter of two people, if both of them are in love with each other and have the willingness to combine with each other, then naturally there is no need to say anything, but if one party is too familiar with the two people and has no feeling or willingness to be in love, this situation is not impossible, so it still varies from person to person.

    Love Meaning. The meaning of love: It is a kind of attraction of two loves, and the maintenance of heart to heart.

    The meaning of love: it is respect, understanding, acceptance, tolerance, sincerity, and trust. The nature of love proclaims its sacredness!

    The meaning of love: It is a kind of attachment that "the belt gradually widens and never regrets".

    The meaning of love: it is a kind of giving, a spirit, a realm, a quality, a strength, a persistence, and a courage.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Summary. First of all, Valentine's Day is originally a day to express love for his lover, if he gives his mother such an expensive gift, it means that his mother may have a very good relationship with him when he was a child, causing him to grow up, and the first thing that comes to mind is to give something to his mother. Don't think too much about it, he gave you a gift of more than a hundred dollars.

    It's also some tickets that have their own hearts, but they say that they are slightly cheaper on **.

    My boyfriend gave me a gift of more than 100 yuan on Valentine's Day, but he gave his mother a gift of more than 1,000 yuan.

    First of all, Valentine's Day is originally a day to express love for his lover, if he gives his mother such an expensive gift, it means that his mother may have a very good relationship with him when he was a child, causing him to grow up, and the first thing that comes to mind is to give something to his mother. Don't think too much about it, he gave you a gift of more than a hundred dollars. It's also some tickets that have their own hearts, but they say that they are slightly cheaper on **.

    Don't complain too much about him either, first of all, he prepares a gift for you, which already shows that his feelings for you are also good.

    Secondly, it may be due to some economic and other circumstances, so that the gift is not very expensive.

    Does he belong to a single-parent family?

    Not a single-parent family.

    In that case, why did he give it to his mother? Because his mother also has a partner.

    You will feel that he will pay more attention to his mother's feelings in later life, and not so much to you.

    First of all, we should first consider the matter itself.

    You should think about it, the things you buy for your parents definitely need to be a little more expensive and practical. So maybe it's a little more expensive.

    But it is impossible to go and prepare for his mother every Valentine's Day, probably just right. This holiday reminded my mother, prepared a gift for her, and then I didn't have much money in hand, so I prepared a slightly cheaper one for you.

    His mother would give him a few ** every day, and she would tell his mother about anything every day.

    shows that in this case, he is still more dependent on his mother.

    At what age are you in a relationship?

    It shouldn't be too big, otherwise I wouldn't be so dependent on my mother.

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