I had a girlfriend who was a burden, and I went to my girlfriend and told her that she was burdened

Updated on psychology 2024-05-01
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Do it, your life has to go on without him, don't you, suddenly say that you break up and he will think you are vexatious, at most it feels serious, and then coax you, with you love him so much, he likes to be clever, you must not have run, so, from now on, don't contact, how about changing a mobile phone number, it's not very expensive, tell yourself that the person you love the most has died, there is no such person in the world, don't take the initiative to call him, don't say break up, leave him directly, he will find you again and ask you to maintain your self-esteem, Hold on, ignore her, and then meet a stranger at best, and when he says that you are a burden, it proves that he is not a responsible person, and he has already begun to make mistakes. It's not easy to let go, but time can help you. Willing to give, but not willing to get it?

    The living cannot be suffocated by urine, and the only solution is to spill it.

    Women are sensitive animals, please protect yourself if you fall in love in the future, boys don't like to stalk, if it is a trump card, he doesn't ask you to ask him, women are to be held in the palm of their hands, this is the idea of mature men. The little handsome guy is not useful, let alone the young master who is pampered by his parents. A boyfriend is just a close male friend, not something you are worthy of entrusting for life, in that case, it is called a lover, which is also the difference between boyfriend and lover.

    Love is born from the heart, not from nature, calm down and think about it, you deserve someone who loves you more. Hope mine is helpful to you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It varies from person to person.

    This just shows that he is cold to you, and for some boys, he doesn't like to cherish things that are too easy to get.

    The first time is very important for girls, and the vast majority of girls are willing to pay for the person they love and decide to pay for the first time for the person they love, and they have the idea of entrusting them for life.

    And the boys are different. Some guys don't want to spend their lives with you in the first place, and their feelings for you are only because of their own physical needs or temporary emotional needs. Maybe he's afraid, he's afraid of being responsible, he's afraid of feeling guilty about you, so he's more willing to run away.

    Silly girl, don't think too much, when this boy is unwilling to cherish himself, muster up the courage to ask clearly, make a decision, don't procrastinate, hesitate, it is not good for anyone. Especially you.

    If you have the will to separate, don't blame him, blame yourself for making a mistake that shouldn't be made on impulse. Then, keep your head up and be a confident version of yourself. Don't make him feel like you can't live without him. Don't be sad for this kind of man, it's not worth it.

    May you be happy.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Actually, how to say it!

    Have you ever looked for a problem from you?

    My girlfriend and I are like that too! Because I found that women are much more sensitive, and there are many more times when they are inexplicable. My girlfriend admits it!

    So, in fact, it seems nothing to you, but maybe your boyfriend is dissatisfied. And, actually, I believe your boyfriend loves you. I just hope to love you more easily!

    You can be very happy, don't mess around a lot every day.

    So! Don't think it's a load first!

    You have to make sure you love Him, and He loves you! You don't have to stick to him every day, and you don't need him to stick to you every day.

    If only you all had a normal life! Keep your distance! Occasional care, small love and other ......Your boyfriend will naturally stick to you! This is inevitable, trust me!

    That is to say, what about you, keep it generous, give him space, don't be too sticky, too annoying, and talk about some unnecessary questions. And then, a little more care, give it to him. Make him feel good about you. Then, keep your distance, and that's it!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Break up, it's nothing, it's not like that to love someone, he doesn't love you when he chases you, it's you who can't see clearly, it's better to break off early, don't think that you have suffered something, and don't think that he will change his mind, because he hasn't loved you at all, if you continue, you will really lose, time and youth will give you a funeral, don't be stupid, what I said is not reasonable, but after two years, you come back and look at this post, whether to laugh or cry.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In fact, your problem is also a problem that women are afraid of, every woman wants to spend her life with her first man, but men often don't cherish it. I used to have the same problem as you, after he said something like that, I was very angry, very sad, and I didn't contact him for many days, but the result can be imagined, there was less contact, the relationship faded, and it didn't take long to separate.

    But I met my boyfriend now, and now I feel very happy and satisfied.

    Having said so much, what I want to say is that if he really doesn't love you anymore, he has to let go decisively, and it will only be women who will be sad if he is entangled! One day you will find your own happiness!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If he doesn't like you anymore, there's no need to pester him, although the breakup is painful, but this is the best option, and it can be recovered after a while, and now losing the first time is not that you can't find another friend. Don't let the other party look down on you, so that you will be embarrassed by your own situation. Besides, such people are not worthy of liking.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You can get a man, but don't get a man.

    This kind of thing is very common, you don't rely on him too much, you have to have charisma.

    No one can live without it.

    This kind of man is a man who wants to succeed, before he succeeds, he will talk sweetly to you, and after he succeeds, he will deliberately distance himself, a man who really loves you will not do everything possible to be good to you in order to get your body, but will only be considerate of you from the bottom of his heart and take care of you.

    In that case, it's time to let go and don't let yourself lose your last dignity.

    Because he can't be your true son. If you don't want such a man, in this society, women must live with dignity.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    When love is obtained, troubles will also come, which is originally a dialectical relationship, two sides of the knife.

    Now the way of communication will be lovers too close, so many lovers in ancient times even if they are thousands of miles away in their hearts to hang each other, because distance can produce beauty, the wild goose to pass the book, the flying pigeon to pass the book, how romantic this is. Now, chat QQ texting. Too much has changed.

    You show that you really love him, but do you know that men and women are not the same, women are made of water, and often think about emotional things. Men are soil, they don't always need water for irrigation, they will overflow when they are full, it's probably like this, you can try to wait for a day to contact him, see his reaction, unless he changes his mind, otherwise there will always be spring, but spring means there will be winter, this is a cycle, how to balance it depends on both of you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I don't know what state you're in right now, but I think it's if you're sometimes too proactive ...

    Because of girls, it should be a little clingy when you fall in love, in fact, you can also try it, suddenly stop looking for him, see his reaction, if he loves you, it should have obvious effects.

    In fact, I think the initiative depends on how you grasp it, I think people's hearts are very cheap, around them, they just don't know how to cherish, or can't see...

    It would be better for two people to have a little space with each other

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Summary. My dear, in fact, in this case, the other party must love you, so she will tell you in this way that she is angry now. It's not that the other party doesn't like you, or has no feelings for you, it's probably because your behavior and words offended him and touched his bottom line, he is very conflicted now, and feels that if he cares about you, he can't pull down his face, so he will deliberately treat you like this for the sake of his own face, and he won't reply to you if you send him a message, because he is still angry, and wants you to know his strong attitude, these are all deliberate by her, after all, the other party understands your mind, and he will test you again, See if you are willing to make a little change for him, in fact, you have to know that the people who often do these acts for you are very soft on you.

    Hello, I am a teacher of Yuanmei Sanzao, and I am good at problem analysis in marriage and family, love, psychology, interpersonal communication, etc. If it's convenient, tell me in detail about your specific situation If you know you, I will too

    My dear, in fact, in this case, the other party must love you, so she will tell you in this way that she is angry now. It's not that the other party doesn't like you, or has no feelings for you, it's probably because your behavior and words offended him and touched his bottom line, he is very conflicted now, and feels that if he ignores you, he can't pull down his face, so he will deliberately treat you like this for the sake of his own face, and he won't reply to you if you send him a message, because he is still angry, and wants you to know his strong attitude, these are all deliberate by her, after all, the other party understands your mind, and it is also to test you again. See if you are willing to make a little change for him, in fact, you have to know that the people who often do these acts for you are very soft on you. Unless it's just that he really doesn't like you enough because of the lack of fluid, and he usually has a bad attitude towards you.

    You can find him, talk about the contradiction, solve it, or admit the mistake, and that's it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Summary. Dear hello, I'm glad to answer for you. In this case, either communicate well and find a solution, or divide it.

    Communication means spending energy, there is a chance to make your situation worse, and there is also a chance for you to understand each other's difficulties, so as to deepen the relationship and grow each otherIf communication is ineffective, then it is recommended to break up, and it is not worth it to be in love if you can't communicate and are tired, and it may also make you feel inferior Sometimes in this situation, some people will say that it is not an escape if you break up? But I think you've tried it too, so reflect on it and let yourself grow, and escaping is just talking about those who don't dare to face it.

    Dear hello, I'm glad to answer for you. In this case, either communicate well and find a solution, or divide it. Communication means spending energy, there is a chance to make your situation worse, and there is also a chance for you to understand each other's difficulties, so as to deepen the relationship and grow each other.

    But I think you've tried it too, so reflect on it and let yourself grow, and escaping is just talking about those who don't dare to face it.

    My girlfriend often changes jobs and doesn't sell jobs, and the two of us are too far apart, I used to have depression and now it has improved, I don't feel very suitable, I want to share the suspicion with her but I am reluctant, I am afraid that I will bury depression again.

    In this case, we can communicate with her well and encourage her more.

    If you think it's really inappropriate, it's better to separate, so that the two of you don't hurt each other again.

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