Just got a marriage certificate, how to get along with two separate places

First of all, I am a woman, and my husband and I have been engaged for half a year. We all live abroad. The bright days ahead were planned, but because of something (I won't explain it here), my husband had to go back to China.

My heart was broken in the days he just left, and I had no one to rely on in my life. Because I don't know if you understand or not, people sometimes need to face more than just a little bit in other places, there are a lot of things that need to be taken care of by themselves, although I am a self-reliant and competitive girl, but the problem is that I am still a ......woman after all

The days go by like this, my husband and I only rely on text messages**,** to contact, because we are not a city in China, I am from Tianjin, he is from Dalian, so sometimes it is even more inconvenient!

Half a year has passed, but our relationship has not changed ......I said what I thought, just to tell the landlord you, husband and wife, what can not only be the maintenance of the wedding paper, that piece of paper is also light, married for so long and divorced is not a big deal, isn't it? All of us need to maintain it attentively, make this "friend" who wants to get along for half a lifetime, don't guess easily, and believe in each other! Any speculation and distrust is the result of ignorance ...

Finally, I wish you and your lover to be together sooner and be happy!!

I hope you pray for me as well......Ha.

People will experience many troubles in their lives, and you have only encountered a small part of them now, so don't be discouraged. Good days should be created by two people together, and they should be fought for together, and they should persist in encountering some short-term difficulties, and the days will always get better and better.

Let's find a way to change together in the future, after all, long-term separation is not good for marriage.

You have received a marriage license, but you are not living together??!

Is it because she doesn't agree or is you more patient? Now that high school students live together, you're married, don't teach this kind of thing, right?

What are you afraid of after you have received all the certificates?

Just have your heart, be kind to her, it's not easy for everyone, she will also be considerate of you, it will be fine in the future, and it will get better slowly, seize the time to start a business and make money, and give her happiness depends on you.

Question add: Something to add. We just got a marriage license. There has been no wedding yet. There is no cohabitation either.

I'm relieved. She's reassuring to me. The point is that we are not together. There is time when I want to share happiness with her. Break down the sorrows.

You are already legally married and have nothing to do with the wedding. You can live together without cohabitation! You are legally married, and it doesn't matter, you can't be together just because the place of work is too far away, can't you overcome this problem?

If she doesn't want to transfer, you can just transfer her to her side to work, can you say that you can't find a job again?

You know, if a woman does not have a man's love for a long time, it will be very painful, you have to love her and love her! Who made us men! Isn't it, don't make excuses if you love her, and if you don't love her, then leave it. No one is sorry for anyone, do you say?

Transfer together at every opportunity! There's always a way!

I think it's better to go with the flow.

What are you afraid of after you have received all the certificates?

It hurts to think about the separation of the two places!

How difficult it is for two people to realize that they love each other and then get married, they have experienced quarrels and misunderstandings, cried and laughed, and finally they can get married, maybe they have tried their best to get the result, so, if you can, you must not separate the two places, the distance of love will only produce distance!

If you have to live separately in reality, then communication and trust are the most important at this time, and patience, especially as a man, you must be more patient than usual.

If you can rush to each other's side on various anniversaries, try to spend them together, and if you can't, don't forget it, it's good to buy a small gift or something! If it's a woman, always remind yourself to put trust first!

Finally, when the two places are separated, remember the Cold War, and must not have a Cold War, the most emotionally consuming thing is the Cold War, don't!

Finally, I wish you a long time, happy and sweet love!

15 How long can a woman last if a husband and wife live separately? The two women spoke the truth.

1. On the conditions for divorce.

According to the provisions of the Marriage Law, if the relationship between the husband and wife has indeed broken down, a divorce may be granted.

2. About child support and child support.

For the issue of child support, it is necessary to carefully confirm the circumstances of both parties from the perspective of being conducive to the child's growth, but the child during the breastfeeding period is generally awarded to the woman for support, if it is not a lactation period, it is necessary to see that party is more suitable for the child's growth and solicit the child's own opinion. The parent who does not support the child should pay monthly maintenance until the child reaches the age of 18, and the standard of maintenance is generally between 20 and 30% of the annual income. If one party is not suitable to raise the child during the future maintenance period, the other party can go to court to file a new lawsuit to change the custody of the child.

3. On the division of common property.

The joint property and debts of the husband and wife shall be jointly owned and borne by the husband and wife, and shall generally be half of the person. If one party is at fault, the division of property can be divided with less or no share, and the specific share will be determined by the court. In general, after marriage, the prenuptial bride price is treated as joint property and cannot be refunded, and if there is no marriage, the other party can be asked to return the bride price.

4. About the divorce procedure, required documents and fees.

In the case of divorce by agreement, after negotiation between the two parties, they should go through the divorce formalities at the original marriage registration authority with the divorce agreement, marriage certificate and ID card of both parties and receive the divorce certificate; If one party does not agree or repents of non-performance after signing the divorce agreement, then the divorce shall be filed in the court where the defendant is domiciled, or in the court where the defendant has resided for more than one year, or if the defendant's whereabouts are unknown or imprisonment for more than one year, the divorce may be filed in the court where the plaintiff is located. The first instance is generally 6 months, and the second instance is 3 months. If the court does not leave the first judgment, it can file a new lawsuit after half a year, and the court of the second prosecution should generally rule away.

If the litigation fee for litigation divorce does not involve the division of property, it is generally 50 yuan, and if there is a division of property, the fee shall be paid according to the proportion of the property, which can be referred to the "Litigation Fee Measures".

The gods and horses are all floating clouds, ask if there is a wood in the feelings, and you can't afford to hurt the people who have feelings.

Divorce by mutual agreement or sue in court.

I'm very troublesome that you have the same problem.