Can two people be friends after a breakup?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-13
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    All I can say is, hard. After I broke up with my boyfriend, I was like a stranger, and I barely had any contact. I remember someone saying that those who can still be friends after a breakup either haven't loved or are still in love.

    If you break up with a lot of trouble, it can be difficult. If not, it's possible to be friends.

    Of course, it also varies from person to person. Maybe some couples break up, but they still have nostalgia for each other and will become friends. Of course, there will be a little embarrassment, after all, they once fell in love.

    But my advice is that it's better not to be very close friends, but to be ordinary, occasional contact, occasional help to confide in is enough.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you have to ask this question simply, the answer is, of course, yes, but in Wen Qing's opinion.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Most of it is impossible

    There is a possibility that after many years, both of them have their own marriages and families, but they still have occasional contact with each other

    The key depends on the situation when the two break up

    If one side is hurt deeply, it is unlikely.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Yes, as long as both parties can let go of this relationship.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In general, it is unlikely. Sometimes it also depends on what is the reason for the breakup?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Friendship can promote love, but love can't retreat to friendship!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It depends on your personality! In short, be open-minded, the landlord relaxes!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    What answer do you want to hear?

    I don't think there's a way to be friends.

    Being friends after a breakup is nothing more than two situations, the first is that he still wants to reconcile with you, continues to exchange feelings, and waits for the opportunity.

    Second, you already have a new relationship, but he still doesn't hesitate to be friends with you, he hasn't loved you.

    In short, it will inevitably be a little awkward after separation.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I can't say no, but it's basically impossible to be friends.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's hard, like two straight lines that have intersected, and the distance between the endpoints will be very far.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It depends on the wishes of both parties.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    1. I think two people break up, and they can't be friends in general.

    Because sometimes two people may not want to see each other because of some things, and then after the breakup, they may feel a little upset when they see each other, and they always remember some things when they broke up, and they will feel a little sad. It also avoids embarrassment, and the two will never meet again. Even if they meet on the road, they won't know each other and guess each other, just like strangers, which also avoids the situation that two people are too embarrassed by each other.

    2. If two people used to be friends and then came together, they may still be friends.

    Two people grew up together, and then came together because of some circumstances, and in the end they may find that the two parties are not suitable, and the two of them will take the initiative to break up, but they can continue to be friends like this, after all, both parties understand each other and can be a close friend. In this way, if the two people encounter some difficulties, they can also have some chats together. Or a situation where the other person is given some help.

    3. Like after breaking up with the other party, you may have some regrets, and it will be easy to be friends.

    When the two broke up at that time, Shuangqingzi didn't think it through Suizhen, and then maybe after a long time, the two felt a little regretful about breaking up, so the two people may go to find each other, and then they may start with ordinary friends and then continue to do it, and when the relationship slowly recovers, the two can come together again.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The answer to the question of whether two people can be ordinary friends after breaking up is not black and white. In some cases, two people can remain in a normal friend relationship after a breakup, while in other cases, it is not possible.

    First of all, two people need to have such a willingness to maintain a relationship of ordinary friends. If one of the partners can't accept the fact of the breakup or still loves the other person, continuing to be friends can be difficult for them to let go of and even further exacerbate the emotional pain. Therefore, if one party is hesitant or unwilling to remain friends after a breakup, then the relationship is likely to be unsustainable.

    Secondly, the reason why two people break up can also affect whether they are able to become regular friends or not. If the breakup is due to conflicts and disharmony between the parties, then remaining friends after the breakup may allow them to relive unpleasant experiences from the past and may even trigger new conflicts. However, if the breakup is due to mutual respect and understanding, then they may maintain good communication and friendship after the breakup.

    In the end, whether or not two people can maintain a relationship as ordinary friends also depends on their personality and emotional willingness. Some people may feel that being friends with their ex will make them more mature and forgiving, while others may find the relationship uncomfortable or difficult for them to let go. Therefore, everyone needs to make a decision based on their feelings and emotional state when deciding whether or not they want to be friends with their ex.

    To sum up, whether two people can maintain a relationship as ordinary friends after a breakup depends on a variety of factors such as the wishes of both parties, the reason for the breakup, and their personality and emotional state. If both parties are willing and able to face the breakup in a mature and rational way, and without too many emotional entanglements and contradictions, then there is a good chance that they will become ordinary friends. However, if there are too many hurtful stuffiness and emotional issues during the breakup process, or if one party can't accept the fact of the breakup, it can be difficult to maintain a relationship with ordinary friends.

    Therefore, everyone needs to make rational and mature decisions based on their own circumstances when faced with whether or not to remain friends after a breakup, and avoid excessive entanglement and emotional damage.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think that after two people break up, of course, they can be ordinary friends, because the end of the relationship does not mean that all the connection and feelings of love between each other will be erased. While a breakup may be accompanied by pain and disappointment, we can choose to handle this transition in the relationship in a mature and rational way.

    First, as adults, we can redefine our relationship by breaking up. A breakup doesn't have to mean a complete breakup, and we can respect each other's choices and decisions while maintaining a certain amount of respect and care. After all, we have loved each other deeply and shared bits and pieces of life, and these wonderful memories should not be buried.

    Second, maintaining a moderate distance and time is key to maintaining a friendship. After a breakup, it may take a while for us to adjust to the new state of life, the pain in our hearts. In this process, temporary separation can help us re-examine our feelings and expectations, and also provide space for both of us to rebuild the foundation of our friendship.

    Also, being friends doesn't mean we have to be intimate partners again. Together, we can share hobbies, exchange life experiences, and provide support and help to each other. However, we also need to understand and accept each other's boundaries and personal space.

    Communicating openly and respecting each other's decisions will help us build healthy friendships.

    Finally, look at past emotional experiences with peace and tolerance. A breakup doesn't mean failure, it's an opportunity to grow. We can learn from this and apply these experiences to our future relationships.

    After all, everyone in life is part of our growth journey, whether they are our partner or friend.

    In general, two people can still be ordinary friends after breaking up. Through respect, time, communication, and tolerance, we can build a new form of relationship where past feelings can be transformed into cherished friendships. Such friendships may not be the same as before, but they can be a support network for us to grow and develop, and we can continue to walk through life's journey together.

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