If you fall in love with a man who doesn t work, but you also like him, what would you choose 20

I was born to be useful! How can you see it if it is useful or not, everyone has his shining point, everyone has his shortcomings, what you said he is useless does not mean that he does not have too much money, money is not omnipotent, but no money is absolutely impossible, I think he should know very well about the electronics industry as a network administrator, so say that the brain is good, don't give up, as long as he loves you, really loves you, really good to you, you can't say that he is useless, how can it be useless, think about it, what do you want most.

In fact, my brother also encountered the same problem, very fateful, but that girl is from Weihai, take advantage of it, I hope you can correct your mentality, understand what you want, and know what to do.

No one will give up the person they like, unless the other party doesn't like you, I think you still go with the flow, and if you are a man, you will have the responsibility and will strive for the happiness of your woman. If he can't give you happiness, do you think you'll still like it? Let's see for yourself.

People will always become, and the current boyfriend may be a little poor in life, but it may not always be like this in the future.

Agree upstairs, do you love him or not?

If you love him, then love him well, don't think about it, if you love him, then you don't choose him.

The ability to love someone, not love someone.

is the so-called love of the house and Wu, like him because of his advantages, then you have to tolerate his shortcomings, and besides, it is not necessarily a shortcoming.

Good luck!

Your definition is too early, and if you don't find a suitable job now, it doesn't mean that he will be useless in the future. You should motivate him and not look down on him like others.

It's good to like it"I hear a lot of this kind of thing.

Or let him have room to work on his own.

It makes him feel like a man who stands up to the sky

I don't think there is much development for such people. If it were me, I would choose to leave

Because I have, too. In the end, people are still realistic. Do you understand?

In my opinion, you just like him and don't love him, or you wouldn't look down on him!

To love someone is to love everything about them! Isn't it?

You should reflect on whether you love him or not!

Otherwise, you can let him learn his favorite major, and if not, there is no need for this kind of man to waste your youth!

Since you dislike him, how can you love him!

Just love Him. There is nothing to be sad about.

I agree with the one upstairs.

Why do you say that people are useless?

Do you love money?

You and Qian get married

It doesn't necessarily mean that if you don't love me, you'll fall in love with someone else, it's possible that it's because the two of you are tired of being together, so he decided to break up.

No, this has nothing to do with others, it can only prove that the relationship between the two of you has faded and there is no need to be together.

No, some men are just tired of you, but they don't fall in love with someone else.

If I like a boy, but he doesn't like me, I give up and silently wish him happiness. Because love is mutual, you can't force it, and there's no need to waste time and embarrass yourself.

At this time, you should take the initiative to make it clear to the other party, if the other party doesn't like you, you must stop the loss in time, and you must stay away from the other party, because the feelings can't be forced.

Will strive to pursue each other, show their hearts to each other, often appear in front of each other, and impress each other with their sincerity.

This is caused by your lack of assertiveness and the fact that you don't know what kind of love you really want.

Some people say that girls have no love, and whoever is good to her, she will be good with whomever she is. This seems to be fine, and many people recognize it, but many people ignore one point, what girls really need, not only that good, but also the deeper needs of their hearts. The second is, how long can boys be so good.

It's like a girl likes a piece of clothing, which is a little expensive, but the guy graciously buys it for her. The girl instantly felt that this boy was good to her, and then the boy took her to eat, go shopping and watch movies, she felt that this boy was too good to her, so they were together.

Later, she kept wanting to dress up like this, and the boy's economy was not allowed, she felt that the boy was not good to her and didn't love her anymore, so she proposed to break up. The boy was fed up with such non-stop demands, and knew that he couldn't satisfy her, so he had no choice but to break up.

After the breakup, the girl looked at the clothes that the boy bought for her, although they were outdated, she didn't like them anymore, but she felt that it was a pity to throw them away, after all, they were once favorites, and they were so expensive.

Therefore, many girls will keep asking for such goodness, but they ignore what kind of love they want. This is also related to women's thinking, they care about the beauty in front of them, but they do not have long-term good plans.

They think that as long as you are good to me now, you should be good to me in the future, but they ignore that everything will become.

Therefore, if you want to put an end to whoever loves me, I will love whoever I want, then you must deeply understand what your needs are, and then make targeted choices, don't veto such love because it is not good at all, and then another love appears, and you feel that this love is not good.

If this thinking does not change, it will always be yourself who will be hurt in the end.

P.S. I once read such a question on the Internet: There are two boys like me at the same time, who should I choose?

This kind of answer is also suitable for the questioner, which is to think about what kind of love you really need, what kind of love is what your heart desires and can last.

Rather than the superficial hall material reform is good, the superficial kind of excellent, you have to consider it in combination with your real needs. This kind of love will go a long way.

Similarly, this is also the reason why many divorced people now, at the beginning they felt that she was good to you, but they felt that they were a lifelong person, and they didn't choose to think about it, and they didn't choose to recognize it.

This is too much to care about the inner need to pretend to be judged, but to care about the surface.

There is no answer to whether a man and a woman fall in love, whether it is the stimulation of each other's hormones or the promotion of mysterious forces. Some people say it's feeling, some people say it's fate, I say it's each other's pants, and they agree to show another self, a different self, which makes me feel that there is a value in existence. The inexplicable liking is just a moment, a look, a smile and a cheek, all of which are soul-moving.

It is as warm as the scorching sun in winter, as soft as the spring breeze, as warm as summer, and as pleasant as autumn.

Everyone has a love for beauty, and both men and women are stupid. Perhaps for love itself, it is pleasing to the eye, and it varies depending on personal preferences. "The king of Chu has a thin waist, and he starves to death in the palace" This is an extreme example, but Aiwu and Wu are the natural nature of their true temperament.

If you love him (her), you will love everything about him (her), her (his) stinky temper, her (his) stinky socks, if you love him (her) if you can't tolerate the slightest flaw, it is only a matter of time before you try to change his (her) love and go to the grave. If you become him or she becomes you, you will inevitably get bored after being together for a long time, and change itself is a slow suicide of losing yourself. In the end, what you get is nothing more than a tool for a marriage without a mind and a soul.

And at this time, you have complained about his lack of interest, inability, and so on, who can blame him? Marriage and love have long become "happiness" in the eyes of others in your mind, and love is only a "game" that is not responsible.

There's nothing wrong with weighing the pros and cons, it's just that whether you have your own core needs is the yardstick for starting or ending a relationship. A man will not choose you because you love him very much, and a woman will not accept you because of your heart-to-heart dedication, but they are just "weighing the pros and cons" of each other.