What made you lose hope for a short time, and how did you get out of it?

One of the things that made me lose hope about this problem is that the business that I have been doing for 15 years has been run out of money, and not only once or twice, and then I can't see the hope of this business, so I give up decisively and choose another industry.

No, I look down on people who give up their lives easily, because everyone will eventually return to dust. I'm not afraid of death, are you still afraid of living, although it's much more difficult to live than to die, but you have a family, someone who loves you, and you must work hard to live well. ‍‍

I used to think that two people were together, whether they had money or not, as long as two people were really together, it was true. When we have experienced all kinds of life and found that the reality is cruel, when you give up everything and teach your husband and children, you will find that everything you pay is worthless, he thinks that it is very hard for him to earn money to support his family, and you don't earn a penny, you will only spend money. He won't see a family, eating, drinking, and lazing, you are worrying about big and small things, he only knows, "I want money again, save some flowers!"

How are you going to live without me?! With such a sentence, do you want to die? Later, you will find that no one can be relied on, you can only rely on yourself, you yourself are not strong, and you are weak to show anyone. ‍‍

I think the saddest day of my life is the college entrance examination, when I failed the college entrance examination, the mood is really worse than death, not enough, and then I slowly returned to my usual life with the comfort of my family, and finally I repeated my studies for another year, and finally entered the dream university with excellent grades.

The news of my mother's death made me lose hope, <>

I feel like my mom has been with me for so many years, she gave me everything, but she left me suddenly, I can't stand the world without her, then I won't be able to do anything, but over time I know my current boyfriend, he loves me like my mother, picks me up and drops me off and commutes, and prepares breakfast for me. It made me feel warm again and brought me out of my grief.

I've been in a company for two years, but I was fired for some reason, which made me quite frustrated, am I really that bad, and then I figured it out and found a new job, which is better than the last one, so sometimes you never know what will happen in a second.

I was very disappointed that I didn't get a good score in the college entrance examination, and I didn't get into the ideal university, but after I came to the new school, the enthusiasm of my classmates and teachers made me get out of this sad thing.

I didn't get into the graduate school entrance examination, which made me lose hope for a while, but then I figured out that if I didn't get in, I could find a job, enter the society as soon as possible, and earn more money to honor my parents, and my parents also encouraged me and let me get out of this frustrating experience.

I was very disappointed that I couldn't find a job after graduation, but I didn't choose to give up on myself, and through my own learning, I constantly strengthened my knowledge reserves, and after a period of time, I found a job I liked.

When you fail in your business, you feel like you've lost hope, and you feel as if the whole world is about to collapse. In the end, my family kept cheering me up, encouraging me, and listening to "Start Again" over and over again, so that I slowly got better.

Excessive consideration for others, excessive ignorance of their own existence, forcing themselves out of life, out of the game, while other people's lives are still the same and colorful. A kind of excessive consumption of oneself, exceeding the limit, the range of what the mind can bear, being depressed for a while, escaping from the real world, and avoiding everything. Learn relevant psychological knowledge, popular science psychology, society, family, workplace problems and solutions, objective self-awareness, retreat, forbearance, truth, **, routine, let the heart stand anew.

A long process of time, a period of dark mental rescue. ‍‍

I had an operation in 2018, and after 8 hours of surgery, I went from walking pain in one leg to not being able to walk in both legs. Later, in the ** period, I met a good doctor, in his eyes, I am a particularly brave, strong patient, he is always encouraging me, no matter how lazy I am, how much I love to make excuses, he always gives me encouragement, and constantly psychologically guides me to pay attention to life itself, rather than my own pain, he said, you fantasize that you are now a good person, a normal person, no problem, I believe you can. ‍‍

Since I was laid off for more than 20 years, I have gone from disappointment to despair, don't be surprised I say despair, maybe it is incompatible with modern life, when a person is unconsciously out of touch with society, it can only be: I am not a sage person, I am just a person who has no social resources and likes to live a peaceful life step by step. Sometimes I think that if I hadn't been laid off and wandered around, maybe I would have sat on the writer's seat, but unfortunately, the helplessness of life gave up my interest in reading, writing calligraphy and writing. ‍‍

In the most painful, difficult and helpless time, I did not give up my hope for life, because there are elderly mothers who need my company, and daughters who need me to raise, they need me and I have no reason to give up on myself, they let me persevere, it is easy for people to die for a moment, it is difficult to live, people's lives are very short, only to live well is to start themselves, to be right. ‍‍

No matter who you are, whether the matter is big or small, there will be hopes and failures, and most people have gone through this situation for a lifetime. The two are interdependent, for example, if you want to get something, you have to work on it, then you will lose something as a result, and no one can say that I have gained it, but I have nothing to lose. ‍‍