What should I do if I break up because of the marriage deposit?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-11
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Everything is very realistic, there is capital to this and that, first of all, she has to have capital, what capital, according to you should look good, or you want this to that, it seems a little unrealistic, if, you think you have good ability, the points will be divided, you think about it, she has no job, all like this, what will happen in the future? How long have you had faith in this marriage? If it doesn't work, go your own way...

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Yas. Do you want to buy or marry? How does it feel to buy back a wife. Instead of marrying back 、、、

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Divide it... What a woman... If the deposit is small, you won't marry... Does she like you as a person or your deposit... Love the deposit... Give him two mouths ... Tell him to get out of the way...

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Divide it or there will be no peace in the future.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Let's break up. Otherwise, it will be painful for a lifetime.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You ask her if it's emotional or money important? If she feels that her feelings are important, then marry you, if she feels that money is important, then go to the rich, the rich can give her any satisfaction, we just suggest, the decision is up to you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Break up, she's too inconsiderate.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Fainted, this is blackmail, you paid so much for him before, and you still asked for this and that.

    Is this still love? Let him go, this kind of woman Let him return the money you gave him before, this kind of woman, even if he is satisfied now, it is estimated that the marriage will not last long. Wake up early, it's boring for such a woman.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Not married yet. It's just about money.

    What if you get married. I'm dizzy.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Lower your posture, actively apologize, talk about it without being impatient, understand self-reflection after arguing, become more intimate and intimate, talk about things, do not pretend to be pitiful, want to indulge, from reprimanding to communication, etc., in the face of such a situation, first of all, we must first understand the reasons for the conflict, and then solve the problem from the root, after all, many people are cold and violent after the conflict, which will seriously hurt each other's feelings. What should we do if we have a conflict over an engagement?

    1.Lower your profile and apologize. When two people are together, they should sincerely think about each other. People who apologize usually cherish this emotion more and make a positive apology, and one thought can lead to very different results.

    2.Let's talk about it without hurry. If both of them are more rational after a quarrel, then neither of them is in a hurry to sit and talk.

    Express your own opinion on the matter in a reasonable way so that the other person understands your thoughts. Only by putting ourselves in the other person's shoes can we understand the other person.

    3.After arguing, I understand self-reflection, and the more noisy I become, the more intimate I become. If, after a fight, you find that both of them care about the matter and are reluctant to speak ill of each other. Such quarrels make people noisier, more intimate, and more stable.

    4.Just take matters into account, don't pretend to be pitiful. When the corners of the mouth arise, is it if you are related to the other party, whether it is your parents, friends or next-door neighbors, maybe this random mess ** makes the problem more and more serious, and the quarrel ends up you leave a hurtful word, how good it would be if I was a single man or woman.

    5.wants to catch the old and indulge, from denunciation to communication. Sugar-coated shells are sometimes more lethal than live ammunition because boys usually eat soft rather than hard.

    The greatest technicality of the quarrel lies in the victory over the strong with mildness. For example, as long as you don't say hello and you don't see it, it's hard for me to do that because there are so many topics about you to discuss. Being a victim will also give you a better basis for further communication.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Faced with such a situation, the two should come forward to solve the problem, and the two should also communicate with each other.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In such a situation, you should communicate with each other in a timely manner, and then you should take a step back, don't be careful, you must pay too much attention when communicating, two people should negotiate with each other and respect each other, so as to alleviate the conflict well.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The two of them should sit down and discuss this matter, and they can each take a step back, after all, it is not easy to get to this point.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    2 people should sit down calmly, and then bring up the things that both parties are not satisfied with, and then solve them one by one.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    What should I do if I have a conflict because of an engagement? I don't think it's right for your family to talk to your boyfriend because of so little money. It's not right for you to talk to your boyfriend, it's not right for you to talk to your boyfriend, it's very important for your boyfriend that you can talk to your boyfriend first and reassure him.

    Don't hurt the feelings of two people because of two family matters. My friend told me that you can encourage me too.

    If it is because of some trivial matters, no matter who provokes the dispute, the man is generous, bows his head and admits his mistake, it is best to save this marriage, even if it cannot be recovered, there will be no regrets in his heart. If you spend a lot of money and two people break up, if the money is not returned, your loss will be great, after all, you and your girlfriend have been in love, and what the two of you have done together, only the two of you know. Because the current contradictions will still appear in the future married life, and there will be more and greater contradictions in the future marriage, how will you deal with them then?

    Divorced? Even if you get divorced, will the conflict be resolved?

    Engaged, can't go together, and think about it, you can let go of each other, then go their separate ways. Compared with the breakup of ordinary boyfriends and girlfriends, there are some more complicated things, that is, parents may be involved. Since they are engaged, it means that both parties have a good feeling, and what is the reason for the breakup?

    It shows that the relationship is not so strong, find the reason, ** there are no contradictory feelings.

    Women who value love often need to have enough emotional security, which has nothing to do with material things. Then, what she thinks about most now should be to break up with you and have another good couple. Because money really is a good litmus test for love.

    Marriage is not a child's play, and it is not a good image to talk about such a major event at every turn, it is not an essential problem, it is good to coax, and if it is an essential problem, it must be carefully considered. See if you can do what she asks, or if you want to meet her requirements, if you feel that she is unreasonable, the two sides are deadlocked, or only break up in one shot or two.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It is not difficult to get engaged, the difficult thing is that the negotiated conditions before the engagement need to be resolved.

    This is not uncommon, and many young people do not know what to do before getting engaged. In fact, it is the confrontation between the conditions and cultures of the two families, the engagement is wrong, and the wedding is still wrong.

    Obviously, it must be a unilateral request that exceeds specifications or budgets.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you are engaged and quarreled because of the matter of opening the three golds, it is recommended to consider whether the practice of your boyfriend's family really respects your family and values this relationship.

    The gift money that the parents of both parties communicated clearly in person, Tu Na suddenly changed, undoubtedly because they felt that you had been together for a long time, and they had lived together, and your boyfriend had already pinched you, so they didn't want to spend more money to marry you. In fact, marriage is really a process of mutual consultation, and everything must be said in advance, rather than changing the hexagram on the expiration date. Poverty and perfunctory are two different things.

    So, I feel bride price.

    The three golds are secondary, there are always people who are more and more magnificent than you, there are people who have given you everything and still do enough bad things, and there are many people who really can't afford to give these things, and there are also people like my boyfriend, who admit death.

    The most fundamental thing is how he is as a person, how his ability and character are, whether he is good to you, and whether his family is friendly. The two of you have been together for so many years, you must have feelings about these, how does he usually treat you?

    He's just unhappy because of the marriage? Or do you have these "nasty" moments? If he doesn't pass the test, let him goaway quickly, he is really disrespectful.

    If he is just anxious about marriage, then you can talk frankly, marriage is a combination of two people, two people's contributions, just talk about it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I think it should depend on the size of the contradiction, if the personality of the two people is really inappropriate, then they should break up, regardless of whether the family agrees or not, forcing them together will only make life more painful in the future.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You must be very resolute, because happiness is in your own hands, and if you get married, the conflict will be very serious. Discuss with your family to get out of the marriage as soon as possible.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I think the most important thing is to see what kind of contradictions the two of you have, after all, you have reached the stage of engagement, and some things can be tolerated.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Legal analysis: After the engagement, the two parties can return the three gold and the color of the huli through negotiation, and if the negotiation fails, they can sue the court and the court will decide according to the facts. In accordance with the relevant laws, if the parties have not completed the marriage registration formalities, the parties have gone through the marriage registration formalities but do not live together, or the pre-marital payment has caused the payor to have a very difficult life, the court will support the case if the parties sue for the return of the bride price paid in accordance with custom.

    Legal basis: "Interpretation of the Supreme People's Court on the Application of the Marriage and Family Section of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China" Article 5: Where a party requests the return of a bride price paid in accordance with custom, the people's court shall support it if it is ascertained that the following circumstances apply: (1) the parties have not gone through the marriage registration formalities; (2) The parties have gone through the formalities of registering their marriage but are not living together; (3) Premarital payments that cause hardship to the payor.

    The application of the provisions of items (2) and (3) of the preceding paragraph shall be conditional on the divorce of both parties.

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