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There is a very realistic sentence to remember: poor and lowly couples mourn everything! The burden of your girlfriend's family is indeed very heavy, I am a married woman, I deeply understand the weight of material in marriage, if you have children in the future, then the material pressure will overwhelm you, no matter how good the relationship will be because of the lock in material life and fade, and finally break up.
Besides, even if you plan to take all the pressure now, what about later? And what about your parents? What parent doesn't want their child to have an easy and comfortable life, and would they agree?
Break up early, you are facing a very real problem!
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In fact, we all want to live life You are under a lot of pressure in life It's not the pressure of feelings Your love will slowly become family affection A kind of dependence is also a kind of responsibility I won't say anything about getting better slowly These things are actually a matter of money in the final analysis But which rich person is not earned by himself Even if the appearance is very beautiful How do you know if he works hard or not to worry about it Life is actually very short It should be more meaningful You have to think about it If you give up on her, will you live in self-blame Will you worry Aren't you afraid that she will go astray? If you love her and want to live with her for the rest of your life She can understand your words The two of you can work together As long as you are in a relationship After all, it's not like making money to make money Everything is on your own If she wants to separate from you for these things Don't have such feelings On the contrary, you are the same Think about it Don't let yourself regret It is even worse than you People have to live the same life and live . . . . Look before you leap..
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Morality is the lowest bottom line for men, and you can't easily cross it. As long as you love her, nothing is secondary, maybe the union of the two of you will increase the pressure on your life, but isn't this the cornerstone of your future good memories and love?
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You should see if her status in your mind is important or not, and whether it is worth deciding.
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You still need to be sincere.
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Love needs to be tolerant, if you love her, don't give up Your biggest problem now is the economic problem, then you only have to work hard, not only you have to work hard, but she also has to work hard, otherwise you will leave early, if there is no money to nourish love, it will not last long, and there will not be much deep love! Go for it!
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Okay, love the house and the black. Since I love her. Just accept all that she has. Go on. It's not easy to be together.
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There are many sighs through reading, but my deepest exclamation is: "You don't love her enough." "A person has many choices, but she can't choose a father with cerebral palsy, and she can't choose a broken family.
These are her misfortunes. If I had a choice, I don't think anyone would choose that. If everything is like this:
I would express my deep sympathy for this girl. What you said is in fact a sign of your hypocrisy: there is nothing wrong with a girl, if you love her very much, you must love her well and bear life with her, do your best to take care of her family, and you are also considerate of each other and live well.
Instead of hesitating, I also expected to have a father-in-law who could guide me. These are a bit unreliable. That's why I say you don't love her enough, or don't know what love is.
Reading your heart, knowing that you had this idea before marriage, I suggest you break up. Because the seeds of hypocrisy cannot be planted in pure love.
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In fact, if you really love your woman, I believe that all problems will not be problems, but I can also understand that you have such entanglements, such decisions can only be made by yourself, and no one else can decide, and your true thoughts are very important.
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Realistically, you will share.
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That's what happened when you were together, wasn't it? Now that you've chosen to start. Then be mentally prepared to be able to accept her family, and now all you can do is help as much as you can.
Be there for her. Just survive for a while. After all, you don't like her sister, and her sister will get married one day, and you don't want to live together for the rest of your life...
What about her sister and children. It's also possible that my sister will find a new family... You don't need to be responsible, you can only say that you can help After all, I believe that her sister has also had a lot of kindness to your girlfriend, and sometimes, the real love is love and Wu.
Her sister's child is 8 years old, that is, in another ten years at most, he will also be an adult. At that time, no one could tell what was going on. As for her dad.
When the old man was young, he also gave to his children. As someone who really likes your girlfriend, you can't hate the greatest father in the world who doesn't even have a clear mind. Otherwise, are you sure that you are qualified to be a father in the future?
You don't want to say moral. Then I want to say. Remove morality.
Is there anything else that can be said? A person does not have even the most basic moral values. That's what a lover.
Where do you feel ...
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Emotional matters, two people have to feel happy to be really happy. Think about what you want, and then ask the other person what they want. If you want the same, or are willing to work hard for each other, you will be happy.
Some people want money, and if they have money, they will be happy, and some people will be happy if they want to spend time together.
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If you have the ability, it's okay to suffer a little, the main thing is that you and your girlfriend are not happy in this situation, if you don't even laugh together, then it's not interesting to be together.
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As long as you can bear this relationship, you are a man who has not lived in vain.
No, it can be said that she still likes you a little, you analyze it well, the first time your confession was rejected, and then she always mentioned to you that someone else chased her and gave up halfway, so you still don't understand the meaning? It is reasonable for her to reject you, and what she told you is to let you not give up halfway, don't reject you and you will immediately look for the next target, and you will continue to chase her until the day she chooses you, hold on, you don't take the path of those people who give up halfway. Got it now?
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Why didn't you mention B?
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