There are boys chasing me, what should I do, I m only in my first year of junior high school

I think the relationship between the two of you belongs to the friendship between the opposite sex, or just the affection between the opposite sex, and it is not enough to say that you are in love. I'm a young man in my twenties, so don't say I'm mentally old. You're only in the first year of junior high school, so you should only be thirteen or fourteen years old, so it's still early to fall in love.

If you are a little older, say over sixteen, then it is not an exaggeration for you to fall in love, at that time both parties have established rational thoughts, and it is normal to be in love (although parents will prevent it, saying that it is early love). Moreover, the liking in your heart is not the same as the liking in his heart, and being together in the future will be more just annoyance. Don't tell me that you can already be autonomous, although the child is precocious now, but this is too early, I don't know what is the sinister human heart, so don't pay too much attention to yourself.

The above is just my personal advice, the decision is up to you, and it's never too late to think about it before drawing conclusions.

Study hard, and when your academic performance is stable, think about emotional matters. By the way, the first and second years of junior high school are the most crucial, because in order to lay a good foundation for future knowledge, you must grasp this time.

This is normal, don't talk about your academic performance. Students are mainly learning, but no one is a student all their lives, right? When you are young, all you have to learn is to be educated and accept ideas.

An open mind is not nonsense, I suggest this, not far from this boy, but don't let your parents and teachers worry about it, that is, don't do anything that shouldn't happen. You'll find out when you're in the third year of junior high school.

Be friends first, because you're still young, even now that you've developed into a love relationship, it's the same as a good friend, give him a test period Childhood sweethearts can only cross the friendship relationship at a certain stage! Academics are important or you will regret it for the rest of your life! Love in college is very unreliable, not to mention that you are only in one now!

Don't eat the green apple of love so early, it's very bitter You are all class cadres, you spend a lot of time together, you have to grasp a degree!

Do you like him? If you like it, agree to it, if you don't like it, refuse it And see if your family is strict with you, if your family has a tough attitude towards children's early love, don't agree, so it's not good for yourself and him, if you like each other, then agree with him, and then don't affect the study, you can agree to date! But I think you're quite young now, and you may not be very mature and rational in terms of feelings, and it's girls who are easy to get hurt in the future, and if you don't have a good relationship, it will affect your studies.

I said mmI'm a few years older than you, in fact, junior high school love is just a feeling of holding hands, not necessarily do deviant things and will not necessarily affect learning, if it is handled well, it will help learning, I study well, but how many people know that I have been in love a few times? At that time, I told my parents about it, but they were very open-minded, telling me that everyone came from here, as long as they grasped the measure, it would be fine, I remember that once the education channel reported an issue of middle school students, they talked about this problem with parent experts, and the experts also said that the feeling of holding hands is not necessarily harmful, it may be beneficial, but the deliberate control is not good, you can go to the Internet to search for that issue of ** [middle school students' love], you can also talk to your parents, if they are not very feudal, You can also send me a message, and if you can help, you can help.

Being friends is the best choice, otherwise one day if you break up, you won't even be able to be friends. Because at your current age, it is possible that the one who will not break up together is very small, and there will be more ...... of better boys in the future

I'm in the second year of junior high school, and I've encountered your situation even He was a very handsome person at the beginning, and he didn't even pay attention to it, and he couldn't even call his name, but he still agreed Although we broke up when the second year ......of junior high school started, we separated, but at least the first love was so sour, so sweet, and so short-livedEnjoy, yes Now I've got another one, and now with his encouragement, I'm getting more and more interested in learning!!

As a friend in learning, you should not only study hard, but more importantly, grow up healthy and happy.

Study hard and put an end to early love! You're still early, it's just right to go to college!

Promise him. As long as you are in love and studying, you can do it.

Learn feelings 2 correctly.

When there is a difference in feelings, how can you have the heart to listen carefully in class.

Summary. Hello dear, I'm glad to answer for you, dear is not recommended to chase it.

I fell in love with a boy in junior high school, do you want to chase it?

Hello dear, I'm glad to answer for you, dear is not recommended to chase it.

Why? But I really like it, I like it, I like it very much.

My dear, it must be academics, you junior high school students are also under a lot of pressure, and you are easily distracted and talk about feelings.

My dear, if you can guarantee this, then you can pursue it, after all, adolescence.

It is also normal.

So how to chase? Finger it.

My dear, take the initiative to get to know him, take the initiative to chat with him, find common topics, and talk about common interests.

Honey, or you can also go to ** study problems with him, and then you progress together.

Honey, don't write love letters or anything like that.

How to chase: first silently grasp him according to various perspectives, grasp his temperament, and see if his three views are suitable for you. To make sure that he does not contradict you, do not stipulate that another blind repentant party has a good impression of you, if he has a good impression of you, you don't need to chase after you, just a little expression.

You can chat with him more, learn about his interests and hobbies from the chat, Qi Qi but can't chat frequently, and girls chasing people should also properly protect or close the sense of distance. You can try to be as playful and cute as possible when chatting.,Boys in junior high school aren't very mature mentally.,Subconsciously like cute girls.。

Chasing boys should be lighter Liang clan annihilation, women chasing men, interlayer yarn, you have to create more opportunities for contact with him, and then there are boys who like gentle girls, if you want to chase him, you must not be too anxious, use your charm to attract him.

Summary. Hello, glad to answer for you! What should I do if I meet a boy I like in the first year of junior high school, hello, the boy you had a crush on in the first year of junior high school, and when you grow up, you may not like him very much, and you just put the crush in your heart, and you like it silently.

Hello, glad to answer for you! What should I do if I meet a boy I like in the first year of junior high school, hello, the boy you had a crush on in the first year of junior high school, and when you grow up, you may not like him very much, and you just put the crush in your heart, and you like it silently.

Puppy love has hazy, simple, and unstable behavior, and the main harms are affecting one's physical and mental health, greatly interfering with learning, easy to produce deviant behaviors, and may even lead to crime. 1.Affects physical and mental health:

Adolescents are emotionally unstable, impulsive, and have poor self-control, which can cause great mental and physical harm to them if they become pregnant. 2.Impact on Learning:

Early love will waste each other's time to a certain extent, resulting in distraction, resulting in a serious decline in academic performance, affecting learning and affecting personal future. 3.Illegal and criminal acts:

If there are conflicts or failures in love, some people are prone to extreme thoughts and behaviors, and without considering the consequences, they will embark on the road of breaking the law and committing crimes.

I've had that experience before, but maybe I hid my love even deeper, and the only thing I could do at the time was pray to see him every morning (we weren't in the same class), and I counted the time every day and looked at the school gate with trepidation, which is always funny when I think about it now.

Well......To get back to the point, as you said: "I want to be with him and treat him gently If I have to separate, I will smile and say goodbye and thank him for giving me this unforgettable junior high school", this boy and you, no matter what the final result is, you can remember with a smile at the end. Everyone's first love is beautiful, it is a subtle beauty, and the blush and heartbeat of the teenager are the fragments that are treasured in the deepest part of the heart.

Maybe it was because I was too timid to say that love, so now I want to encourage you to be brave and face the person you like (laughs).

Since you like it, then say it, let him know your mind, give you an affirmation, and you will be much more down-to-earth. You took a key chain off for him, and you can see that you are a very delicate girl But I think the words "I love you" are too heavy, maybe you don't have enough capacity to bear it now. Maybe I'm a little stubborn, but I've always thought that "I like you" is more in line with teenagers.

I don't know if you know what I mean.

In the end, I think if he accepts you, he won't care about your height; If he cares about your height, it means that there is still a distance between him and you, and you can choose to continue to work hard or give up; The worst outcome, if he simply rejects you, don't be too sad, after all, he is just a passerby, and it is still unknown who is leading the red line that belongs to you......

Finally, since you are already in the third year of junior high school, of course, learning is your top priority, and you can't affect your learning because of him

I think if you like a boy very much, you should still work hard to fight for it, so that you can leave no regrets for your youth, sometimes cranky thinking is useless, you can try more, in case it succeeds.

If you confess, there may be a lot of happiness, but it won't last long, after the excitement, all that remains is loss, and maybe a friend will be lost. What's more, you are now in the third year of junior high school, it is best to spend it peacefully, if he is at the same level as you, you can encourage each other and let him be an "uninformed". Isn't it best for us to see flowers in the fog when we are in adolescence?

When you look back on your junior high school life years later, this relationship will be a vague ...... of happiness

You can talk to him more on QQ, and see if he has a more positive attitude towards you, or if he doesn't respond to you sometimes, and he talks to you very well, and you can show him what you think.

I think I can try to pursue it, although the likes of junior high school are not really likes. But you can try, this is also a form of blooming youth, and you will experience what it is to really like it earlier.

You shouldn't chase it, you're still too young at this age, and the third year of junior high school is still focused on studying.

As for what you said about having an explanation for this relationship, what kind of explanation do you want? Confess to him and then know if he likes you too?

If he likes you too, isn't it your start dating?

Junior high school girls are in adolescence at this time, and it's okay to have ideas, but it's more important to focus on academics, don't fall in love so quickly, and when you grow up, you will find that there are many boys you like.

I don't think it's better not to go to Zhou him, because you are still young, you should put all your energy into studying, and when you grow up, you will finish your studies, and you still like her words. You can chase it boldly.

You are now in the third year of junior high school, and it is recommended that you do not chase it, because junior high school is not an age to fall in love, you can continue to like it, just silently, and be friends.

I think it's mainly time to study now, and these emotional things should be put aside for a while, and you can keep these emotions in your heart first.