What should I do if my girlfriend is not confident, what should I do if I lack trust in my girlfrien

He needs your comfort and your arms right now.

Holding him and saying that the sky is stepping down, and you are still on top.

He needs you to hold up a clear sky for him.

If it's a man, he's trying to make money, and it's nonsense to say anything else.

It's as realistic as that.

What about a lack of trust? I think both sides who lack a sense of trust are anxious. So, when we lack a sense of trust, we need to replenish our energy.

Why do we lack a sense of trust? The pressure of life, work, and study is too great, and we are less and less concerned about and caring for everyone around us, especially ignoring our relatives, friends, and lovers. We often have a rejection and indifferent attitude towards the kindness and love of others, because we lack a sense of trust.

When you lack a sense of trust, you get very tired. Because you have to question everyone and society, you can't open your heart to others, you can't trust everyone, you disguise yourself as a hedgehog. So, from this moment on, when you realize that you have a problem, you have to believe in the other person, believe in this society, and believe in yourself. You have to learn to accept, to accept, to open your heart.

Everyone may not have bad intentions towards each other, but they also have defense, and only to their relatives, lovers, and friends have let go of this defense. It doesn't matter, it's indispensable, so it's not a relationship of insecurity and trust. If you have suffered similar psychological trauma, I hope you can take good care of yourself and let others into your heart.

Don't be afraid, don't dwell on it, when you cross this hurdle yourself, things will pass. If there is no way, you can choose to find a psychologist, seeking medical treatment is not a ridiculous or embarrassing thing, you have to look at and accept it correctly, so that you are a healthy person.

I hope that each of us can believe in the beauty of society, but also guard against people's hearts, willing to accept the perfection of life, but also willing to accept the imperfection of work, and may we all have a good attitude and lifestyle.

I think you should communicate more with your girlfriend, if you still don't have a sense of trust in your girlfriend, then you will break up, and you can't go on without a relationship of trust.

The answer is that there was some misunderstanding between you, which caused you to doubt her, did you communicate with her, just talk about it, don't be estranged because of misunderstanding. It's easy to fall in love and hard to get along, and when two people are together, the most important thing is trust and tolerance. If you love her, talk to her [happy].

I can't communicate with each other.

Question: Would it be good if you got divorced.

Answer: Husband and wife should communicate more, don't jump to conclusions first, or talk about it from the bottom of your heart, and say all your thoughts, so that the knots in your heart can be unraveled. Do you have children? If you have children, don't say the word divorce easily, think about the children!

Question: Thirty-five years, we are all old.

Cherish each other. After so many years, it is really not easy. Think about the years you shared through thick and thin, and look at your lovely children, all of which are good memories that belong to the two of you.

Don't make the wrong decision on the spur of the moment, calm down and think about it again [smile].

Break up, you don't trust your girlfriend anymore, feelings without trust are meaningless, such feelings are also very fragile, it's better to break up early.

You should break up with her, because you have already developed resistance to her in your heart, and if you don't have a sense of trust in her, you will be wary of her, and it is impossible for you to change, and breaking up is the best way.

Communicate more, know why your girlfriend lacks a sense of trust, and then solve the problem together, and make sure your girlfriend believes in herself again.

First ask yourself what makes your girlfriend feel uneasy, and then try to let go of your heart knots and try to increase your trust in your girlfriend, after all, a relationship without trust can't last long.

Communicate more with your girlfriend, you need to let your girlfriend know about it, and you have to come up with a solution together, try to trust your girlfriend, and two people can't have a lot of suspicion together.

Have more opportunities for both parties to communicate, talk about the current strengths and weaknesses of the other party, and the reasons why you don't trust your girlfriend, understand each other more, and believe that you will get better and better.

You should learn to try to trust your girlfriend, instead of doubting your girlfriend, try to convince yourself, and learn to trust the other person.

Strive to improve yourself. When you become strong enough, girls will get used to relying on you and won't be ambiguous with other guys.

Summary. It should be that you forgot her birthday and then felt like you didn't care too much about her.

My girlfriend said she didn't have confidence in me.

Why does your girlfriend not have confidence in you?

I don't know, it turns out that it's okay, she is not the kind of person who likes to talk very much, but I forgot about my girlfriend's birthday, and ignored me for two or three days after that, and today I told me that I have no confidence in me.

It should be that you forgot her birthday and then felt like you didn't care too much about her.

Coax her back, and swear there won't be a next time.

I said a lot of good things, and she wasn't so unhappy anymore, just said to me, asked me, why am I so good to her, there is no need, etc., I said a lot of things that I said because I was good to her, and finally she told me this.

It depends on her family of origin, how she relates with her parents, and whether she is loved and respected.

She was a girl who was spoiled by her parents.

Then her feelings for you may not be the feelings of lovers, and she doesn't want to owe you anything.

Meaning she doesn't love me anymore, does she?

I'm just embarrassed to say it directly, right?

I suggest you ask her directly to be better.

It gives you the feeling of it.

First of all, I only know her unilaterally from your mouth. From a psychological point of view, it cannot be arbitrarily evaluated.