He doesn t chase me closely, doesn t he love me?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-21
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I think that's just normal. According to common sense, an ordinary person's love for an ordinary person outside the ordinary person should go from ignorance, to acquaintance, to acquaintance, to love, step by step.

    You can't and don't have the right to ask someone to fall in love with you completely in an instant, and die to the core, that's impossible. At least you're not pretty. Emotional matters always need a gradual process.

    Without these processes, it's either a joke or you won't get far.

    In fact, there is a problem with your question itself. Since you have a feeling, you must remember that you will get something for your efforts. If you take for granted the little bit of hazy love that he chases after you, then your efforts can be exchanged for his desperate love, and this is the harvest.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    This is a strategy for chasing girls, now boys are smarter, unlike when we chased girls were all tendons, unhurried to arouse each other's nerves more, you can come here to ask questions to explain that his method has achieved initial results.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Not necessarily, but it's more likely that they don't love you very much.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Look at people, some people just go with the flow My boyfriend didn't chase me much at the time Just a ** method to send a text message saying that the weather is cold and clothes or something I have a good impression of him and then I started dating Now the relationship is very good After he chased me, he was much better to me than before So this kind of thing should vary from person to person If you like him, you might as well give him a chance No, it's nothing to break up again Good things are always worth people to keep tempting.

    I wish you happiness.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Summary. Hello, pro is generally not like this, there is an illusion of feelings, people are emotional animals, it is easy to move feelings, and if you have a good impression of girls, you will take it for granted that girls like you, and she hints that you chase her. In fact, this is an illusion, because you like girls, and your attention is all on girls, so your brain subconsciously thinks that girls like you too, so you think that she hints that you are chasing her, and you will touch the nail as soon as you chase her.

    If she really likes you and you chase her, it is impossible for her to ignore you, she will only say that she is not familiar with you or be friends first! Isn't that so! <>

    I feel like she hinted that I was chasing her, but chasing her ignored me, is it like this in chasing love?

    Hello, pro is generally not like this, there is an illusion of feelings, people are emotional animals, it is easy to move feelings, and if you have a good impression of girls, you will take it for granted that girls like you, and she hints that you chase her. In fact, this is an illusion, because you like girls, and your attention is all on girls, so your brain subconsciously thinks that girls like you too, so you think that she hints that you are chasing her, and you will touch the nail as soon as you chase her. If she really likes you and you chase her, it is impossible for her to ignore you, she will only say that she is not familiar with you or be friends first!

    Isn't that so! <>

    Hello, the teacher thinks I think you must have understood the wrong intention, if the other party hints that you will not reject you, you think the so-called hint is your own passion. Before any words are put on the surface.

    Hello, how did she hint at us, and the teacher will help you analyze <>

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    1.Tell him directly: You can tell him directly how you feel and let him know that you don't have feelings for him and don't want him to continue pursuing you. This may make him understand where you stand and stop pursuing you.

    2.Avoid giving him the wrong signals: If you don't make it clear that you like him, then you may want to review your behavior to make sure you're not giving him the wrong signals.

    For example, if you often chat, interact with, or ask for help from him, these behaviors may cause him to misinterpret how you feel about him.

    3.Keep your distance: If you want to avoid him misunderstanding your feelings, you can keep your distance as long as possible. For example, you can reduce the frequency of interaction with him or avoid spending time with him alone.

    4.Respect his feelings: Whichever way you choose, you should respect his feelings. If you tell him directly that you don't like him, you should show your gratitude and respect and avoid hurting his self-esteem.

    Most importantly, you should respect your own feelings and not be upset or annoyed by the pursuits of others. If this is the case for you, you can take the steps mentioned above or share your feelings with friends or family for support and advice.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    1.Keep your distance: Try to avoid being alone or socializing with him to avoid misunderstandings or false impressions.

    2.Tan Sleepy Zhou Cheng expressed: If you sense his intention to pursue, you can tactfully tell him how you feel about him.

    3.Direct rejection: If his feelings for you are becoming more and more clear, you can also tell him directly that you are not interested, tactfully but clearly express.

    4.Ask for help: If his pursuit becomes too troublesome or upsetting you, you can seek help from a friend or someone else to help you deal with the situation.

    Make sure you're safe and comfortable during the process.

    If at any time you feel worried or scared, you should seek help from another person or agency.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Crush is often a one-man show, since you don't like him, why let him waste his time, it is better to express your attitude to him clearly.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you ask that, you may have some affection for him, so I would say why didn't you just confess to her at that time? Or when he chases you, why don't you agree?

    Whether it is a boy or a girl, endurance is limited, in fact, when he chases you, maybe she wants to have a trace of your response, even if even a little bit of your response to him, he will feel that he can see the hope ahead, and will feel that there are some possibilities with you, but if you don't give him these, it will make him feel very defeated, or very disappointed, and feel that no matter how hard you try, you will not agree to be with him. Even if you are a good-tempered or endurance boy, you may give up in the face of this!

    Some boys are not good at taking the initiative, so in the process of pursuing girls, often need girls to take the initiative, in fact, whether it is a boy or a girl, may want to get some response, if they blindly express love, but there is no response, you may feel disappointed!

    It's like when we do something by ourselves, if we don't see any hope or response after many times, we may give up, but if we see a little light on our own, maybe we will be willing to work harder to achieve this wish.

    It's the same with a boy pursuing a girl, he hopes that you can give her a little response and then stay with him, but if you blindly refuse, after a long time, he can't see hope, so he naturally gives up.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    When your boyfriend is chasing you, you must not try all kinds of ways to make things difficult for him, his ability is also limited, if you keep making things difficult for him, he is likely to give up after a period of time.

    He may have found someone better than you, and most of the guys are very attentive. Often when you meet someone who you think is better, you are likely to give up chasing the girl you once liked, but this possibility is also very small, because the boy himself is very able to insist on the girl, and sometimes the boy will try all kinds of ways to confess to the girl, but he must cherish his confession, otherwise he will lose him permanently.

    When chasing you, you may find that you are not very suitable. When chasing you, there will be more time to communicate together, and it is best to understand each other when two people communicate, if you are not satisfied with his performance when he is chasing you, he is also likely to give up chasing you. After all, if it doesn't feel right, even if we can end up together, we won't necessarily be happy.

    There must be a reason why he doesn't chase him, don't be sad anymore, and wait for the person who understands you better after finding the reason.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The last time I saw an article that said that boys nowadays generally don't chase girls anymore, the primary reason for this is that the cost is too great, so I'd rather be alone and never want to care about or please a person who doesn't like you so much, and the boy chasing you may also be repentant, feeling that instead of wasting time on you, it is better to eat and drink by yourself, play games, and live happily and comfortably. Or is it because the possibility you give him is too slim, and he may feel that there is no hope in you, even if the stop loss is stopped.

    The second possibility is that he doesn't like you that much, you may just be a person to him who only chats when he's bored, but gives you the illusion that he likes you and is chasing you. In the end, he thinks it's no fun to go on like this, and you suddenly can't let go, and you feel that he has given up on the way to chase you. It's just that the truth is that he doesn't have much feelings for you at all, it's all just an illusion of what he thinks, and maybe it's just wishful thinking.

    The third possibility is that the boy chasing you may already have a girlfriend of his own, and this girlfriend is not you. If a boy who chases you very obviously disappears suddenly, it is very likely that he has a new girlfriend of his own, and you are just one of his choice objects, since he got the other, then he will naturally give up on you, and over time, your relationship may be broken.

    The last possibility is that you don't have a very obvious reaction to his various pursuits, maybe you are testing him, maybe you want to wait for a while to respond to him, but he sees your attitude towards him and doesn't understand your thoughts, so he naturally gives up and pursues other people. Therefore, when a girl has a heart-warming idea, she should show it in time, rather than being too reserved.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The man chased you halfway, and suddenly stopped chasing, all because of these three points.

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