My boyfriend is forcing me to get married every day, but I m very scared of getting married

To be honest, if your parents give a dowry, they will definitely spend more money than he gives!

The dowry is generally a TV, as well as furniture, and now tens of thousands of yuan can't be taken, and the gift money does not exceed 30,000 in most areas!

There is also a gift money that is not for your parents, it is given to you by your parents-in-law, but it is actually for the foundation of a small family**!

Now there are many people who don't want to give money! If the man buys a house, he doesn't need a gift money, and your parents also have to buy a dowry!

If two people buy a house together, they generally give a gift money, and the woman's dowry will be less!

This is the basic situation, so you are normal! Don't be distressed, and there is no loss of face for you!

It's a bit too much to say that you don't want a dowry and don't give your parents money, even if he doesn't have the money, it's okay to give 1 20,000 yuan (I'm sorry, I'm not particularly aware of money.) I've never been short of money, so.

Whether you want to give or not is one thing, and how much you give is another

Since you are married because you love each other, there is no need to focus too much on money.

What's more, you're a family!!

To be honest, I despise people like you. You are not fit to get married. It looks like you're a college graduate, so your thoughts are like digging out of the dirt.

Do you understand what the word marriage means? That's two people who love each other and want to live together for the rest of their lives. It's not that you sold it to their family!

You want 30,000? You're worth 30,000? Face?

Saving face with the people you love the most? You have said that your parents are not short of money, and you have to repay them for the opportunities they have in the future. What dowry is a formality.

The most disgusting thing is that it's as simple as wanting to marry you?? How much are you going to sell, make a price... I'm talking a little heavier, think for yourself.

Summary. Hello, I'm glad to answer for you, sometimes you want to marry your boyfriend, and sometimes you don't want to marry him after a quarrel, which shows that you have a fear of marriage, which is also a normal performance. Marriage is a matter of two families, and at the same time, the two of you need to manage each other, if you are afraid, you can calm down and think about it, whether you really love him, what do you love, what aspects of him attract you, and think clearly whether you should really enter the marriage hall with him.

Hello, I'm glad to answer for you, sometimes you want to marry your boyfriend, sometimes you don't want to marry him after a quarrel, which shows that you have a fear of marriage, which is also a normal manifestation of filial piety. Marriage is a matter of two families, and at the same time, the two of you need to manage each other, if you are afraid, you can calm down and think about it, whether you really love him, what do you love him, what aspects of him attract you, and think clearly whether you should really enter the marriage hall with him.

When the two of us don't quarrel, I want to marry him.

After the quarrel, you are dissatisfied and angry, therefore, you will not want to marry him, this is normal, but you also have feelings for the quarrel and trouble, you are only a friend of the fear of marriage, in fact, you still want to marry him, it doesn't matter, this is a normal phenomenon, you should get married.

Then get married, what's there to hesitate about, of course, if you don't like him, or you're not sure that you want to live with him in this life, you need to refuse, after all, marriage is a lifelong thing, you can't agree casually, it's best to go with the flow.

As a girlfriend, of course, the most important thing is to hope that there is someone who loves himself well and takes care of himself, and it is also a good thing for a boyfriend to marry him home, first of all, he must learn to be grateful, thank him for the idea of marrying himself, at least prove that he loves himself, hopes to live with himself, and enter into marriage together, which is a kind of responsibility in itself, and now many men do not want to get married and have children so early.

Secondly, you must learn to communicate and communicate with your boyfriend, and tell him some of your worries and doubts, such as what to marry, how to live after marriage, etc., after all, there are still many things to face after a person gets married, of course, the most important thing is whether both parents are willing or not, which is also very important. Especially for girls, marriage is happy and perfect with the blessing of their parents.

Third, if you are very hesitant and don't want to marry him, then you really need to think about whether there is a problem with each other's feelings, he is so anxious to get married, and he doesn't want to at all, is he not in love with him at all, if so, it is recommended to make it clear to the other party, don't drag the mud and water, can't delay him, and don't delay yourself, after all, life is limited, you can't waste too much time, especially youth, love is beautiful, but in the end you still have to enter into marriage. It is wrong to fall in love with someone you don't love, and if you continue to dwell on it until you get married, it will be wrong on top of wrong.

So, no matter what the situation, you have to think clearly and figure it out, and as a girl, you must learn to take responsibility for your own choices and decisions. Don't miss the person you love, and don't wronged yourself to marry wrong.

Judging from what happened around us, isn't it common for girls to force boys to get married, why did you come here instead of your boyfriend forcing you, in fact, I think it's really not easy for a boy to take the initiative to get married, he should love you very much, and he wants a stable life to do this.

You can think about whether there are any female friends around you who want to marry their boyfriends, but the boyfriends are unwilling, and think about what psychology they want to marry. On the one hand, girls want to get married because they take into account their age, and on the other hand, they really love the boy and want him to give themselves a sense of security, and this sense of security is not something that can be given with a few words I love you, but a marriage certificate is needed.

I don't know what the reason is why you don't want to get married, whether it's the fear of marriage or the fear of affecting your work. If it's the former, then you probably don't trust yourself or your boyfriend very well, if you know him well enough to believe that he can give you a happy family life, then you don't have to worry, anyway, you are going to get married sooner or later. If you don't feel that you know each other well enough, then you need to get along for a while directly, and if he really wants to get married, it shouldn't be a big problem to wait a while.

If it is the latter, judging from the current social cognition, it is really difficult to be a strong woman, and basically no boy is willing to marry a person with a higher salary than himself as a wife. After getting married, you can still have your own career, and now it's the 21st century, and it's no longer the era of male superiority and inferiority, and you have every right to do what you want. On the contrary, having children will have an impact on your career and will also bring great changes to your future life, so how long to have children after marriage is what you should really worry about.

Of course, marriage is not child's play, but a major decision that may affect your life, and you must marry someone you know and believe in to be happy.

I think that for a girl to feel that her boyfriend is forcing her to get married, the first thing must be that the girl doesn't want to get married yet, or that she is not ready to get married.

I think girls should communicate with their boyfriends in a timely manner when they encounter this kind of problem. Because if your boyfriend forces you to get married, you will definitely refuse first, then your boyfriend may mistakenly think that you don't love him, but in fact you don't think so, you may just think about getting married after a while and are ready. So after you reject your boyfriend's "forced marriage", you have to tell him that you don't love him, but that you feel that the time is not ripe, maybe you want to save enough money to get married, or you want to think about getting married after you have a house, or you feel that you haven't yet considered getting married.

Because we all think very realistically about marriage now, we may think that it will be difficult to maintain a marriage without material things in the future. But there are exceptions, so we can tell our boyfriend that we can fight for a few years and then consider getting married when we are really able to get married.

When we face our boyfriend forcing ourselves to get married, we can also tell our boyfriend that we can think more about each other, after all, marriage is a major event in life, and we should decide whether we really want to get married or not after careful consideration. Instead of directly forcing marriage to yourself.

I think that the boyfriend is forced to marry, it may be that he really loves himself very much, and he especially wants to give himself a name immediately, which may also be a decision made when he is not particularly calm, so we must make it clear to him what we really think, because love is mutual, not the boyfriend can decide by himself, you have to tell your boyfriend that he doesn't particularly want to get married now, and let him think about it calmly, so that he can respect his own ideas.

If it were me, I would talk to him and tell him that I don't want to get married now, and I'm thinking about it for some time!

I'm in the same situation as you now.

I have a boyfriend who has been dating for almost a year, and the relationship is not bad, and I fell in love on the premise of marriage.

I'm also very entangled in this question, I want to get married because I love her, give each other a promise of love, and the reasons why I don't want to get married, if you think about it carefully, there may be the following points1Now there are too many uncertain factors in society, and there is no sense of security about marriage2If it is not suitable, you can break up, but breaking up after marriage is equivalent to divorce, and the value of having a marriage history will drop by a hundred times.

3.I want to grab the tail of youth, once I get married and have children, my youth will be gone, and my children can be born later, but youth itself is short-lived, and I am a little unwilling.

4.Enjoy the freedom of being single.

But think about it carefully, everyone has to get married, in the vast sea of people, it is not easy to meet a suitable one, so the right conditions will be married, get married early, have children early, have in-laws to help you, and your figure can be restored, and it is not good to get married when you are too old. Well, my idea is to get married first and then get married when you have children.

Marriage is a gamble of life, if you win the bet, then you will be happy for a lifetime, if you lose, you have to start over, no one will think that marriage is nine out of ten, everyone is married with an uneasy mood, a fear of the mood, so when you don't feel that marriage is happy, then don't get married for the time being, tell the other party the reason why you are afraid of getting married, let him help you solve some of your marriage troubles.

I'm safe for 2 people to get married, how can you get married and have a sense of insecurity, unless you don't know enough about your boyfriend, what object will always be yellow! It's better to get married!