How do you reply to a hot and cold boy sending you a message?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-07
32 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you like her very much and he sends you a message, you should explain your point of view to him very clearly, if you don't like him, then such a boy, you just give him a decisive decision, and the two of them stop communicating!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Hot and cold is just an excuse, and the inner indifference is fundamental, so why deceive yourself?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Through these few words, I didn't see that the boy was hot and cold. Sometimes men are not so caring, not so careful. And you'll be overhearted. Sometimes the boy may really have something, and you will be careful.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Just reply to him lukewarmly, don't reply in seconds.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hot and cold to you. Such friends. You should do the same with him. How can it be hot and cold? You can go back as you want?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Ignore him at all, this kind of man is probably on two boats.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If he is hot and cold to you, you treat him like this if he is not a very important friend to you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I guess he used you as a spare tire, this kind of person is not worth wasting time on him!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You have to know what it means to be hot and cold, which means that you have not yet become the person who can make him care, so he can do whatever he wants to you, and the rhythm is controlled by him, and you can't affect his mood and your rhythm.

    First, don't suffer from gains and losses in your heart, let him go for the time being, and don't let him decide your mood because he is hot or cold to you. Second, keep a happy and happy state, the girl who loves to laugh will not be unlucky, maybe others will be attracted to you inadvertently. Third, try to make yourself better in all aspects, think about goals, such as study, sports, and start taking action.

    If you can do these three points, you will be confident, fulfilled, and the sunshine will be up, and the peach blossom luck will come. Remember, love comes unexpectedly as you get better and better, not something you want to grab and ask for.

    A person who is hot and cold to you, it is possible that he also wants to like you and dislike, whether he wants to like it or not, and likes it a little, this kind of wavering person is better to stay away. Remain neither humble nor arrogant, stay away, and stick it upside down will only make you lose the price and be worthless in their eyes.

    This is the time when you live your life well and your mind is all about pleasing yourself. You go to read books, sing K, work out, create happiness for yourself, and then go to social platforms to show your life. Dealing with people who are hot and cold, either I am colder than him, or I simply cut off contact, it's as simple as that.

    Girls still have to be kind to themselves, don't be so humble, he's not afraid of snubbing me, who is afraid of whom, I'd rather find someone who is not so good but really loves me, I don't want to be angry.

    In fact, I think this kind of boy can't be said to be a scumbag, but he is very self-interested. Before you weigh it well, especially if you already know that the girl still likes you, ignore the other party, contact when you need it, and don't consider the other party's feelings. Here I also want to give some advice to the girls, boys who encounter this situation, must build a good mentality.

    If he has been like this to you for a long time, I suggest that you don't drag each other down, the world is so big, and many times when two people fall in love, it is really important to be suitable.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's supposed to be a choice, and the hot and cold attitude proves that he just has a good feeling, not a real liking, and it's also to pass the time, so it's best to stay away from him.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In no, you are not.

    The answer to this depends on his attitude towards you, for example, does he talk to you regularly? And it's the kind that takes the initiative to find a topic, or it's shy when I see you, and sometimes I don't dare to face you, which has to be judged according to different personalities. And if it's someone who likes you, there's a good chance that her friends around you will also guide you.

    It depends on his attitude towards you, for example, does he talk to you regularly? And it's the kind that takes the initiative to find a topic, or it's shy when I see you, and sometimes I don't dare to face you, which has to be judged according to different personalities. And if it's someone who likes you, there's a good chance that her friends around you will also guide you.

    He knows you, and if you see each other often, he may peek at you from time to time, just silently watching you or something, or take the initiative to greet you.

    He was very good to me at first, but after a year, he was hot and cold to me, he didn't care about my affairs at all, and he often chatted with girls, and I told him that I didn't like you anymore, and he ignored me when he said that he had anything to do with me, and he wore couple clothes with other girls. I ignored him for a month, he ignored me, deleted my QQ, and after a few days, his brother said to me (his brother was sitting next to me): "The person you like is watching you."

    As soon as I turned around, he pretended to read. After class, I was in the classroom all the time (I used to watch him play after class), and when he saw that I wasn't there, he sat on a chair and watched me. What am I going to do?

    Do you want to keep chasing him?

    Didn't ask a question, my best friend persuaded me to give up, but I chased him for two years, cried for him many times, and said many times that I didn't love him, but still... Do you think I should really give up?

    But if you feel unwilling, you can arrange another confession, which is a very direct confession, look at his memories, if it works, forget it if it doesn't work, after all, it has reached this point.

    I think you can confess again, it's very straightforward, and it's a last resort, because his attitude is quite strange.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If he is cold and hot to me, then I will treat him with the same attitude, because I feel that everyone is equal and cannot allow myself to be too humble.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In this case, I will take the initiative to chat with the boy and go out on a date with the boy, integrate into his life, and make the boy like me.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

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  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    When a guy says that you are hot and cold to her, it means that sometimes you are very willing to be with him, but sometimes you deliberately avoid him, which is what it means to be hot and cold.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    When a guy says that you are hot and cold to her, it may be that he feels that your relationship with him is sometimes very deep, sometimes he may ask you to do something, or if you have any requirements, you are not so sad about him? Not so enthusiastic and erratic, so he said you were hot and cold to him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    A guy says you're hot and cold to her. If that's the case, it should be that the guy is interested in you, and you may be in a romantic relationship. I'm a boy after you.

    And you don't particularly like this guy. Ignoring her feelings. So boys to girls.

    If it is close, it is far away.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In fact, love itself is very complicated, you can't fully know each other's true thoughts, the hot and cold between each other, itself is a kind of temptation, testing each other's minds and true thoughts, and all we can do is to be honest with each other to break this difficult complex.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    When a guy says that you are hot and cold to him, it means that now that you have snubbed him, he is very unhappy, so you should consider spending more time with him.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    What is this. She's hot and cold to you, so you have to look at her. Something is going on, once in a while, his attention is somewhere else, and then you can say that you can say her.

    It's all about work, or some petty favors in life, and then you may not be his center. It's a façade he wants to put. If you can improve the truth, you can also ask him what he has been busy with lately, what problems and difficulties he has encountered, and you can discuss it with him.

    A look at it will help you communicate and understand each other, so you can go too much on this. Pay attention to what problems he may have encountered, and it would be nice to be more caring and understanding.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It may be that this girl's personality is a bit changeable (hahaha, that is, sentimental), which causes misunderstanding for boys; It could also be that you didn't take into account his feelings about something and therefore created an emotional illusion for him.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The biggest reason why a man treats you hot and cold is actually that this man doesn't love you at all, and a man who doesn't love you doesn't care about your feelings, only cares about his own feelings.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It shows that this man doesn't really like you. If he really likes you, he will be tolerant and generous, and he will not complain about you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Dissatisfied with you, unreliable. I said that it was hot and cold, and I felt that people were not real.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It depends on the actual situation, if you are indeed such a character, then the problem is that if you feel that you are the same as always, he says this, purely to give himself a reason, to alienate you.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    A guy who says you're hot and cold with her means you're not very happy with it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    He cares about you, so he will feel that you are hot and cold to him.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It feels like you're ignoring him sometimes, not contacting him, and making him feel hot and cold.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's throwing the pot and putting the problem on the other party.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It will be good for him for a while, and it should be interesting to you in your heart.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It may be that he likes you, so he will be hot and cold to you.

    The fact that a boy is hot and cold to a girl means that the boy likes the girl, and when a boy likes a girl, he often has different thoughts and practices in his heart, and it can also be said that he wants to get away with it, so he will be hot and cold to the girl. At first, it will be very clingy to girls, often contact girls, let this girl get used to this boy, when the girl gets used to it, the boy will not contact this girl much, and it will make the girl suddenly not used to it, and she will miss this boy. That's why boys are hot and cold towards girls, because that's what boys want, and they want this girl to miss him.

    Boys are too clingy, and if they stick to a girl all day long, it will make girls feel very uncomfortable, so boys are hot and cold to girls, in fact, they are particularly concerned about this girl, and boys hope that the relationship between two people is very fresh every day.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Summary. In fact, the most important thing between people is communication, he is such a character, and then you still think that he can take the initiative to give you romance and give you enough care (it is possible that he cares, he will not express it), in fact, it is difficult. At this time, you can communicate more with him, talk about your attitude, your thoughts, so that he knows what to do.

    A hot and cold man suddenly contacts you, how do you reply and teach you a trick?

    Dear, a hot and cold man suddenly contacted you, what message did he send to you?

    He didn't message me all day, and in the evening he sent a sentence to get off work.

    Dear, did he send you a sentence after work?

    That's right, dear, you reply directly to one: Oh.

    And then whatever message he sends later, you reply directly: Oh, ah, um, okay, ok

    How short is how to come.

    You say that he is hot and cold, then we are colder than him.

    Dear, is the other party chasing you?

    We were introduced by family.

    So how long have you been together, because some boys are more shy and introverted, it depends on the specific situation.

    If it's the kind of person who is very shy, and he can't express himself, it just so happens that you think he's okay, so it's okay for us to take the initiative.

    It's been more than 5 months, and I used to be in touch in the morning, noon and evening, but now I will send me a message in the evening.

    Who was more proactive between the two of you before (except for this messaging), what kind of character you are, what kind of personality is he?

    His personality doesn't seem to be the kind of person who doesn't like to talk, and we don't have a topic to talk about now, so I'm taking the initiative to find a topic to talk about.

    Dear, if this is the case, I still understand your current mood, but there is no way, his character is why he is like this, in fact, you think the other way, such a boy is good, at least not the kind of rhetoric, we at least don't have to worry about him in the future.

    But I want to change that and make him care more and more about me.

    In fact, the most important thing between people is communication, he is such a character, and then you still think that he can take the initiative to give you romance and give you enough care (it is possible that he cares, he will not express it), in fact, it is difficult. At this time, you can communicate more with him, talk about your attitude, your thoughts, so that he knows what to do.

    Sometimes a straight man can really make people very devastated, it's not that he doesn't care about you and doesn't love you, it's just that he can't express it, he can't show it, so you feel like you're missing something.

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