How to make her learn to refuse other people s requests, and compatriots to help.

I was dizzy, exactly like when my girlfriend first started. You have to always tell her some practical examples, if you keep doing this, you will be bullied, rejection is the basic ability in the future, otherwise you will be very tired in the future, and her friends will not take her seriously, but like a servant. Tell her this often, this kind of personality problem requires a long period of persuasion.

It took me more than 1 year. Hope this experience is helpful to you.

Be tactful, so that you don't offend people, and you can keep yourself from doing things you don't like.

For example, if someone asks her to go to the movies, if she doesn't want to go, you can tell the person, I'm sorry, I have something to do tonight, something specific or something, and I fooled around with the person, didn't I politely refuse? ?

Of course, your sister is so kind, this is a good thing, it is a good thing to be able to help others, of course it is a good thing, helping others is the foundation of happiness! 1

Don't spoil your sister

Such a good sister, I want it in my dreams

That's actually good. Nothing bad ...

Don't be so polite, maybe I'll ask you for help in the future.

Follow me, what are you doing so politely.

Don't see me, you're too polite, who of us is with whom, helping you is both supposed to be and my business, if you need my help in the future, just contact me, I will not only turn on my mobile phone for you 24 hours a day, but I will be on call, listen to your dispatch.

Don't be in a hurry and be busy thanking me, we need to settle accounts and exchange courtesies, in the future, we may need your help, you don't have to worry about me, and the orange wheel is so clear, you may be able to use me, I may use you, and the two sides can help each other.

You're welcome, it's my pleasure to be able to serve you, and there are men who want to help you and can't find the opportunity to help you? I should thank you even more.

First express your gratitude, and then explain that you want to exercise your abilities.

In the workplace, sometimes you may be asked to do something that is not within the scope of your job, so what should you do? I think it depends on a case-by-case basis. First of all, if the task doesn't take up much of your time and effort and is very important to the company or team, then you can consider taking on the task.

Because your superiors or colleagues may need your help, and your help to solve problems can also establish your value and image in the team.

However, if the task is not your responsibility, or if it is not related to the work or area of expertise you are responsible for, and would cause serious disruption or delay to your own work, then you can politely decline it. Of course, you need to pay attention to your tone and style to let the other person know that your refusal is not a reluctance to help, but rather a consideration of the quality and efficiency of your work.

In general, you need to decide whether to accept or reject the task based on the actual situation, and don't make a decision lightly. In the field of work, you need to deal with different problems flexibly according to different situations and environments, and remain efficient and professional in the process of dealing with problems.

Thank you! I understand your heart! But you better take back the money.

Be firm when refusing and give a reasonable explanation. When people treat the result, they like to find a reason, such as "the reason why you love me", "the reason why you don't love me", which is like a circular ring, you give the result, and there must be a suitable reason, this is a complete ring.

Otherwise, the other party has always felt that there is still room for this matter to turn around, and you can find a way to find a breakthrough in your Sanzhou, and in the end, the endless entanglement is annoying.

At the same time, before you put on an attitude of refusal, first express the central idea tactfully, so that the other party can lower the expectation in their hearts, instead of refusing to reject the other party when you open your mouth, and delete the buffer brought by the previous courtesy directly with one click, which seems to be very hypocritical and not easy to convince people.

It's very simple, if you don't want to give, you can selectively ignore or behave hesitantly or something, if the other party knows Li Qiaozhou, then it won't continue to eliminate the leakage and go down, if the other party is still asking, you can say a word of embarrassment, and then pull a sentence or two of reasons, such as I don't like to deal with strangers very much, or I'm a little introverted or something. Alternatively, you can change the topic directly, which is very effective.

smile] bluntly refused.

We should reject some unreasonable or simply unacceptable demands, and resolutely not be vague or ambiguous, so that the other party will misunderstand us or even have unrealistic expectations.

We have the right to refuse inappropriate requests from others, but sometimes it is difficult to refuse, usually because of feelings, self-esteem, occasions, etc., or because we are too docile, we have to cater to others against our will and agree to others' requests. Over time, people will treat us as "very talkative people", they will make more excessive demands, they will habitually "bully" us, and it seems that it is a matter of course to help them do things. And we will be unhappy, we will be depressed, we will be unbalanced, we will be angry.

So why bother to promise others in the first place? No matter what kind of life or study or work we have, we must skillfully refuse some unreasonable demands of others and be a principled and self-conscious person in order to gain the true respect of others. Refusal can be said to be basic common sense in life, and it is also an art.

Or just say, if you don't leave, I'll call the police!

Or shout help!!