What is the mood of a girl when she gets married?

The mood of the girl at the moment of marriage is joy, joy, and infinite longing for the future. Every time I see a girl getting married, I can't help but think of the scene when I got married, and that feeling seems to be deeply experienced now.

My husband and I were strongly opposed by our parents from the very beginning of our relationship. They feel that the conditions in my husband's house are poor and they can't give me the happiness I want. At that time, I was really rebellious when I was young, and the stronger my parents were against it, the more I wanted to be with my husband, and I was reluctant to part for a minute.

So at that time, I was very much looking forward to being able to leave my parents' control and get married as soon as possible was my only choice, so that I could be with my husband forever.

So getting married is something I've been looking forward to for a long time. But when the day came, I panicked. When I saw the dowry that my parents prepared for me, I thought that my husband was going to pick me up in a while, and I was so reluctant in my heart.

It seemed that at that moment, I realized that I was really going to say goodbye to my girlhood and really get married.

We have the custom of weeping and marrying here. is to cry when her daughter gets married, and drop golden beans for her mother's family. When my husband came to the house, took me to kowtow to my parents, then put on a hijab, and sent me to the sedan chair, tears fell like beads that had been stripped off.

Dozens of miles from my mother's house to my mother-in-law's house, I almost cried all the way.

I know I've changed so much this way. When I look back, the home that gave birth to me and raised me for 20 years has become my mother's family. I came back and became a guest.

Facing my mother-in-law's side, I felt all strange, and I didn't know how to get along with them. That kind of panic, that kind of sadness, lingered in my heart for a long time.

Love often gives people the feeling of sweetness and happiness, two people from the beginning of the relationship to enter the palace of marriage, will experience a lot of setbacks, and finally win each other's happiness.

Marriage is both happy and sad for girls. When I was preparing for my wedding, I was not very touched, because I was full of yearning and desire for happiness, looking forward to the moment when I got married, and looking forward to my future days.

However, when you really enter the wedding hall, in addition to the happiness touched, there is more gratitude. It's really not a good feeling to leave the home where I have lived for more than 20 years and to step into another home where I want to get along with each other for the rest of my life. Girls themselves are sentimental animals, they like beautiful things, they like to have their own plans for a better future, and at the same time, they will be more grateful to meet all the good.

When the master of ceremonies stood in front of the stage and faced the words of the father who was holding his daughter's arm, I believe that every girl will shed tears, and that kind of tears are tears of happiness and tears of gratitude.

At the same time, looking at the aging parents, my heart was more reluctant and praying. I am grateful to my parents for more than 20 years of nurturing grace, grateful to my parents for their unwavering companionship, and I am reluctant to leave the home that once raised me, my parents, and everyone in this family. When facing their parents, girls are more reluctant, and in the face of the joy of marriage and the reluctance to leave home, their hearts are more wishes and prayers, wishing these two big families, and blessings that everything is getting better and better.

When the girl got married, the father cried, and the girl cried. The father's love for his daughter, the daughter's reluctance to her father, everything is in plain sight. Finally, I would like to say:

Boys must be good to girls, the best dowry for men is a lifetime of accommodation, and the best love for girls is to have a tolerant and considerate heart, and they must be happy. All love should be blessed, bless every couple, happy newlywed, forever married, after marriage, often go home to see if there is anything to do, and always remember that the old people on both sides need the same company.

The mood must have been both emotional and complicated. I must be very excited to marry myself. But with apprehension and anticipation for a new life. There is also a farewell and reluctance to his old life.

Think about the person you want to marry, who must be someone you particularly like, think of spending your life with him in the future, think of waking up every morning and see him for the first time, think of two people cooking together, think of two people will have their own little life in the future. It's no wonder that you don't get excited to think that you and he will have a child in the future, and that your parents will also be his parents. <>

But think about it again, if two people are together, will they quarrel often, after living together for a long time, all their true nature is exposed, and you may find that he is not the person you imagined? You may think that you will quarrel every year because of which house to go to for the Chinese New Year, maybe two people will quarrel in the future because of your child's education, and you may be very angry because of his sloppiness and laziness. The mood of these brides must be apprehensive again.

If you think about it, you want to leave your parents who have raised you for more than 20 years. Although there are still many opportunities to meet in the future, you can't live with them every day, and when you can't be coquettish when you are a little princess, someone is used to you when you have a temper. Think about the things you may have in your heart, you can't tell your parents when you don't want to talk to your boyfriend, and think about a little loss.

Think about how your parents will grow old in the future, but you can't always be by his side. At this time, I was very sad.

Of course, emotions are very complicated, but the excitement must be greater than these negative emotions. After all, there may only be one marriage in life, and who doesn't feel excited to wear a beautiful wedding dress and walk in front of everyone.

Men should get married, and women should get married. When we reach the age of marriage, we all need to take that important step, and if we are in such a time, we will have a different mood, especially for girls, when they get married, they will have many feelings, which are different feelings at the moment of marriage.

My sister is a good example, she has been married for six years, when we talked about the feeling of getting married, she said that she was very messy at the moment of marriage, because she had never experienced such a thing, so she was very nervous in the days when she was going to get married, because she was about to become married, and she still had a lot of things to consider, and she didn't know what kind of situation she would face in the future, so she really didn't know what to think, and sometimes her mind was blank, the whole person feels a little foggy.

For my sister's feelings, in fact, it can be understood, the feelings she feels are felt by many people, when I want to get married, I believe that I don't know what to think in my heart, and I may think a lot, and I don't think so clearly because of nervousness, this feeling is actually very uncomfortable, after all, it was the pearl of my parents' palms, and I will go to another family to live in the future, this feeling of leaving my parents is very uncomfortable, Therefore, it will make people a little reluctant and sad at home.

Not only my sister, but even some of my classmates who are married still feel that they are a little empty at the moment of marriage, because they don't seem to think about anything, because they don't have anything in their heads, but they will also have different feelings, that is, they are not used to this kind of identity change.

Many women think that marriage is the happiest moment of their lives, of course, ideally, it is, but the mood varies depending on the situation.

If a girl and her boyfriend are often in love for a long time, never abandon each other, work together, and the boyfriend is loyal enough, and the two finally save enough money to buy a car and a house, then marriage is a hard-won thing, and it will definitely become the happiest moment in a girl's life.

But there are also many cases where the two are often introduced to each other, and they have to get married according to the wishes of their parents after meeting no more than a few times, so when a girl marries, it is easy to have a feeling of insecurity, and her heart should be more struggling and complicated, she will think: I am going to live my life with this unfamiliar man in front of me, will I be happy? Will he be nice to me?

All uncertain factors will also ferment from the moment of marriage, so the girl's mood in this case will not be very happy.

Some girls have deep feelings for their ex-boyfriends, but they can't help but be together, or break up due to accidents or subjective reasons. In this case, it is sometimes difficult to enter the next relationship, and she often gets married under the arrangement of her family, but if she can't adjust her mood in time, she will not only have a sense of insecurity at the moment of marriage, but also let herself fall into the pain of missing her ex.

If the original family of the two parties is far away, one is in Beijing and the other is in Yunnan, and they live together in Yunnan after marriage, the girl's mood of marrying must be both happy and complicated. The happiness is to finally tie the knot with your lover, and the complicated thing is to stay away from your parents in the future, and you can't see them often, and you will inevitably feel guilty about your parents.

Girls should be rational when they get married, insist on being emotionally based, combine with people with similar views, and agree to go home often to visit their parents.

It is very appropriate to use the idiom "mixed with joy and sorrow".

Marriage is the most important moment in a girl's life, it represents her farewell to her daughter and entered her daughter-in-law period; bid farewell to the youthful period and entered the mature period; It represents leaving more than 20 years to give birth to one's parents and family and entering another family to be with the person they love, the most important thing is that it represents the beginning of some things and the end of some things, and it is the beginning and end of a girl's life. <>

The daughter who has been a parent for more than 20 years, whether she is lazy or unreasonable at home, her parents are tolerant, and when she gets married, she has to be an adult, she must be filial to her parents-in-law and take more care of them in life. I think most girls must think that life is easy before marriage, and the pressure is so great after marriage! This is the sad ** in "mixed joy and sorrow".

I also want to say goodbye to my immature mentality when I was a daughter, be reasonable in life, be mature like an adult, and be judgmental about what to do and what not to do. And also take the initiative to bear the burden of a family, and be responsible for the harmony and future development of the family, such as giving birth to children, educating children, etc. These are really not easy things to do.

The happiest part of getting married is probably marrying the person you love! Finally, there is someone who can accompany you on the road of life, so that you are no longer lonely and lonely. When they are tired, two people can help each other and bring joy and happiness to each other.

And I can still have my own children, watching the children grow up slowly, and I feel that my hard work is worth it, because I have brought a family for my children that can protect him and her.

What kind of mood was it like when you got your marriage certificate?

This bosom friend, for many people, the starting point of falling in love is the heartbeat of two people, and after a long time of getting along and understanding, determine whether the other party can join hands with you for a lifetime.

When I first fell in love, it was the honeymoon period of love, and I couldn't wait to stick together every day, and I often thought about starting a family, getting married, having children, and spending a lifetime together, which was the happiest thing. But slowly, the enthusiasm begins to cool down slowly, you will find the other party's shortcomings, if both people can appreciate the advantages of both parties, tolerate the shortcomings, and be sure that he is the person you want in a long life, then it is time to get married.

So what was your mood at the moment of getting married? Excited or excited, or a little hesitant and frustrated?

When I got the certificate, I was very excited! Although** are all treated with beautification! However, no matter how you look at it, she is not as beautiful as his wife herself! The charming eyes, the joyful demeanor, and the smiling look of walking make people happy to death!

Yes, getting the certificate means that the two of them have truly entered a beautiful world that belongs to us!

During the walk, my wife took the initiative to hold me by the arm. Suddenly, my heart trembled, and I suddenly felt so happy! So happy!

Maybe it's because of love, the quiet forest path here seems to be much better than usual, the green lawn under the lights, the green holly, mixed with patches of horse orchids, not to mention how beautiful!

Although a marriage certificate can bring people a sense of security and a mutual commitment of feelings, in China, it is often initiated by the man and agreed by the woman, and it is a form of marriage proposal that is fixed in the form of law. With all due respect, this is still a male-dominated marriage world. Generally, no matter how eager the woman is to get a marriage certificate, she usually forces the man to initiate it.

When I got my marriage license, I cried a lot.

Although I knew that marriage was an important ritual of affection, when I signed the letter at the Civil Affairs Bureau and got the red book, I was happy and confused, sad and unknown.

Before getting a marriage certificate, although I had a lot of growing pains and faced a lot of loneliness alone, I felt that I was relatively free and an independent individual. Although I also long for the stability of my marriage, I look forward to the love between the two people for a lifetime. But when it comes to getting a marriage certificate, this solemn form is actually a farewell to the past.

And to face an unknown journey. The person next to you, the person you must love and bear, suddenly felt a lot of pressure.

When I got the red book, I suddenly sat in the car, like a married bride, tears falling silently. When the gentleman sees it in the mirror. I'm already crying. He later drove the car to a secluded corner and sat with me.

He was so excited that he couldn't see me crying like this. And I'm already crying with a long throat and shortness of breath. He said, is it because of his reason that I don't want to, regret?

I was crying so much that I couldn't speak. I finally held back a few words, saying that I don't want to be trapped in marriage. He suddenly laughed, playing a marriage certificate is a formality, when have I ever restricted your freedom?

You will only be more free in the future, for example, your parents can't control you anymore, in fact, I can't control you, you have become an immortal in one step, and happiness is.

I thought about it the same way, and then suddenly my mood improved. After getting married, I was relatively free. But occasionally I think of the crying that day when I got the marriage certificate, or maybe it was just because I was confused, a kind of ignorance about the future.

The tears are also lovely, after all, marriage is an important watershed in life. Maybe the crying that day was actually a kind of calmness.

People who have too high illusions about marriage and love may just be the day they get the marriage certificate and don't cry. But any form of crying is a farewell to the past.

Hope I enjoyed my experience as you liked. Thank you for reading.