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You also said that when your parents were fighting, don't take your angry words seriously, and say anything when you're angry.
Parents in the world, there are no parents who don't really love their children (those who abuse their children on the Internet, that's animals, not parents), this thing communicates with the father, fights with brothers, goes into battle with father and son, family affection is indelible.
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Parents' affairs are resolved by the parents themselves. What you have to do is to do your best to fulfill the responsibilities and obligations of a son within the scope of your ability, your work and your life must be carried out normally, do not be affected by the relationship between parents and parents' emotions, there is still a long way to go. You have a job and a salary, don't trust your parents how much money they will give you in the future, even if you really give it, you can't ask for it, because this is saved by your parents, not yours, and the life your parents give you is enough.
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Family affection is constantly cut. You didn't communicate well. Cool down for a while before communicating. I believe that difficulties are temporary, and family affection is eternal.
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Give your dad some time, and give your mom some time! Communicate with each other, just communicate! It's not that complicated.
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Your father must be angry......
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Father's love is speechless, don't worry, after going out for a long time, it will naturally be a little stranger.
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Yes, a man is reluctant to spend money on you, which proves that you are not important in his heart, and if he willingly spends all the money on him for you, then you have found a man who really loves you.
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It reads as follows:
1. Say one thing or another: Many parents in our country have this problem, thinking that their words are right, without taking into account the child's feelings and thoughts, this kind of behavior and practice is actually very wrong, and it is easy to hurt the child's young heart!
2. Tools for venting: Children are the hearts and minds of parents, who will hit their children at every turn? Even some parents use their children as a tool to vent, as long as they suffer a little frustration and grievance outside, they will find their children to be angry when they return home, beat and scold their children, how can such parents be worthy of being parents?
3. You can abandon you at will: There are also some parents who have no children at all in their eyes, only themselves, and can even abandon you and leave at will, they don't love their children at all, they love themselves.
4. Annoyed when they see you: There are also many parents who are annoyed and annoyed when they see their children, don't like to play with their children, don't like to communicate with their children, and feel that their children are a trouble for him!
5. They don't care about you at all: they don't care about your studies, they don't care about your physical health, they don't care about your life, and everything about you and you is everything.
6. Never feel sorry for you: As long as other people's children encounter something, the parents at home will be very distressed, but the parents who don't love you will not have this kind of cognition and behavior.
7. It will only hit you: Children need encouragement and praise, but for some parents, they will only continue to hit and belittle their children, thinking that their children will always be worse than other people's children, and such parents are actually very problematic!
8. Eccentric behavior: For some families with siblings, this kind of eccentricity will often occur, parents only like the young, or only like sons and not daughters.
9. Don't care about your feelings: children will have their own thoughts when they grow up, as parents we should listen more to their children's voices and feelings, and can't ignore their children's feelings because of their own arbitrariness, which will also make them have the idea of "you don't love him"!
10. High expectations for you: Parents of course hope that their children will be able to get ahead in the future, be able to have a lot of money, and have high expectations for their children, but sometimes it backfires, and parents will be disappointed in their children.
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How can parents not love themselves, my dad is a person who is not good at expressing himself, he has not communicated much since he was a child, but at the critical moment you can see how much he cares about you.
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I don't think so, it's just that we don't know much about our fathers. When I was younger, I was beaten a lot! Because it was common to be beaten in the countryside, I was naughty at that time, I didn't like to study, I was often greedy for fun, and I ran to ** wherever it was dangerous, so when I was a child, I always became the target of beating!
My father is also a person who has a hard life, and he lost his mother when he was young! I also don't like to read, this is what my grandfather told me when I was a child, in my grandfather's eyes, my father is a child grinding vertically, and the rural child married my mother at the age of twenty! Twenty-one years old with me!
My mother said that my father didn't hug me much when I was very young, and then my father said that he must have hugged me, I chose to believe it, my father in my memory was very strict, and I also experienced many ways of beating and scolding when I was naughty! And I love to cry, boy! The more I cried, the more I fought, I was also stubborn, I didn't know how to turn and be soft, and I made myself like an enemy with my father.
I remember when I was ten years old, because my family was poor, my parents had to go out to work to earn money, my sister and I boarded at my aunt's house for two years, when I was in the fourth grade of primary school, and my grades were average, but my father never moved a finger to me, and my temper was not small, but fortunately I didn't cause any big trouble, but I rarely communicated with my father!
My father is a pig breeder to support a large family, engaged in this industry for more than 20 years, it is also very remarkable, there was a time when I regarded my father as my idol, because I felt that he could do everything, he could do anything, in short, during this period of adolescence I was a good child in the eyes of others, and I didn't let my parents worry too much!
Because of his poor results in the college entrance examination, he chose to study in an agricultural school, and he came out as a pig, and he didn't spend less money in four years, and his parents were about to get out! And I chose to go out to experience it, do sales alone, my father is also supportive, and in the past few years when I have been running a business blind model, he has been planning my lifelong events, built a big house in the village, and asked someone to help me find a daughter-in-law!
And I can only support myself alone, in the eyes of the village people I am an obedient child, yes, I chose a blind date, got married, had children, formed a new family, and at the same time took the initiative to take on the responsibility of supporting the family, my father is also trying his best to help, and life is passable!
In the blink of an eye, my child is four years old, and my father is over half a hundred years old! I had to serve the old, because I didn't want to work outside, and I wanted to find a pig farm to work, so I followed me in the current pig farm, became my colleague, everything was the best arrangement, let me see a heart-wrenching old father, I can only try my best to help him, protect him, take him, in order to live!
I don't mean anything else by saying this, I just want to talk about my inner feelings, I just want him to be able to do what he likes, maybe I have too high requirements for him, but I will change, I also have to accept the fact that my father is slowly aging, and do a good job as a son! I hope my father will be in good health and have a good job!
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Categories: Troubles >> family relationships.
Problem description: Why is my dad always so good to outsiders, even better than me and my mom, he got a new mobile phone, he didn't even ask me and my mom to give it to others, my mom was not willing to buy a mobile phone, but he was so generous to others. I don't think I can change my phone. It makes me so sad!
I'm not Xihan's rotten phone, but I think my dad's behavior doesn't care about my feelings and my mom's feelings at all. Does he not love us?
Analysis: Being a parent and being a human child, of course, there are good and bad, not all parents in the world are good, and not all the children in the world are good, of course, a large part of the good. But no matter whether your parents are good or bad, the fact that they are always your parents can never be changed, and you have no right to demand how good your parents are, and you have no right to compare your parents with other people's parents.
Their greatest kindness to you is to give you a life, so that you can live in this fancy world, and what you have to do is to try not to have conflicts with your father, even if he does not do things right, you can clearly tell him face to face, and it is best to say your feelings, as for what he does it is his own business, and you should also try to make the life of the people around you better. Don't complain about others, you should be strong.
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