My early love was known by my parents, how did I break up with my girlfriend

Updated on psychology 2024-05-24
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Actually, there is no need to break up in early love, if you are together all day and just feel that you can promote your studies, and it doesn't happen too soon that something shouldn't happen, I suggest you keep it as it is. After all, the relationship between men and women is now more open than it was 10 years ago, and of course, when I say openness, I don't mean anything else, but normal interactions.

    If you don't encourage and help each other together, and it affects your normal learning, it is recommended to break up with a stable state of mind, not to break up, but to eliminate the negative impact.

    You should understand.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Looks like you still don't like her enough, hehe.

    You don't have to say break up, it's good to know that you're in early love, just don't do anything other than what good friends can do, you can care for each other, help each other, learn from each other, there's nothing wrong with that. The premise is that your little girlfriend is good enough and sensible enough.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    This kind of thing, if you say politely, we break up, this will definitely not work, so, brother, show your true nature, let your girlfriend hate you, hahaha, I don't need to teach this kind of thing, right?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    To put it bluntly, don't drag the mud and water, just do it.

    Make it clear that it will be solved at one time, don't talk about it, do it all at once, you can do it easily, and she is fine.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you love her, don't break up. Stupid b

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    , you're stupid, why do you want to divide it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If the parents know about it, they won't continue? Then you still talk about a p

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    1. When you fall in love and are discovered by your parents, as a child, you should understand your parents' intentions, know that your parents are for your own good, for your own studies, and for your own future, and know how to empathize, so that you will not feel that your parents have done something wrong. 2. Take the initiative to admit your mistakes and review them deeply: Since you know that it is wrong to fall in love under the current situation, or that your parents are not allowed to do so, and you are found out, you will take the initiative to admit your mistakes to your parents, so that your parents will not be too angry.

    3. Sincere attitude and smile: When admitting mistakes to parents, the attitude must be sincere, the review should be profound, and ensure that next time you don't dare, you won't make such a mistake, you will concentrate on learning, give parents a guarantee, and suppress the anger of parents. 4. Don't talk back against your parents:

    When you fall in love, you are found out by your parents, and you know, you don't feel that you are not wrong, and you still feel that you have grown up and are amazing, so you will talk back to your parents and contradict them, which will only add fuel to the fire and make your relationship with your parents more tense. 5. Don't be silent: When you fall in love, you are found out by your parents, your parents criticize you, that's a sure thing, don't be silent, don't say a word, and deliberately show hostility, feel that you are not at all wrong, it is your parents who are wrong, this kind of performance will only make your parents more angry.

    6. Find opportunities to communicate well: For such things, when parents are angry, don't reason with your parents, feel that you are right, it does not affect your learning, and when such things are dealt with, your parents are not so angry, you can communicate with your parents well, and assure your parents that you will grasp the measure and know how to do it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Summary. Hello, dear, in fact, you don't need to come forward to explain at this time, you all know that it is early love, which proves that you are still very young, and her parents must think that you are also a child, and you have no right to speak in what you say.

    What to say about puppy love was discovered by the woman's parents.

    Hello, dear, in fact, you don't need to come forward to explain at this time, you all know that it is early love, which proves that you are still very young, and her parents must think that you are also a child, and you have no right to speak in what you say.

    You are brave enough to admit that you like his daughter, but it is not just the love of children, we also become friends in order to discuss problems together and improve learning efficiency together, right? Of course, we help each other and understand each other, and we can grow up in the future, and it will be better to be together, please rest assured uncle and aunt, when I grow up, I will love and protect your daughter for a lifetime. I wish a lover a family member.

    17 years old. High school like this.

    How to say. 1. What to do if you are found out by your parents 1. It is normal and inevitable to be found by your parents when you fall in love, of course, you have to look at your actual age, I don't recommend that you fall in love early, especially during school, which will not only affect your studies, but also your mind is not very mature, and the decision may be wrong. 2. On the contrary, if you have worked to reach more than 20 years old, then it is normal to fall in love, and you don't need to hide it after being discovered by your parents, you should communicate well with your parents generously, and you can introduce the object to your parents, maybe your parents will agree to the two of you together.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There are indeed a lot of such things now, and it's not your fault or your girlfriend's fault. It's normal for two people to like each other, although it is said to be early love, but two people still have a special love in their hearts. But there are a few things you need to know.

    It is said that puppy love should be when I was in school. When you are ignorant in adolescence, especially when you are in junior high school, you will have someone you like. There are many people who have secret loves, but there are also some people who just like each other and want to confess to each other, and it just so happens that this person also has a good impression of themselves.

    It's a lot of fun for two people to be together. No matter what you say, you will tell each other, and when you say it, you will feel a lot. The other person is also able to understand themselves and feel happy.

    This is very common, and in adolescent children will have a little secret in their hearts, that is, the person they like. Or that I already have someone I like together, and I didn't tell my parents. Boys really don't care, boys' parents don't have too much to worry about, but women's parents are different, because the current society is very chaotic.

    Therefore, it is normal for him to worry that his children will be bullied, and he must understand the woman's parents more. You also have to understand your girlfriend, because after all, many times girls still listen to what they say at home.

    At this point, I think you should think about your studies first. Give the woman more time, because now early love is indeed an impulse in the heart. It's not that we can be together in the future.

    It's normal to not be able to let go, and you must find an entertainment project or hobby. Calm your mind first and don't rush to his house. There has been no contact for several days, which means that the woman is also listening to her parents.

    Because after all, there are still many choices in later life. It's not that this girl doesn't like you all the time, if you're good enough and you study well, you can attract him no matter what you do. Then there will be good development in later life.

    So don't promise too much, the woman's parents won't have too much recognition, the main thing to do now is to study hard and make yourself better. No matter what happens in the future, you must go with the flow, because everyone's life cannot be limited to this person or one place. The last thing I want to say is to give the girl more time and don't embarrass him.

    You also have to think about your future life. Don't be discouraged, don't feel like you've lost this girl. The whole world is colorless, and you still have your family.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Parents oppose their children's early love, nothing more than worrying that your love will affect your studies, and at the same time, your love may be immature in the eyes of adults, and you cannot bear the responsibility of love, and you are also afraid that you will cross the line with the girl and cause harm to the girl.

    How do you do that? First of all, you should assess whether you yourself are capable of loving. Is there a responsibility to love? Does this relationship help you grow? Can they even promote each other's academic progress?

    If the answer is yes, then you can show him your heart, after all, there are many unsuspecting loves from childhood to adulthood, not that all early love is fruitless.

    If you have any negative to any of the above questions, then it is recommended that you give up! You can take it slowly, and after graduating from high school, after you slowly have those abilities above, her parents should not object.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Maybe you will disagree when I say it, but I still have to say: give up now, you will understand the truth in the future, maybe what I said is nothing, I think for you. Here's why:

    1. It is not easy to fall in love during the ** period of high school study. Maybe you have a good impression of her, your emotions are not so deep, and you don't know feelings so well, otherwise you will be trapped by feelings and lose your love studies, remember to remember

    2. You and her can keep in touch with each other, but they can't meet each other, and when they meet later, it will be the day when you meet again, and then it will be the time for both parties to agree.

    3 I know that this result will be very painful, like a thousand ants tearing and gnawing on your body, and you must insist on it for your sake and for her, and pass on my words to your friends. Maybe she will understand and trust my friend, don't forget what your parents expect of you, don't forget the trust that your relatives trust you, and more importantly, she will stick to it, friend.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    At your age, you can't measure the seriousness of the matter, and you don't know if this relationship will go to the end, so if you spend a lot of energy on love and affect your academic performance, then the benefits will definitely outweigh the disadvantages. The reason why your parents are against it is not that they don't know how you feel, but that your parents may have walked the same path you have walked. But they know that the chance of success in early love is very small, and at this time, your view of love is too immature.

    In the future, as you grow older, your outlook on love, and your criteria for choosing a mate will change a lot. Therefore, the reason why your parents oppose you is because they don't want you to go back and regret it in the future and miss out on many important opportunities in your life.

    If your relationship is true, you can wait for the college entrance examination to consider whether the two of you want to continue walking, can't you withstand the test of just one or two years? If you can work together, have a commitment to each other, and get into the same university together, then you will have more opportunities to be together in the future. Forbearance now is for a better future in the future.

    When you are a little older, you don't need to be taught by others, and you will understand it, I hope you will think about it. Good luck with your learning and progress.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Let's be realistic, are you rich? Got a car? Got a room?

    Or is there a deposit? If you have, are you afraid that people will not dare to hand over your daughter to you? It seems that you are not very old, otherwise how would you worry about being known by your parents.

    Mature, young man, you still have a long life to go, so why not put this focus on your career and studies. When you have money and development in the future, what kind of woman don't you come to give you a hug? Which woman is unrealistic now, love can't be eaten.

    There will be more women you meet in the future, and even if her parents approve of you, you won't go far. I really promise that there are some things that should not be said too soon. I've said so much, do you know what to do?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In fact, in my own experience, it is not recommended that you fall in love at the stage of study. It doesn't matter if it's middle school, high school, college, or graduate school. Because there are so many uncertainties about your future!

    Of course, the possibility of true like-mindedness is not ruled out here. Your personality, your knowledge, your experience, your family environment, your social environment, your place of work, your house, your marriage, and so on. Although many things are very realistic, in the face of social cruelty, these are the most basic knowledge.

    Besides, you'll need a long time to get used to your character!

    Well, that's all for a short time, I hope it helps!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I'll give you some advice.

    1 Underground. This one is super tiring. Delay in learning and delay youth. Rediscovered. More severe. Girls will make more trouble.

    2 Clearly. You can talk to the girl's parents. High school student. Promote each other's learning progress and don't do anything to girls. Said calmly.

    3 Breakup. Let me tell you explicitly. High school love to marriage is only a handful. There are good ones in college. Don't delay her, and don't delay yourself. High school is key.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You can ask her if she wants to continue! If it is, it is agreed to go to a university together, of course, it can't be too bad, otherwise there may be accidents. When you're in college, there's no one to stop you! If your family is against it, you will have the strength to support yourself.

    If she doesn't want to, then ... I can't go through the ups and downs. Don't!

    The key is your choice. No one can help you. It's just you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    How old is it? If you are too young, it is estimated that most girls will listen to their parents.

    Does she want you to break up with her, or does she say she wants to break up with you? The two are so different, these questions have to be explained clearly to have the answers you want.

    But to say a thousand things, love is in the final analysis between you and your girlfriend, if the two of you insist, it is the parents who finally compromise, after all, the original intention is for the happiness of the child.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Read well! Wait until your studies are over, what can you give him now? Puppy love will only destroy its future.

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