I m 33 years old and look like 20 haven t been married yet? 10

In fact, the difference between maturity and immaturity lies in whether or not you can adapt well to society.

So, if you have more contact with different people, deal with things more independently, and try to reduce your dependence on your parents and anyone, you will become more and more adaptable to this society, and you will look much more mature.

However, it should be noted that in the process of maturity, you will give up a lot of things that are very precious, such as simplicity, dreams, kindness, in addition, you will encounter a lot of setbacks, and you will feel pain from time to time, but this is something that everyone has to go through.

Ah, this question, I used to read the newspaper that there were people like this, I don't know what to do, but I think you can try to do something by yourself, take it independently and do it independently, encourage yourself when you encounter difficulties, and be brave.

Such people account for a large percentage. Like me, I'm 38, but people say it looks less than 30Working in the office, good things can't always compete with others, and now the monthly income is only more than 3,000.

The relationship with my wife is not good, and I want to divorce and have too many concerns. Others look at you as immature, but you are actually very annoying.

As for you, if you are a man, you are destined to suffer in society. Now the society is a highly competitive society, and if you are not ruthless, you will be suppressed. If it's a woman, it's better.

People will let you go some way, and you don't have to fight for everything like a man, just have a similar job. The most important thing is to find the right husband, it's good to have a husband who feels sorry for you, if you don't feel sorry for you, you will feel that you are a bully and will be even more messy outside.

In his 30s, he was not married and searched for companions, but he was considered by his family to be psychologically wrong, which made people cry and laugh, but it also made people ponder, why marriage has become a "task" that must be completed in life?

If it weren't for my mom reminding me over and over again, I wouldn't have thought I'd be 31 years old at all, but my ID card kept telling me that yes, I'm 31 years old and not married yet. I grew up in a small second-tier city, in such a city, most people will choose to graduate a year or two to get married, 31 years old, unmarried women, in the eyes of many people, maybe a god-like existence. As soon as people heard that I was not married, they began to introduce me to someone, and when they heard my age, it was an unbelievable expression.

I'm okay, I'm used to it, but my mom is not used to it, and since I was 28 years old, she mobilized all my family and friends to go on blind dates for me.

Since I reached the 30-year-old mark, my mom has only two requirements for my future partner: male and alive. In my mother's eyes, the fact that I don't get married has been linked to the insult of the family.

This year, the birthday gift given to me made me cry and laugh even more, it was a business card of a psychological counselor and a paid course of 5 love lectures.

Actually, Shijing, it's not that I don't want to get married, it's just that I haven't met the right person. It's just that in the eyes of my parents, my so-called love and suitability have become an excuse for me to shirk and not want to get married. I talked to my parents a few times, and they only understood in words, but they still kept giving me blind dates and forcing me to marry.

Actually, I have a good job, I took out a loan to buy a small house, I have a car, and in such a second-tier city, life can be said to be rich and worry-free, I don't understand why my parents always think that if I can't get married, I will be very unhappy. I look at many of the little sisters around me who are married, life is still chickens and dogs, many of them because they feel that they are old, they hurriedly find someone to make do with marriage, some have divorced, I insist on my choice and love is wrong?

It's normal for a boy to be 30 years old and not married. Now at the age of 30, there are a lot of people who are not married.

However, men and women living in the city have a little fear of getting married, which makes them not very eager to get married, resulting in many people in their 30s and not yet having a family. But why is this happening? This has to be analyzed from many aspects.

Whether it is now or in the past, we can see such a phenomenon: children who drop out of school in rural areas, in addition to working, will quickly decide their lifelong events. This is because they are exposed to society earlier than those who go to school, but society has reduced the possibilities for them, so they have to choose to start a family first.

But in today's information age, many people have ingested a lot of knowledge, so they will have a lot more choices, and there is no need to start a family first.

Clause. Second, the dazzling outside world makes us greedy, and starting a family has become a bondage.

Marriage represents a family responsibility on oneself, and all one's words and deeds are invisibly constrained, and even many occasions are not suitable for them. But being single does not have so many constraints, and now the Internet makes people see a different world, so naturally there will be many people eager to contact the outside world. Who will get married at this time?

After all, chasing represents that you may give up the opportunity to open your eyes.

Clause. Third, the independent thinking is deeply rooted and the quality of life is improved.

Whether we work or start a family, we have only one motivation: to improve our quality of life. Nowadays, many office workers have become accustomed to the mode of being alone and are quite satisfied with their quality of life.

Since they can achieve their own satisfying life by living alone, why should they get married? After all, marriage involves two families, which makes many people afraid of getting married.

Clause. Fourth, marriage has too high requirements for material and money.

Everyone knows that the thing that must be experienced before marriage is the bride price and dowry, which is a big burden for an ordinary family, after all, the bride price and dowry are not a small amount. What's more, the premise of many people getting married now is that they must have a house, but the current housing prices are not affordable for ordinary people.

Therefore, many people think that they do not have the financial ability to start a family at present, so they would rather be single.

In fact, late marriage is not only a major phenomenon in China, but also gradually appears in other countries, because people nowadays are still very independent economically, and their thinking and imagination are also quite advanced, and there is no need to depend on anyone to live.

And their quality of life is not low, there is no need to live with the other half before they can have a qualitative leap in their quality of life. Therefore, late marriage is not because girls have too high requirements for men, nor because boys are not capable enough, but because everyone has different pursuits and requirements for life. Marriage is not something that everyone has to go through in their life, if marriage makes you happy, then get married and vice versa.

Nowadays, many young people of the Chen family have not married at the age of 30, and there are many reasons: conceptual problems and reluctance to get married. Under financial pressure, he did not dare to get married. Reasons for work, not having a marriage partner, etc.

Conceptual problems, not wanting to get married: Influenced by many wrong views of marriage in society, celibacy is harmed, hedonism is rampant, and people think that they can live faster without marriage. Being alone, without the pressure of life, is absolutely free to do it by itself, thinking of **going**, one person is full and the whole family is not hungry, how many troubles are saved.

In the past, marriage was for a better life, but now you can live a better life if you don't get married, so why get married? In the past, marriage was mostly due to the pressure of parents, and it was passed on to the next generation, but now this concept has fundamentally changed, and parents no longer care so much about these, and they can't control the street talk of some irrelevant people in society, and they can live a chic and happy life alone.

The economic pressure is high and they dare not get married: young people marry late, not because they don't want to get married as soon as possible, but because the economic pressure is too great, and getting married means buying a house and a car, and they have to ask for a large dowry. Organizing a wedding and hosting a banquet requires a large amount of expenses, and under such circumstances, as a young boy, who has just graduated or just started working, it is almost impossible to hope for marriage without the support of his parents.

Normally, I am going to get married, the family conditions are better, relying on the support of my parents, I can barely give a down payment for a house and a loan for a car, however, the living expenses after marriage are getting more and more day by day, and I am getting bigger and bigger day by day, I can't count on my parents forever, the loan has to be repaid, the milk powder has to be bought, and the life cannot be lived.

Work reasons, no one gets married: many people get married late, out of helplessness, due to the work environment and the nature of the work, there are too few people of the opposite sex around, there is no object to fall in love, plus the work is too busy, there is no time to fall in love, there are no friends, where is the marriage partner? In the end, I can only rely on the push of my parents, relatives and friends, and fall in love on a blind date, and I have no choice but to postpone love and marriage.