My boyfriend has other women, I asked him which one to choose, and he said that he didn t want to lo

Updated on psychology 2024-05-27
59 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Feelings are selfish, but also dedicated, if he is still like this, you let him lose you, you will definitely find a man who really loves you, this is also the most practical and dedicated love that every woman needs.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Let's break up. I have suffered as much as you have about it.

    broke up with him immediately.

    You will find that you can live better and easier.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you give up your unworthy love, he will come back to you, and then you have no feelings for him, and he regrets it. I had this experience and I am now married and very happy.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Give up, there will be a better happiness waiting for you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Look at what everyone said, it has caused public outrage, but I think he really can't stand you.

    You are really infatuated, I respect you (please be patient with the landlord).

    You have paid so much, so really, so touched us, think that we who have never known each other can be moved, he actually ignored it, he even violated the most basic morality of love.

    I can totally understand your feelings right now, hating and loving, but the love for him can basically come to an end.

    We all know that the Bible and Buddhism advocate equality, and divine love embodies this vividly.

    Where did the original idea go, his concept began to distort, it was he who shook the foundation of love, and his flaws in your emotions are slowly expanding.

    He actually showed him and other girls in front of you, he actually said in front of you that he couldn't let go of her, and he actually played with his love foundation for three years? Can basic morality be violated? In this way, people who regard love as a game again and again, why should you bother to fall in love?

    I know that you still like him in your heart, I'm not denying that you like him, it's just that it's useless to do this, one party breaks the line, and the other party desperately tries to weld in vain, your love doesn't need to love so much. (Don't be angry, be honest).

    The happiness of your life is in your hands, you won't be reluctant to endure it, time is the best tool for emotional injury, you are a woman, not a goddess, the eyes of the masses are bright, don't be in this mountain anymore!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    That's what he wants to do, what kind of creation he has, white roses and red roses are all occupied!

    No matter how many advantages this kind of man has, you will not be blessed!

    Better leave him! The sooner the better, to leave this irresponsible person!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Men are all flowery, don't mind, as long as he still loves you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I really sympathize with you, I'm also a girl with feelings and delicacy, on the road of love, I don't know how many tears I shed, until the end of that relationship, I didn't know that I was really a fool before, stupid to the limit. So, I really want to tell you, don't make yourself so miserable, if the truth is really the same as what you say, just leave a terrible man like him quickly, because you are in love now for your happiness in the future, with someone like him, even if you get married in the future, you have to worry endlessly about whether he will betray you, this kind of life will really exhaust you. Listen to my advice, end, leave him!

    Good luck!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Men have 3 wives and 4 concubines, from ancient times to the present, as a matter of course, don't mind.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Simple! Chop him up and feed him to the dogs!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Divide it! Unless you can take it!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If it is a man who loves you, he will take care of you carefully, and if you are pregnant, he should be brave enough to say: give birth to the child. Pushing you on the cold operating table 4 times, is it still worth it for you to love him, he doesn't love you, but your body.

    When you meet someone who truly loves you, you will regret your actions today.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    First express sympathy, and then look back, think about whether you are wrong or not, why did you give yourself to him so casually, and you also had 4 abortions for him??? Poor people must have something to hate, and you should wake up yourself, go to the hospital for a check-up... Look at what the doctor says, this boyfriend, don't ask for it, start over, you can't find a good man if you don't believe it???

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You're sick! Mom's so cheap, hurry up and go to the hospital to see if he really feels sorry for you?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Abortion for a man 4 times shows that the man is not a person who can be relied on for a lifetime, sister, don't be stupid, I advise you to give up this love history early, adjust your life, stand up again, and find an honest man who can really rely on!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This kind of man doesn't want it, he must not understand how much courage it takes for you to bear such a great pain of love alone, you have done so much for him and he is so ruthless to have another woman, do you think it is worth it for you to do this? And what do you get? I know that people are selfish, but there must be a certain limit!

    The child is innocent, but he ruthlessly deprived them of the right to live, are you still ready to live with such a man for the rest of your life? You won't be happy then, sister, think about it! Don't make a mistake again and again!

    Wouldn't it be nice to find someone who loves you for the rest of your life for the sake of your happiness? Let's form a family and live a happy life! You must be happy!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Go to the hospital for a check-up, it's safer! It's best to take some Chinese medicine to recuperate.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Alas. Also asked which one he chooses?

    mm, why do you want others to say in your life, what is the point of such a man even if you win it temporarily, will you be happy in the future?

    He can have other women now, and he will in the future.

    You love yourself so much! You're only once in life!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Men don't like to be tied down, so many people don't like to marry early. Women like to get married early and have a stable home.

    If you are willing to wait, stay with him; If you don't want to, find someone who is willing to get married. It's all up to you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Since he likes you, why not marry you? Wouldn't it be better to give you a sense of security?

    Because you must know that there are still differences between men and women in terms of marriage, and women have the best period to have children! Don't wait until you're in your 30s and then break up, you'll lose a lot!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's good to like it, and after a long time, people's minds will still change. If you like it, stick to it!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you don't want to get married, leave him, there is a saying "If you don't fall in love with the purpose of getting married, you are a hooligan"!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If I were a woman, I would break up with him, because no one wants to find a perfect love.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you like him, you have to accept his ideas.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Personally, I think that the first choice is to make sure that you feel that you have a good impression, which is very important, given the current social climate, and if you are in a relationship for the first time, I think your boyfriend still doesn't need to be too handsome, and you don't need to be very sweet-talking, you may not be able to catch such a man.

    So I suggest you find someone who is a little more honest, preferably someone who has no experience in love, and you need to know a little bit about it, and I think this kind of love is more innocent and reliable.

    As for the pig man, no matter what kind of boyfriend you have, I'm afraid it won't be very good at provoking you 1He knew he was out of play 2He also didn't want unnecessary trouble.

    I hope it will be useful to you hehe and I wish you happiness and happiness.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    The first conditions are saying.

    Say; How tall, how thin, how learned, how accomplished, how charming, and so on.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Responsibility, respect, is important. Boys don't have to be handsome, but to be decent, they must be self-motivated and work hard. Don't complain That's enough, you must judge well when you see a boy.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    There are all kinds of men in the world, you see that you like that kind of character, oh, I am also a man, but I am here to tell you that the way to do a good job is to get along with him for a while. If you like it, you will continue to dislike it, but it's a little bit oh, be careful not to pay indiscriminately. I won't be able to take it back then.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Character, conditions, and most importantly, putting yourself first!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    We can only take the opinions of family members as a reference, but whether you want to continue to maintain this relationship depends on yourself, because love is like wearing shoes, wearing them on your feet, whether it is suitable or not, whether it is comfortable or not, only you know best. Others can't understand it, and others can't enjoy this love and warmth for you. Family is just to give you a reference point of view, the most important choice is still yours, because it is your future husband who lives for a lifetime, not your parents, marriage is like reincarnation, marry well, marry right, don't need to be too rich, just get along happily together, marry a rich person if you don't love, although the material will make you feel very rich, but your spirit will suffer a lot of unsatisfactory, then you will only suffer for a lifetime, do you rather suffer for a while or suffer for a lifetime?

    I think the landlord should understand it very well, right?

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you hesitate, it means that you still don't love him, but I think you should stand firm. The opposition of the family can be referred to, but after all, it is you and him. Think well, think rationally, and clarify your opinions. But don't go too far.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I will have a good talk with my parents, saying that I love the person I am with now, because I think I will be happy with him, parents, what I want is very simple is that I can find someone I like and like me, I don't value money, fame and fortune, as long as two people are happy together, can live a happy life, I hope you understand me, I don't want much... Just him ...

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Have a good talk and weigh the pros and cons. After all, it's about two families, not two people, and people can't be so selfish sometimes. The so-called love is selfish and self-deceptive.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    The opinions of the family can be used as a reference The premise is that you must carefully see whether the man is worthy of you to be with him for the rest of your life, and the decision is up to you.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Sincerely, the golden stone is open, work hard, as long as you really love him, he is also worthy of your love, then you will use your heart to influence your parents...

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    You first slowly let your parents get to know your boyfriend, let your parents slowly accept him, so as to enhance the harmony of the family.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If you are truly in love, you will temporarily move from public to underground and grow up well until your family agrees!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    If you really love each other, explain it to your family.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Convince the family.

    Find out why you disagree!

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Think about why your family is against it.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Hehe, since he chose you, he has to face the loss of another suitor

    Besides, the other few people don't associate with your girlfriend when they see that she chooses, which means that it is not a real friendship

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Yes, as long as that first love is the hunger she has loved, it is difficult to surpass.

    That's what happened to me. , quite painful.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    I'm like that too.

    Chose him, lost someone else.

    I was very unhappy for the first few days, in fact, I didn't feel much for him, I felt sorry for those who loved me, but he was very good to me, loved me wholeheartedly, and he didn't make me regret my decision, understand? Good for her.

    Now I wish I could stay with him 24 hours a day, I just need him.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Worthy of your love for her.

    Or you'll regret it.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    I don't know what to say, a lot of things are feeling, if this is not even a friend, first of all, they don't treat you as friends, do they?

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Those people obviously have impure motives, they are dumbfounded, they don't treat your girlfriend as a friend at all, hey, the man is pulling like this, hehe.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    You should say.

    You don't have to be disappointed, because you've got me.

    One I took the place of everyone, haha,

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    There's no reason why love is selfish.

    Choose one of the two love and friendship.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Needless to say, the quality of those people who pursued her was definitely not good.

    It is even suspected that their motives are not pure.

    If you can't be a lover, you can be friends.

    You don't have to care.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Is that really with you.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Be good to her, make up for all the people who are good to her from your friend, and don't make your girlfriend feel lonely.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    You just have to love her and cherish her.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Needless to say, love her well, cherish it, and wish you happiness.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    You should say, "You chose me, but you lost several friends." I feel guilty about it, and I think you should confess your heart to them.

    Then look at her mood and make a decision1

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    Your ex-boyfriend likes you very much and loves you deeply. It's unforgettable. Love matters still depend on your feelings, likes, interests, and hobbies.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    You can choose whoever you like the most, and you can't like two men at the same time.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    Look at the person, emotional things can't be forced, you think the one loves you more, you choose whomever you want.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    The boyfriend is before marriage, everything can be tolerated, the husband is after marriage, living in firewood, rice, oil and salt, it is inevitable that there will be some unpleasantness, so the boyfriend can choose the romantic one, and the husband must be honest and reliable.

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    When two people are together, it is love, and after marriage, it turns into family affection, so you must be cautious when choosing a husband! Get to know each other before we get to know each other. Otherwise you will regret it.

Related questions
74 answers2024-05-27

Beautiful women also have their own view of love and marriage, of course, there are unmarried people among beautiful women, for unmarried beautiful women, falling in love, is to find a satisfactory marriage partner, so love can not be talked about casually, but also to meet your requirements for marriage objects and suitable for themselves, if you have not met, some beautiful women will not settle, will always be single, beautiful women with a stable boyfriend are met with a man who suits themselves, before entering love.

18 answers2024-05-27

Infatuated woman Bo Qinglang, do you know that he will spend his money **, 500 is not enough to eat? It can't be taking money to other women, can you bear it? Would you like to? >>>More

39 answers2024-05-27

This is normal, boys generally have a fixed girlfriend and an ambiguous female friend, but don't worry too much, people are the most beautiful when they can't get it, but now he has chosen you, it means that you are still special than his other female friends, occasionally he complains to that ambiguous female friend, you can drink a little vinegar, but not too much, boys, they don't like to be tied up too much, there is a free space to better set off the beauty and warmth of the world of the two!

30 answers2024-05-27

The past is gone forever!

Don't keep those things in your head anymore! >>>More

12 answers2024-05-27

I don't know how you weigh your feelings in love and self, if I were you, I would choose to leave. After listening to your description, my heart hurts a little, why is it always us girls who are hurt? Your boyfriend makes me feel terrible, I always feel that such a plot can only be found in TV dramas, but now I know, maybe this kind of thing is quietly staged in the corners of the city every day, but you found out, and how many girls have not found out, the woman hiding in the toilet and kissing your boyfriend should be a singing girl. >>>More