The relationship between two people has faded, should they break up?

It's not time to break up, you're still thinking about everything on both sides.

It's been four years together, how can you say that it's divided?

Sometimes you get tired of it if you can't put it down.

The best thing to do is to be apart for a while.

Take a reason to leave and calm your mind (not a breakup), and I believe that by that time there will only be 2 results.

1。It's the feeling of getting back to the past.

2.Slowly forget. If it's the 2nd case, then time will solve your problem.

Your current mood is probably that you want to cherish it, but you can't do it.

It's better if the landlord can give some points, haha.

Breaking up now is just a temporary reluctance, and it's better than regretting it when you get married later. Is it interesting to get married just for four years? I don't know how many four years there are in a lifetime.

Don't divide it, isn't your love so untested?

Four years of relationship, how can it be easily forgotten, eating together, shopping together, watching movies together, too much, maybe every time I think about it in the future, it will hurt my heart, and I need to be cautious!

In fact, if the feeling is gone, everyone should not waste time, break up with each other kindly, and find new happiness.

Every time you fall in love, it will always be dull, do you break up every time??! Isn't it best to be reluctant to remain?

Feelings can't be forced without love It's not good to be together The only reason to be together is love.

Find a reason to hang out and have fun, and maybe come back to your mind differently.

Life is so uneventful.

Reluctance is actually feelings...

It shouldn't, if it's just because the novelty is too much, it's too inevitable to break up when the relationship is weakI am not responsible for the feelings of both parties.

First of all,Most people's emotional experience will have a period of run-in and a period of lullThis is due to the fact that after two people have experienced the original expected behavior when getting along, the impulsive hormones have gradually disappeared, both of them have understood each other very thoroughly, and the impulse of love has gradually decreased (to put it bluntly, the freshness has passed, and two people have begun to find fault with each other), which is a very normal phenomenonAnd this is also the beginning of the test of your love. At this time, it is necessary to think rationally, both parties should use their own sense of responsibility for love to maintain this relationship, analyze the reasons for the weakening of the relationship, and work together to go through this stage.

So what are the reasons for the weakening of feelings?

1. Aesthetic fatigue

In life, no matter how good the storyline is, or a good song, you will feel bored when you have listened to it hundreds of times, not to mention the girlfriend you have every day, which is a normal phenomenonAt this time, both parties need to create some freshness for each otherso that the other party will not be aesthetically fatigued, and the relationship will naturally pick up at this time.

2. Lack of communication and understanding

in feelingsThe most taboo thing is the lack of communicationIf the other party understands the wrong way and solves the problem in the wrong way, it will inevitably produce many contradictionsRemember, you are not alone, feelings require efforts from both parties, don't do everything alone and ignore the feelings of the other person.

3. When facing each other's shortcomings, they can't run in with each other

In love, two people are both the whole and two individuals, and it is inevitable that there will be shortcomings that are difficult for the other party to acceptAccept each other and tolerate each other, love is mutual, tolerance is mutualWhile the other party is tolerant,You also have to work hard to change yourself, think from the other person's point of view, so as to change their own shortcomings that make the other person uncomfortable.

In fact, love is not simply talking about love and watching movies every day, but a responsibility, why break up when the relationship is weak? Among the tens of millions of people, we are fortunate to be able to meetEveryone meets for a reason, and what couples have to do is to do itHolding each other's hands, going through the dull period, and from now on, the morning and dusk will be in pairs, and the four seasons will walk together.

I wish there are lovers in the world and eventually become married!

Everything must be explained from different angles, and we can look at it from two angles when the relationship is weak or not.

One: Don't break up.

Reason: 1: The relationship has weakened, it just means that you have passed the period of hot love, the relationship has gradually flattened, and all aspects have been understood very thoroughly, although there is no such momentum as the hot love period, but this is to prove whether you have the sincerity to go to the end.

2: After a long time in love, it is normal to return to the bland, no one will always be in love, but if the breakup can only mean that what you like is just freshness, this time to break up, you will always miss one because the relationship tends to be dull, you may as well try to spend a day with the person you love the most in this calm and beautiful life.

3: You just have a flat relationship, and you don't have each other anymore, no feelings, as long as you still love each other, then choose her firmly, maybe you will find another difference between each other during this time, don't choose another person because of freshness, but because a person continues to create freshness.

Two: Break up. Reason:

1: We all know that coldness is the biggest killer in a relationship, from bland to cold, it is normal, if during this time, see that this person is not dependent on himself, then it may be like this in the future life, rather than a cold life, it is better to let go of each other and fulfill each other.

2: In the process of free love, breaking up has become the price of growing up on the road of love, and you will think that you will meet the most suitable for yourself, as long as you feel that you will not regret your choice after leaving this person, and you will not give up the other party because it is a wrong decision during this lull period.

For the relationship, it is both beautiful and needs to be carefully cared for, getting a relationship, fulfilling a pair of lovers is fate, holding the hands of the people around you firmly is the most enviable, but don't compromise yourself.

<>l Escape the cycle of novelty.

Nowadays, many relationships can't escape the dead cycle of freshness, they are together because of a whim, and finally break up because they lose their freshness. This kind of fast-food relationship is all too common nowadays, so when you first choose to be together, you should ask yourself what you are together for. You must know that falling in love is never a simple thing.

No matter who you're with, you'll have a lot of problems. A song, even if you like it, you will get tired of listening to it after listening to it countless times. So it's the norm, you're just used to life with them.

And the end of the relationship is also a plain firewood, rice, oil and salt. Therefore, a weakened relationship is not a reason to break up. Even if you break up, do you dare to guarantee that the next relationship will not fade?

l Please maintain your relationship well.

The relationship needs to be maintained, rather than waiting for it to fade slowly, and then tell yourself that the relationship is fading, maybe you don't like that ta, and finally choose to break up. We should always recall our original intention when we chose to be with them in the first place. No one is born suitable, after being together for a long time, they will understand each other better, and they will slowly find that the other party is different from the one they first knew, but they are still the same him, and a good relationship should be constantly maintained and polished.

No one is born a couple, and those couples who have a very good relationship must have gone through many trials. The reality is not as beautiful as we imagined, and the relationship is not as smooth sailing as we imagined. You must know that tiredness and happiness do not conflict, and the run-in process of a good relationship must be tired, but it does not mean that it is a failed relationship.

So please pluck up the courage, since you have chosen to be with him, you must take the responsibility well, the relationship is a matter of two people, please cherish the relationship you are experiencing, everything will be fine.

It's very normal for feelings to be light, in fact, in any relationship, the freshness will never exceed that few months.

Now please ask yourself, if every relationship you talk about fades after a few months, do you have to break up every time?

Of course, I'm not saying you're going to break up. Rather, it is a rational perspective on how we should deal with this situation.

At this special time, we need to think about whether this person is worth it for us to keep going. This can be based on the person's qualities, if you can't be sure if you still really like the other person at this time.

After we have determined our hearts, all we have to do is to find novelty together with the two of us. At this time, this novelty is no longer found in each other, but you have to discover it together in some small activities.

Each of us originally had fantasies about love, but after all these experiences, our hopes may be polished. Still, keep that hope in love, and believe that you deserve it.

The people who love you won't make you feel like that's what love is all about.

Personally, I feel that two months is the beginning of a relationship. You're over before you start.

If you are not together, you are feelings, you are running in, you live together, if you don't get together, you will break up.

Hello, what if the relationship between two people is weak, at this time Qi Min grasps us or can keep a certain distance from each other, so that each other feels comfortable If the distance between two people is too close, there will be many contradictions, if they are too far away, they will be indifferent, and the appropriate distance is one of the secrets of emotional preservation. When you find that the relationship between two people is weak, you might as well let go of each other, give each other a little bit of room to do what you like, and in the process of doing what you like, we may find out what each other's attitude is towards each other after calming down, and it will also make each other care more about each other in the process of separation.

You can say more nice things to each other, say some love words in life, take each other on a trip, go to a tourist park, or send some funny emojis to each other in life, and you can watch movies.

You should think more about what the two of you have done together before, you should go on dates more, you should praise each other more to find each other's shining points, you should create some small surprises for each other, and the two of you can go out on a trip together to remedy it.

You can meet in time, communicate and communicate in a timely manner when you encounter problems, think about problems from the perspective of the other party, give gifts to each other when there are important holidays, prepare surprises for each other, and share some of your joy with each other in ordinary times.