Let s talk about how to maintain an emotionless marriage for the sake of children?

It is best to repair the relationship between husband and wife through the bond of children, if the husband and wife often quarrel for a long time, it should not be a person's fault. Improve your own deficiencies first, and then communicate more to help the other party improve their deficiencies, so that the relationship between husband and wife can be harmonious, and the relationship between husband and wife can be repaired as much as possible. Although it is said that it is better to demolish ten temples than destroy a marriage, but it is really not harmonious, and there are constant quarrels, then there is no need to be together, because if the child grows up in that environment, it will hurt the child a lot, and it will also make the child disgusted. ‍‍

Support for the sake of children and maintain the original marriage. Because divorce hurts children a lot, it is the responsibility of parents to give their children a complete home. According to common sense, men and women have feelings before marriage, otherwise, why do so many people marry this person?

After getting married, generally due to different ideological concepts, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflicts, housework disputes, money spending, etc., people's feelings are worn out, so analyze what kind of reason you belong to to wear out your feelings, first find out the crux of the problem, and then find a way to repair it. ‍‍

Increasing the time spent alone by two people, communicating well with two people, finding out the reasons for the breakdown of the marriage, and remedying the remedy can make each other recall the advantages of both parties. In addition, you can also go on a trip to increase the feelings of two people, and use psychological suggestion to tell yourself that in fact, ta is still good, we have experienced so much between us, and we have survived so much, and we can't end it because of a little thing. ‍‍

A marriage without feelings can cultivate feelings, to be precise, the recovery of feelings, because when you get married and have children, you must have feelings, but your feelings are diluted or even disappeared. However, please don't maintain an emotionless marriage just for the sake of your children, because if you don't have affection, your children won't grow up healthy.

Couples can create a sense of common interest. Husband and wife are like two paddles in a boat, if you want the boat to row fast, both paddles must not only row fast, but also keep pace, otherwise they will not row fast. Don't talk about what I am or what you are, think more about how the family is, talk more about how we are, try to avoid personal interests, and think more about the common good. ‍‍

Twice a week, talk about love with your spouse, don't be at home, go to the park, the riverside, the coffee house, the tea house, talk about the wind and the moon, and talk less about family life, just like when you are in love, there is romance and chic every week, and the relationship will slowly warm up. ‍‍

I'm facing this situation right now! But there is no way, for the sake of the child, it can only be like this. The big one goes to high school, and the study is very good, and the second study is not good, but he is very sensible!

Sometimes I feel like I can't hold on anymore, but I'm afraid that the adult's trouble will affect the child, especially the big one! I am about to face the most important stage of my life, the college entrance examination! Now, we're all going to do our jobs!

Talk when you have something! Just ignore each other if you have nothing to do! Stay up!

I really don't want to affect my child's life because of adult things! ‍‍

Husbands and wives see each other's shortcomings, and they also see each other's strengths. Before getting married, each other saw each other's advantages, so they entered the marriage with great expectations, but after entering the marriage, almost all the shortcomings were found. Is it the husband and wife who have changed?

I think that since the relationship between husband and wife has broken down, don't continue to barely maintain it, so that the impact on the child will be greater in the future, many people think that maintaining the child will have a small impact on the child, but in fact, this is not the case, now the child may still be young, and he will slowly understand when he grows up. Let's create a good living environment for children.

Even for the sake of children, if the husband and wife live together for a long time, it is a kind of psychological torture for both husband and wife, and they will feel very painful, and they may become depressed and irritable when they suppress their mood for a long time, and they will lose confidence and pursuit of life.

If it is really for the sake of the child, it is best for the couple to be sincere with themselves, face the relationship, and make a decision that is in line with the hearts of both parties. Don't let your children carry this heavy burden, marriage, in the final analysis, is the relationship between husband and wife. If you don't love it, it is the best love for your children to break up calmly and establish a correct attitude towards marriage and feelings for your children.

Family affection is not the most precious, it can continue to be sublimated, and finally become kindness. When you are at a low point in your life, she will always accompany you and encourage you, she will take care of you when you are sick, and husband and wife are supposed to fly separately when the forest bird is in trouble, and that is because there is no kindness between them. There is also a lot of unforgettable love, and that is also because of the integration of kindness, never abandoned, this kind of love can be continued in the next life.

This situation does not mean that the husband and wife are advised to divorce directly without considering the children, because no one wants to encounter a divorce, and they all hope to grow old together and get along well. But in the end, there is really no choice but to divorce, don't make the lives of two people miserable because of accommodating the children, so there is really not much need.

A makeshift marriage brings no less torment to children than children in single-parent families, and the important thing is to give children the same love. If the marriage is irretrievable, parents who accompany their children should adjust their mentality, rather than indulging in failed relationships, and let their children gain positive energy.

In fact, children are very sensitive, and children can feel whether their parents' feelings are good or not. Today's children are smarter, and if one of the parents is unhappy, the child may blame himself, suspect that it is his own fault, and wonder if he is not good enough, which is not conducive to the development of the child's character in the long run. If the husband and wife really can't get by, I suggest that they separate as soon as possible, and the children should understand.

Since the marriage has broken down, there is no need for it to survive. Children will always grow up, and if they let children live in tension, anxiety and fear, it is better to let children face the separation of their parents calmly. Although the child will have loss and disappointment, at least the child will not break down.

Many couples say that they have lived for the sake of their children, or even separated, so that there is no harm to the children, in fact, the harm caused to the children is greater, the children have a big shadow in their hearts, and even do not believe in love, and there are psychological factors such as loneliness, anxiety, and fear, and the impact on the children is no less than divorce.

Many people think that divorce will be how it will be to the child, but in fact, it really hurts the child's attitude towards the child after the divorce. As long as it is handled well, the child understands that adults are just not suitable for living together, but they still love him very much. Many of the things that really hurt the children are that the parents don't care about the children after the divorce, which is equivalent to throwing the children away, and there are also kicking the children around like a ball, or both parties have to pursue their own so-called happiness and ignore the children.

Summary. Hello, nice to meet you, your questions are answered by me. Your question.

What are the following situations? First, have both parties confirmed that there is no relationship? Second, if one party has feelings, the other has no feelings.

Third, will both of them persist for the sake of their children? Is the child a junior high school student now?

Should an emotionless marriage be maintained for the sake of the children?

Hello, nice to meet you, your questions are answered by me. Your question. What are the following situations?

First, have both parties confirmed that there is no relationship? Second, if one party has feelings, the other has no feelings. Third, will both of them persist for the sake of their children?

Is the child a junior high school student now?

The man has no feelings, I still have a little more.

Hello dear, does the man have any feelings that he describes himself? Or did you confirm it yourself? Most women will choose to continue for the sake of their children.

Assuming that the connection can be disconnected for a period of time, both the man and the woman need to understand their inner thoughts. Is it true that this relationship can continue to operate for the sake of the child?

What I am afraid of in marriage and family is that I think he and she have no feelings for me<>

The man made it clear that he didn't want to go on.

What he said can't be used as a basis, it depends on whether his actions have already been reflected and he doesn't want to continue?

Does he have any ideas for children? Many people understand the harm that divorced families can do to their children, but they ignore it.

Personally, I really don't want to live anymore, but I can't let go of the child myself.

Please help the teacher describe the child's situation.

One is in the fourth grade and the other is in the big class, and the children are very naughty.

My dear, both children are really too young. At this time, if you get divorced, there will indeed be a lot of troubles. Did this man talk to you about the child's upbringing?

He said that if you get married and divorced, you can live your own way, and the children will always grow up day by day.

A man in his thirties? This made the teacher feel very sad. So what is he most dissatisfied with in this marriage, has he expressed it himself? This?

What he expressed was that I was too much of him, that I was too strong, and that he felt that he was not happy.

Most of the cases that teachers encounter are basically the reason for this. So first of all, let's understand our own situation, and then look at the degree of his affection for you. Obviously, your strong personality has created the idea that he wants to leave.

His feelings for you now need to be recognized clearly. If he still has a little bit of affection, it needs you to make a complete change. Even if you don't have feelings, you have to change for the sake of your two children. You have to manage this marriage well.

The central point of the question lies with you. In addition, his sense of responsibility needs to be strengthened.

A man is sometimes a child, so why bother him so much. If there is more management and strict grasping, the loss will be faster. Everyone understands this truth, but you will lose yourself when you do it.

In many people's married life, if they already have children, but they increasingly find that they have little affection for the other half, and they already have the idea of divorce in their minds, but they are reluctant to look at the children around them, if they are divorced, the children will not have a complete family, which may cause irreparable damage to him for a lifetime. So, many people gritted their teeth and thought, for the sake of their children, they won't divorce first.

If there is no love between the two parties, but they can still live peacefully like friends, and there is no new love for each other, why can't they maintain a normal family relationship in front of their children like a pair of allies? At least until the child is sensible enough, it can be maintained.

If the two parties not only do not have an emotional foundation, but there is no way to live in peace like friends, meeting is a quarrel, almost to the point of incompatibility. At this time, this marriage is inseparable. Since it is no longer possible to live in peace with each other, it is difficult to maintain family harmony in front of the children.

Each other is hard, and the children are also innocent.

When a marriage is broken, it is the innocent children who suffer the most. Children who grow up in a normal family are more likely to develop a sound personality later in life. However, if the barely maintained family life is not happy at all, and the children can feel the unhappiness of their parents even if they are young, at this time, the marriage maintained for the sake of the children will completely lose its original meaning.

Be cautious about getting married, and the same goes for divorce.

The marriage has no feelings, and for the sake of the children, I personally think it is wrong. Because since the marriage is gone, the relationship between the two people may be broken again. If you rely on your children alone, you may not be able to maintain it at times because life is too stressful.

So once a marriage breaks down, it is difficult to maintain it with children. No suggestion is to be more tolerant of each other, more understanding and understanding, so that we can grow old together.

There is no right or wrong question about this question, because this situation is all too common, and if it is for your own consideration, it is definitely not right, so you can wronged yourself. But from the child's point of view, having a whole family does form a better character. It also depends on how the individual chooses, in fact, there is nothing wrong with it, everyone is a lifetime, you don't have to wronged yourself, as the saying goes, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren.

Some couples have broken down their relationship, but for the sake of their children, they still choose not to divorce. Many people have asked this question, should they maintain their marriage for the sake of their children? Is it really necessary to maintain an emotionless marriage for the sake of the children?

If a marriage without any emotional foundation depends solely on children to survive, it is a painful process for two people. But many people will say, if two people choose to separate, is it too harmful to the child? In fact, this cannot be completely denied, but just imagine that if they continue to live like this in a marriage and family without any emotional foundation, over a long period of time they will gradually have a subtle effect on the child, and even this influence will cause more harm to the child.

In the minds of many, once married, if there are not some issues of principle, even if they do not have any emotional basis, they can live together, whether for children, parents or some other person, or in a word, it is not because of feelings that they run this marriage, but because of other reasons, but their feelings in the marriage have become very little.

In order to maintain the marriage and make the marriage happier, the most important thing is to have feelings between two people, rather than relying on some other auxiliary conditions from the outside world. If we rely only on some so-called external conditions to support such a marriage, we will not be happy or long-lasting.

Maintaining a relationshipless marriage is very painful, and it is also unfair to each other. In fact, the relationship between husband and wife is something that children can feel. Therefore, it is not necessary to maintain the marriage for the sake of the children.

In fact, we all know that the most important thing to maintain a marriage is affection, if there is no affection between husband and wife, then such a marriage is in name only, barely living together, and it is two people who suffer. If you still quarrel over some things often, it will also hurt your child.

Of course, some couples who have broken down their relationship choose to maintain such a marriage, mainly because they are afraid that after the divorce, it will affect their children, fear that their children will lack love, fear of causing psychological problems to their children, and fear of affecting their children's grades. Although these reasons seem to be for the good of the child, in fact, the child who grows up in an environment without love will still have these problems.

Especially in a marriage, where one party has domestic violence or bad habits, such a marriage needs to end immediately. Because such a marriage continues, it is not only the other half who will be hurt, but also the children.

Although the situation of each family is different, a marriage that can no longer be sustained cannot be continued. Because in addition to the happiness of their children, parents also have the right to pursue happiness again. Of course, one spouse cannot tie up the other with a child.

As for the issue of parental divorce, children will understand when they are older. In fact, children also want their parents to be happy, so children are no longer a reason why couples cannot get married. Happiness is in your own hands, divorce is no longer a stumbling block that hinders a person from finding happiness, and you can still find your own happiness after divorce.