How to abbreviate the moment when love just arrived into six words

It is not surprising that there have been many people who have been confused about the relationship between study and love throughout the ages, and it is also the wise thinking of rational and intelligent people. In fact, the two are not contradictory, you only need to correctly understand the problem of love, and use its psychological positive factors to achieve two correctness: one is to correctly handle the love relationship, grasp the "degree", and not produce out-of-the-ordinary results during the study period, otherwise it will affect or even abandon the study; At the same time, the core of love is feelings, and there is no need to deliberately pile up through a lot of material and time, so don't treat falling in love as a "big event" at school.

The second is to master the appropriate learning methods, people are learning all their lives, but after all, the stage of learning in school is the most energetic time in life, so the energy and time allocated to learning should account for more than 80%, and must pay attention to learning methods, after participating in the work, you will find that the real learning "results" can be learned to apply very little, and the ideas, methods and efficiency of doing things will be the most important. Personally, I think that by doing the above two points, it is entirely possible for you to correctly handle the relationship between love and study, and achieve both correct and double harvest! Note:

Some people think that this is the most real, the most practice-tested, and the most operable answer in history, hehe. I wish you a happy study and a sweet love!

I think both can be done. I am also a senior in high school, and falling in love can be a motivation for each other to study harder for each other's future. It mainly depends on your personal control and the emotional foundation of the two of you.

The most important thing is not to go to class with emotion.

From mature love to a happy marriage, both parties have to go through about 3-4 times of love and lovelorn, and this process is the process of learning.

Through natural relationships, we learn how to love others, control emotions, understand and tolerate each other, experience the warmth of being together, and understand each other.

Accompany him when he is confused and helpless, and make the other party a better existence while becoming better for the other party.

There are still many ways to do this.

Falling in love during college will make us no longer lonely on the road to knowledge, let us learn to be grateful and humble, and also learn to share and listen. You will get to know yourself again, and you will gradually mature. College students have outstanding personalities, heavy feelings, and are easily impulsive, and are not limited by traditional customs, and generally do not seek the opinions of both parents before or even after determining the relationship.

Many college students do not think about their future marriage in love, and do not clearly and consciously realize that they should choose a lifelong partner, and they fall in love only because they need to love and be loved. Once college students fall in love, they are often not good at controlling their emotions, allowing their feelings to indulge at will, lacking rational control ability, and being overly dependent on their love partners, and suffering at the slightest twist and turn. Once the relationship is frustrated, it will lose control of emotions and be unable to extricate itself, which will have a serious impact on learning.

At present, the love of college students is showing a lower grade, and the number of people is on the rise. It is not an isolated phenomenon that students start falling in love in the first grade, and some students even fall in love as soon as they enter school. Due to their shallow social experience and simple thinking, many of these junior students do not have a clear concept of their life goals and needs, resulting in simple, naïve and immature treatment of love issues.

In terms of mate selection criteria, the appearance is often emphasized and the inside is neglected. In the way of love, it is often important to focus on form and light on content. In love behavior, the process is often emphasized over the result; Emphasis on pleasure, light on responsibility.

This kind of immaturity in love problems, coupled with the fact that they are not financially independent during school, their feelings and thoughts are volatile in the process of falling in love, and they lack the ability to properly deal with emotional entanglements in love, which can easily cause periodic interruptions in love, or drifting in the choice of love partners, and the success rate of love is very low.

True love is a powerful force that only keeps people moving forward, not going backwards. As for how to deal with these relationships, it is actually very simple, as long as your love does not contradict and you are always happy, the power of love will not disappear, so how to deal with it?

Be a little more inclusive.

A little more understanding.

A little more love.

A little more relationship.

Calm analysis when encountering problems.

Think from the other person's point of view.

As long as your love is established, you don't have to worry about whether you will succeed in your career and learning those things, because of love, you have to work hard to give him happiness, so you will work hard, to learn, you will not give up, because there is the power of love to support you to move forward.

I really don't know that!

First suspend school, then fall in love, get married, have children, and finally go to school again.

If you have to give up one of them, it should be feelings, and it is also a test of feelings. It is better to give up early on feelings that cannot stand the test. There is only one opportunity to learn, and it is too late to regret it if you don't learn now.

Don't agree with what was said upstairs!

It's not that the success rate of love in junior high school is not high, but because of today's society, the success rate of love is not high. Many men and women just enjoy it without thinking about the consequences.

But on the other hand, the task and responsibility of junior high school is to learn, because junior high school is the first turning point of a person, and whether this step can be taken well is directly related to a person's life. Think again.

"Bad grades because of early love" is not a reason, at best it is just an excuse that you think of for the sake of "commotion". I don't believe it (I'm 21 years old and just came from that stage).

The power of love is great, if you love each other, then study hard together, work hard to get into college together, this is the goal of life, only in the relationship with the change of time, we mature and know what is the real feeling, anything is beneficial and necessary, it depends on what you look at is heavier!

Personally, I don't think you can have it both ways

Learn to let go, 99% of the romance in junior high school will not succeed, if you just experience the process, I advise you not to, otherwise you will hurt others and yourself, besides, if you are not a genius, learning will inevitably plummet.

Be friends, for life!!

I would like to give you a hint first: you can exist when you are in a relationship before college, but if the two promote each other!

I've had a similar experience and it won't be affected! Learning comes first, emotion comes second!

College love is inevitable, feelings should be valued, but there must be their own space, two people together is not only together, but to promote each other better together! It's still the same sentence - learn first, understand each other! Happiness and joy!

Hahaha, find a teacher! Stupid. Hee-hee.

Learn in school. Fall in love after school. Listen well in class and accompany him after class.

No problem guaranteed, that's how I came here.