Why can t you give up the person you love?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-25
4 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Huh..." "Love" is a God-given word that no one can interpret perfectly. How to love someone and how to be loved by someone have many factors.

    Go listen to the song when you're sad.,It's much better than posting like this.。。。

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Because you are cheap, you deserve to be sinned!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I think that I give up the person I love because the other party doesn't have me in his heart at all, maybe this liking is just my wishful thinking, the other party's feelings for me may not be so strong together, or it may be that I feel that there is no pressure, and my existence in his world is also dispensable. One. Touching each other's bottom line In our daily life, we all know that everyone has their own bottom line, whether it is in feelings or moods, when we ask about our bottom line, we will be very angry, so we should respect other people's lives and don't touch other people's bottom lines.

    When I got out of the customs and the other party withdrew, although I was the person I loved very much, I did the saddest thing for myself, and many people couldn't accept this status quo. There is also something that makes the other party particularly disappointed, sometimes disappointed, will completely give up the relationship, although they love each other deeply, they will leave when they have saved up enough disappointment. One can't help but ask, why do you feel sad during and after a breakup?

    Cognitive psychology explains this phenomenon by saying that when we break away from a relationship, it is a kind of social rejection, which means that we are excluded from a certain social relationship. It's a psychological tendency that has been formed, and you suddenly make a change, but the habit is still there, so you will not adapt to it, and you need to adjust. In addition, we can also communicate with people who have experienced and felt about falling out of love, which will help you to come out as soon as possible, and it will also make you grow, and then you will find that things are universal, and you are not alone in this kind of sadness, and "everyone is the same" will make you feel much better.

    In short, no matter what pain we go through and what setbacks we encounter, we must have a good attitude to help us grow and mature.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Hello, because of the opposition of your parents, give up the people you love very much, this proportion accounts for the majority, many people like each other and have good feelings. But because of the obstruction of their parents, there is no way to be together.

    The obstruction of the parents may be due to various reasons such as the dissatisfaction of the parents themselves, the dissatisfaction with the other family, the belief that the relationship is not equal, and so on. The insistence of the parents made it difficult for the two of them to continue, and it was especially difficult to go to the end, so in the end they had to give up the relationship.

    There are also people who give up the person they love very much, because they are not capable enough to bring the other party the happiness they deserve, so in order for the other party not to suffer bumps with themselves, not to suffer with themselves, and not to let the other party also experience incomparable sadness, so they can only make up their minds to give up.

    This is a consideration made for the other person from the standpoint of a lover. I don't want the other party to be so poor and difficult in life, so as to give up and disturb my love, so that the other party can have new opportunities, find new life and feelings, and live a rich life. In fact, such people mostly happen to boys, many boys do not have a successful career, they can only give up when facing reality.

    There are also many forced separations due to unavoidable health problems and no future, whether in reality or in film and television works, a person has no future because of an incurable disease, and proposes to break up in order to implicate and delay the other party, and even make up white lies in order to make the other party go simply, all the sadness and bitterness are borne by themselves, such difficulties can be seen, but it is indeed not uncommon in life.

    But no matter what the reason is, I gave up my lover, as long as I am worthy of my own dedication and conscience, it is enough.

    Good luck.

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