The girl I like has been breaking up for a long time, is it appropriate for me to confess now?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-02
41 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Isn't it obvious that a woman is willing to tell you about his ex? One of the pressures on you is to think about why you don't act! No one lives lonely, brother, how can you still maintain the ideas of the feudal society of the last century in the United States! go ahead!

    At the same time, on your birthday, it's best to call n to and then you and her 2 When the time comes, you turn the war into a jade silk, the right time and place and the right people It is the time of good times and beautiful scenery! Come on, by the way, the ex you said That's all, as long as you do better than her ex, no one will remember the past, people are like this, forgetfulness is the norm, and doing well in the present is real.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Well. It's best to see how he's in the mood. You can confess when he's happiest or when he's most sad.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Of course it's appropriate, maybe she'll be waiting for you to confess.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The time seems ripe, and your birthday is a good opportunity.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    First of all, you must be brave to confess, if you don't confess, you won't get anything, and if you confess, you still have a chance; It mainly depends on the woman, if she is willing to be good with you, then she will accept you, if she is not willing, then you will have nothing to do with you. If you accept that you and her ex can no longer be broken, this is a must.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's the perfect time to surprise her with a romantic surprise and confess to him, and you're going to have a windfall.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    took the initiative to confess to her, I am a woman, and I feel the same.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's okay to say love! o Support you!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    People who confess their agreement and then regret it have the following thoughts, you might as well take a look! You're just his spare tire.

    I'm afraid of losing, but I don't want to be together. To him, you may just be a spare tire, and he doesn't really like you. But sometimes people are driven by possessiveness.

    When they don't want to lose you as an alternate partner, they will drive them to show their love and keep you, but they will regret it when they come back to reality.

    I don't really like it. I haven't decided yet. Sometimes people aren't very clear about how they feel.

    Perhaps at a more opportune time, the people or circumstances around him prompted him to express his feelings, which he did, but only after doing so could he figure out his feelings. After I realized I wasn't that much like you, I never wanted to be together again. I can't make mistakes again and again.

    I had no choice but to go back.

    You suddenly find someone you like more. Sometimes things in the world are just coincidences. Perhaps, after confessing his sins, he found someone more like him.

    Someone important enough to make him want to be with him, someone who lets him know how he really feels. For the person you like and the person you don't like so much, the answer is self-evident.

    Didn't get the results you wanted, trying to get back into each other's comfort zone. Sometimes the result of confession is not what you expect, but once a lot of words are spoken, it is difficult to take them back, which is the risk of confession. Therefore, there will be many people who are willing to love for a long time, but they don't want to express their inner feelings.

    After confessing, I didn't get the results I wanted, but I still couldn't let go of the intimacy and beauty of the relationship, so I had to choose to go back and return to a position where we were comfortable with each other. At the same time, it is also a way to give each other satisfaction rather than embarrass each other.

    A casual flirtation, or a game. You take it as a serious matter, maybe it's just a joke for him. So, it's not the so-called "regret" at all, but in his heart, he didn't take it as anything, or just a punishment for losing a match with a friend.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    This is very normal, maybe this girl didn't know you very well when she agreed to be with you, and two people can't tolerate some of your shortcomings after being together, so they choose to break up.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This is not normal, it is very likely that this woman already has her crush on someone, maybe you are just a spare tire, and when she and her boyfriend are reconciled, they will break up with you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's not normal, it means that the other party doesn't like you at all, and then she also feels that the way the two people get along is not what she likes, so she doesn't want to delay your time.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I don't know if you've ever heard of such a saying:

    Confession is not a clarion call to charge, but a triumphant song of victory";

    The meaning of this sentence is that when you are sure that the other person likes you, you confess it again, so that it will come naturally;

    And when you haven't figured out what the other party thinks of you, if you confess rashly, there is a high probability that you will be rejected and very embarrassed;

    Judging from your description, this girl doesn't like to chat with you online without a word;

    Relatively speaking, she prefers real feelings, such as meeting you;

    Meeting is the best way to enhance the intimacy of two people, and it is also a way to get to know each other faster;

    This is good news for you, you can gradually increase the intersection of two people by meeting, so that the relationship can sprout in the meeting;

    When the other party starts to ask you out to play, or when they show favor to you when they meet, it means that the other party starts to like you;

    At this point, you can then prepare for the confession;

    In the face of the urging of your family, you must be stable, and you can't be in a hurry, so as not to pull out the seedlings and promote the growth, which has a reverse effect;

    And tell your family that you are making progress, so that they can stabilize and believe in themselves;

    In this way, you can gradually solve internal and external troubles, and go down with ease according to your own plan.

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  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You and he only met through a blind date, so the emotional aspect is definitely not very deep, no matter how you confess or say goodbye to the girl, it is appropriate, don't worry about the girl being hurt.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Your idea is correct, since you are intentional, it should be a little different and new, girls generally prefer romantic, creative dates, and, in appropriate circumstances, can be brave to confess.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I think you can try it, if the confession is successful, then it means that there is still a fate between you and you can continue to get along, otherwise you should give up as soon as possible.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It is more appropriate to confess or say goodbye to a girl you like in this way, which fully reflects your respect for him.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's okay for you to think about it, because she didn't refuse your invitation, she just said that usually there are roommates in the dormitory to pick up **, which may disturb people's rest, so you can be brave and follow your own method.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you met on a blind date, I think your approach is appropriate, blind dates, they are all straight to the point, and free love, there is still a little difference, a little direct, there is nothing wrong.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You can try it, I think you're doing it well, boy, you should take the initiative.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Personally, I think your idea is very correct, and when you ask him to come out to see the last meeting, if it doesn't work, then it should be the last meeting, and it's okay to be a friend. If you can, you'll be happy. But personally, I don't think you're likely to succeed, so when you meet for the last time, you have to be well prepared.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's good, you need to have a breakthrough in this relationship, and what you said is more appropriate, find an opportunity to say it simply.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Actually, if you confess to a girl like this, or confess it's nothing, it's just the way to see the confession at this table, and she can accept it, so it's up to you to confess yourself, just don't take it out.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I think you're thinking a good idea, so let's try it this way! Whether it's a confession or a goodbye, it's pretty good, but I still hope you succeed.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I think it's definitely very appropriate to confess to a girl you like, so be sure to give each other some proper time anyway, and it will definitely be good after a long time.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It is more appropriate for you to confess to the other party in this form, and you can express your plans for the future again, which is more appropriate.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Direct confession is a way to confess directly to a girl face to face. It is your own freedom and your right to like it, but it is also the freedom and right of others whether a girl likes you or not. Before you confess, you have to be mentally prepared:

    Girls like you or don't like you, these two possibilities coexist.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    As long as both parties are willing, you can take the initiative, after all, you are not children. Go with the flow, it can be long or slow.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You, the idea is very good and correct, yes, you know that the twisted melon is not sweet, if he wants to, then you will continue to date, if he is unwilling, you should say goodbye and leave him a good impression, which is good.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Your way of confession is also more appropriate, you must consider the girl's reaction and thoughts, so that you can play a better role, and you can be more respectful of the child's thoughts.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You can test her emotional attitude, just joking or something, to test whether she has the desire to fall in love, if she is very emotional and rejects, it may not be interesting to you. After all, they have known each other for a short time, and rash confession may be counterproductive.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Make an appointment with her as soon as possible, and if you want to confess that you still want to be together or if you don't think it's appropriate to separate, talk about it as soon as possible, but I don't think it's suitable for you to be together in this situation.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    A girl who knows you on a blind date, and you like it for a while, if you confess to a girl like this, then, the girl should accept it, and you should give it a try.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Do what you really think.

    Because if you like a girl, you should take the initiative to confess, no matter what the result is, at least you won't regret it.

    Feelings are earned by taking the initiative to win.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Judging from the description, the girl's willingness is not particularly large, you can try this method to confirm each other's intentions, this approach is also more polite and measured, blessings, I hope to succeed.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Okay, there must be a process like this before you can completely let go, and it won't be ruined by the previous efforts and getting along.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    After confessing to a girl you like, or saying goodbye, I think as long as you think it's appropriate, or, the other party's words, should be acceptable.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    You have already done what you should do, so that it will not affect the quality of the two people's relationship, they have been together for three months, and it is time to confess to him.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    The most important question to think about is whether the other party has a good impression of you. If the other party doesn't have the slightest feeling for you, your confession will only make the other person feel very messy, chuckling, and flustered. Most of the time, the feeling of liking does not explode in an instant, but is slowly formed in the process of getting along, and if the other party does not have a good impression of you during the time spent with you, it is difficult to achieve the effect even if you confess.

    If you are a boy, if the girl already has a good impression of you, you should attack immediately, and you can't let the girl sell it first.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Crush is a common emotional experience, but people who have a crush are often afraid to confess for fear of rejection. In a crush, what is the right degree to confess? Here are some factors to consider:

    One of the most important factors in the other person's feelings when considering whether or not to confess is the other person's feelings. If you've been able to get along with the other person, or if the other person has some signs that they have a crush on you as well, then this could be a good time. If your feelings for the other person are only one-sided, and there are no signs that the other person feels the same way, then you may want to think again.

    Your level of preparedness Before confessing, you need to make sure that you are ready. This includes thinking deeply about how you feel and being prepared for situations where you might be rejected. If you're feeling very nervous, then you may need to wait a little longer, or find some support to help you.

    Timing and MethodBefore confessing, you need to choose a suitable time and method. If you see each other a lot, consider making a face-to-face confession. If you're feeling very nervous, you can also choose to express it in words or other ways.

    Whatever you choose, you need to make sure that the other person can hear your true feelings and remain calm and respectful of the other person's decision after confessing.

    In general, there is no fixed standard for how much of a crush can be expressed, and everyone's situation is different. Most importantly, you need to consider your own feelings and the feelings of the other person, choose a suitable time and method, and be prepared for possible rejection.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    You can confess as often as you want, so that you can also know how the other party feels about you.

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