What does it feel like for a child to lose a beloved toy? Does it really mean giving up?

It's like you've lost a loved one, heartbreaking.

They pour all their emotions into toys, just like you pour all your emotions into your loved ones, and if you don't really give, you won't experience the pain of loss.

Hello, landlord:

The feeling of a child losing their beloved toy is the same as the loss of a beloved job or like the loss of a beloved lover, so the feeling of a child is the same as that of an adult!

Don't underestimate your child's feelings!

Therefore, in order to calm the pain of the child's loss of toys, if you can buy a similar toy, it is best to buy him a new one, for the sake of the child's young mind!

It's a very frustrating feeling, but it's not heartbreaking. If you are alluding to love, then I have nothing to say, just heartbreak, there is still a long way to go after decadence.

Lost means gone! Even if you find a similar one, it's not the same as before! What we give up now does not mean that we will not find a better one in the future!

I think it's very frustrating... If you still love him, you can give it a try... If there is no karma, just give up, there is no point in continuing like this...

Also, if he still loves you, then he will come back to you without you trying to redeem it... Think about it ...

Sadly, I once saw a case where a child lost his beloved toy and became lovesick and stopped eating!

What will happen to you if you lose your most beloved things, the same child will also feel this way, don't easily think that it has no effect on the child, this is a big lesson, as long as the child has a memory, he will always remember.

This depends on the situation, if the child's favorite toy is lost, it is necessary to buy.

In order to avoid the damage or loss of comforting objects, and bring the emotional impact and hurt to the child, some parents are supporting Zheng Zheng to buy a new toy for the child, after all, it is the child's beloved.

You don't have to buy him another one, you have to reason with him: we have other toys for the molded bridge, and it's too wasteful to buy another one. Don't rely on your child for everything, otherwise he may become more and more disobedient and willful.

This sentence is ** to Yang Kun.

A song, I lost you that day, like a child who lost his beloved toy, means that you are important to him and cannot live without you.

My husband means that he can't live without you, and he uses the metaphor that a child can't lose a toy to say that he doesn't want to lose you, and he will be sad and sad if he loses you.

Your favorite toy may not be played with often, but you just like it, and you will be sad when you are gone. You are like his childhood toy, he will cry and make trouble when he loses it, but children, after a long time, they will forget the existence of this toy.

We know that if a child loses her beloved toy, she will be very sad, husband, saying this shows that he loves you very much in his heart, wants to protect you forever, and you should cherish him.

This shows that you are still immature, still like a child, and your husband loves you very much.

When we were children, we would cry and be sad when we lost our beloved toys. Now he compares you to a beloved toy. Prove that he loves you very much.

Toys can be bought again, old P can be replaced, beloved things can be replaced, only be yourself.

This shows that your husband loves you very much.

Today's parents are afraid that their children will suffer. Recently my daughter had a ** incident with me, she said:

Mom, when you were a child, you always told us to learn to suffer. I said, "Yes, what have you lost?" You now have a business driving a car, you have so many houses, is your husband a professor or the head of a department, and you still suffer? ”

She said: "The adults have nothing to lose, but let the child play with the big toy in the kindergarten, the child snatched his toy, I don't know to ask for it, I play with the small toy, do you say that the child Lu Qingwei has grown up and is not bullied?" ”

I said, "Did you ask this kid why he didn't ask him for his toy when he snatched it?" ”

She said: "I asked, and the child said that I like to play with big toys, and he likes it, so let him play, anyway, he will give it to me when he finishes playing, and I will play with small toys first." ”

I said, "Okay, that's a five-year-old!" Now many people are looking forward to Jackie Chan, and in the future, this child will do great things and lead thousands of troopsThe second person can't fit it in his heart, how can he do great things?

Unwilling to give alms, unwilling to make self-sacrifices, in the future, children will fight with others, and parents will all go to play with others, and now there are too many such things. ”

I said:"What kind of people will be popular in society in the future? It's my grandson who can be humble and tolerant.

The other children were fighting there, and the leader said, 'There is a lack of a director for this important post, okay, prince, you can do it, the two of them are fighting.' This is called a competition between the snipe and the clam and the fisherman profits!

Let's be led by this person who doesn't quarrel, rest assured! ”

What does the Analects say? "He is also filial, and those who are good at offending are rare. "People who are filial to their elders will be with their elders and leaders if they have nothing to do, and they will be disrespectful to their teachers, less!

It is not easy to make mistakes, but those who are good at making trouble will not do it", this person does not contradict the leader, nor does he contradict the teacher, and when he grows up, he will blow up the bank and rob the road with a knife, there is no such thing.

Excerpt from "The Way of Chinese Mothers and Sons" (by Liu Bing).