I don t quarrel with my boyfriend, but I always say something cold and close to a breakup, what s wr

You have low self-esteem and are cold on the surface, but on the inside you crave the attention of others.

Because of low self-esteem, you don't dare to face up to the problem, because of desire, so you will use this extreme method to try to get the attention of the other person. You love him very much, but you are not sure if he loves you so much, so you will use cold language to tempt.

If you use this method too much, the other party will be very indifferent. Because how would you feel if your boyfriend was like you?

Be brave, travel more, and open your eyes and mind

When I had an argument with my boyfriend, I would ignore him and he would ignore me. I'll definitely wait until he talks to me first.

I do that sometimes, too. Bear two faces under one hood. It turned out really bad.

He'll think you're really cold to him. I can't control myself, and I always scold myself afterwards.

I'll really have to pay attention to it in the future. Think a little more empathetically.

When two people are together, there are inevitably contradictions. We should understand each other, and if you always say something indifferently about the distance, it may be true that the distance will be opened up after a long time. Maybe really back to lose him.

If you really love your boyfriend, I hope you don't.

I don't think it's good for you to do this, maybe you don't think it yourself, but you already have plans to alienate him, if you still want to get along with him, or say less such things, it's very hurtful,

Then you will easily lose his.

Every time I quarrel with my boyfriend, he is silent when I say that I will break up, and he will not reply when he texts him because of small things he doesn't want to explain, leaving each other a way out, machismo, he loves you but doesn't know how to do it, and men think that silence solves the problem. 1. He doesn't want to explain small things Women always like to worry about trivial things, but men are naturally bored and don't like to explain too many reasons, because these things are not worth mentioning in the eyes of men. Moreover, he may be busy with work on weekdays, coupled with the need to earn money to support his family and other stressful reasons, he doesn't have time to explain too much, and he also needs a quiet space.

2. Leave a way out for each other Some men have a bad temper, or even a big temper, they can understand that it is not easy for their wives after work, or the two have just been newly married, and they are distressed about each other at work, and men will be upset when they hear their wives' complaints, so they will try to tolerate and choose to think about problems and reflect on problems in a silent way. So, as a woman, don't think about why men don't explain after a quarrel, because many times conflicts are made. 3. Machismo My girlfriends around me have complained to me that I sometimes quarrel with my husband because of the problem of taking care of children, but every time I give in, why can't men give in, why are people who are almost thirty years old still so machismo.

When I heard my girlfriend say this, I told her that you yourself know that machismo needs to be changed slowly, and you can put forward your own opinions euphemistically without provoking conflicts. 4. He loves you, but he doesn't know how to do it A man expresses his love differently than a woman, and he will be distressed after every quarrel, but he doesn't know how to regress and bow his head. We all know that some men just had a good face at the time, but they refused to retreat, so they were stalemate with each other.

At this time, you might as well giggle and see if the other party has come up with a way to resolve the conflict, and give each other a step down. 5. Men think that silence can solve the problem Basically, some men think that instead of chattering with their wives, it is better to be silent, and if they are silent and don't speak, maybe their wives won't talk anymore, and the conflict will be resolved naturally. However, men forget that women like to be cranky, and that the more silent they are, the less they love each other.

At this time, I will agree, since the other party is already about to break up with me, I don't think there is any need to call the Qi clan to keep me, otherwise I will be a very humble image in the eyes of the other party.

You should have a good talk with your boyfriend, and if you feel that you can't continue, you should agree to Pi and Chun's boyfriend's proposal.

I think I will also agree to break up a few days ago, because he doesn't love anymore, and he won't say so calmly if he doesn't love me, he won't stalk and regret it, and let himself live a more chic life.

I think it's time to break up, once the man appears, it means that he has slowly lost his feelings for you, but he doesn't know how to break up with you.

Yes, it means that he has no feelings for you anymore, and you will only feel pain if you continue to dating.

You should choose to break up, which means that your boyfriend no longer loves you, so he will be so perfunctory to you and so cold to you.