My husband sleeps with my mother in law for one night, and my husband likes to sleep with my mother

Updated on parenting 2024-05-16
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Your wife is more conservative, such jealousy is unreasonable, generally Chinese ethics Fathers and adult daughters sleep together is criticized, how old are boys, they are all children in front of their mothers, coquettish and the like can be understood.

    But since your wife is very concerned about this issue, you should not be too entangled with her, this issue is not a matter of principle, if you are both-for-tat, it is not conducive to the harmony of the family. It's normal for your mother and daughter-in-law to rob you, but now that you're married, think more about your wife's feelings.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It can be seen that you are very troubled, and you feel that there is nothing wrong with this matter, why is your wife so angry.

    First of all, please understand your wife, if she doesn't love you deeply, she won't have this kind of thought, and you should reflect on your own practices, although your mother doesn't come often, but it won't let your mother spend the night on the sofa in the living room.

    I have a lot to say to my mother, and I don't want to disturb my lover's rest, isn't it an excuse? If you bother when you're together, what about this life?

    I think what you're doing is really inappropriate.

    However, as long as you love your lover and hug her well, I believe she won't be angry anymore.

    I hope you are happy, the above is all personal opinions, inappropriate places, please bear with me.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's nothing, it's normal for a mother and son to sleep in the same bed, and there is a reason for it. How can she be so dirty as she thinks, this is the manifestation of her husband's distress for his wife You can say that you are lying on the sofa and chatting with your mother, and you fall asleep while chatting, and you don't need to explain it, you will always be the treasure in your mother's heart, and you will always be the child in your mother's eyes.

    I think your wife is making a bit of a fuss.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hehe, explain it well, what's this, my mother has slept together since she was a child, is it normal at all.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I don't think there's any fuss about this, modern people's thinking is too dirty

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    There are not many families where the son and the mother sleep at one end, and the daughter-in-law can only sleep on the other end of the bed, and there is a family in the neighboring village like this.

    It's about the swallow's family, because of poverty, the husband has been working outside for a whole year, and the year is approaching and finally looking forward to the husband's return, but the husband sleeps with his mother-in-law, and the swallow can only sleep on the husband's feet.

    Yanzi felt uncomfortable, although her husband and mother-in-law were one person and one bed, and she couldn't think about it indiscriminately, Yanzi still slept in a quilt with her husband, but Yanzi just felt very wronged.

    The husband and mother-in-law are accustomed to it, the mother and son sleep every night and talk about the thoughts of the mother and son after separation, say the words of mutual care and mutual understanding, talk about the shortcomings of various parents, laugh very happily, the swallow sleeps at the feet of the husband, sometimes I can't hear what they say, and I just cry sadly alone.

    Everyone knows this, at first, when she first got married, she couldn't stand the mother and son like this, and complained to the other members of the family, and the whole family thought that she was rare and strange and abnormal, which pair of mother and son had not slept together?

    After so many years, Yanzi has also "followed the customs", and one day her mother-in-law wants to sleep with her son, she sleeps at her husband's feet on the other end of the bed.

    Because of the high salary in the field, my husband has been working outside for a year, and after the twenty-third year of the new year, I finally looked forward to my husband coming back, and my mother-in-law was not at home.

    The mother-in-law and her husband didn't want to get up in the morning, so the mother-in-law yelled that Yanzi didn't know that she felt sorry for her man, and asked Yanzi to get up quickly to make breakfast and then wake them up.

    When Yanzi cooks, they often look at the lid of the pot in a daze and feel sad, because their marriage was once caused by buying a pot, and the past is vivid, and everything is no longer the beautiful appearance before marriage.

    Seeing the swallow's red and swollen eyes, her mother-in-law loudly accused her of being dead, and her husband didn't say anything.

    In order for the children to have a complete home, Yanzi doesn't say anything now, as long as the children are healthy and happy, this is her biggest placebo.

    It's about to be the New Year, and she forces herself to be happy!

    She told herself that there is no such thing as a happy world, and that she must be content and happy!

    Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and she said that she accepted her fate!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Girl, this must be unbearable for many people, how old is my husband still sleeping with my mother-in-law.

    For this matter, I think you are too hurt, girl, and there is no good way to get them to get rid of this bad habit, the grievances in your heart can be imagined, and I don't know how to describe your husband and your mother-in-law.

    For this kind of thing, you should discuss with your husband first to see what kind of attitude he has, and you can also talk to your husband about your inner demands, troubles and pains to see what kind of attitude he has.

    There is another way, you can give it a try, which is to go to your mother-in-law to discuss it well, and you can also talk to your mother-in-law about the bitterness in your heart, and see if your mother-in-law can get rid of the habit of sleeping with your husband.

    If they still don't get rid of this bad habit, I think you should have two options.

    The first option is to continue to endure the pain of sleeping with your husband and mother-in-law.

    The second option is that you can't stand your husband sleeping with your mother-in-law at all, and then file for divorce from him.

    If you can't change him, and you can't stand your husband sleeping with your mother-in-law, then there is basically only one way, the two of you divorce, and there is really no good way to solve it.

    Not much else, here I sincerely wish you two husband and wife to love each other, grow old, and also wish you happiness and good luck every day.

    The above is mine, I hope it helps you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Your husband sleeps with your mother-in-law.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Sleeping mother-in-law refers to: the expression of a baby who is not long born during sleep.

    Legend has it that when children first came into this world and didn't understand anything, there was a magical old woman who was responsible for teaching children how to accept everything in this world. Teach your child what to be happy and what to be sad while she is sleeping. If you learn well or quickly, you will be praised, and the child will "giggle" in his sleep.

    Otherwise, he will be punished, and the child will cry "whining". "Dancing with Hands" is to teach how to use the limbs, so that children can know their "full function" in a short time. And one moment frowning, the next pouting, that's because they're thinking about something.

    And because all this is only done in a dream when the child is sleeping, it is called "mother-in-law's sleep".

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's babies who cry and laugh when they sleep, and my mother said that my mother-in-law is teaching them to cry and laugh.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's that babies cry and laugh when they sleep, and that's when an angel tells them to do things, laugh when they do it right, cry when they don't do it right, hey.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Are you talking about children?

    According to the old man, the child is the mother-in-law, that is, he will always cry and laugh, my mother-in-law said that the child is learning things, and he laughs when he learns, and he cries when he can't learn.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    What is this Granny Ting's name? Isn't it 'Snow Mountain Mother?'

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Summary. Of course, it's good to go back to your own house and sleep, after a long time, your husband thinks that your mother-in-law is his home, and everyone must pay attention to family civilization while talking about social civilization. Only when there is a high degree of spiritual civilization in the family can a family become more harmonious, united, and happier.

    Of course, it's good to go back to your own house and sleep, after a long time, your husband thinks that your mother-in-law is his home, and everyone must pay attention to the civilization of the family while destroying social civilization. Only when there is a high degree of spiritual civilization in the family can a family be more harmonious and united, and it will be happier and happier.

    What to do if husband is attached to.

    Madam, as a woman, try to be kind to your husband and mother and think of his mother everywhere. If your husband's mother doesn't appreciate it and is mean to you, don't give up, so that your virtuous attitude will be more prominent, and your husband will slowly think that you are doing a good job, and his mother will not accept any trouble, but highlight her mean willfulness, so that he will not rely too much on his mother, if your husband's mother does not have such a situation, your husband will also feel guilty and better for you.

    He was tired from the industry, and for an hour and a half at noon, I didn't eat at home at noon, and he went to sleep directly at my mother-in-law's house after eating.

    It may be that he is tired, you are not at home, you and the child are at home after the letter is checked, and he will not go to Mazhou to sleep at his mother's house after the family has made a meal, and now he should be convenient.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Summary. If you persist, you will continue, and if you can't persevere, you will leave. But you will get more and more tired, unless you can change the two of them, and the result is likely to be that you are changed, or end up in a divorce.

    What do you mean? Sleeping together every night?

    Occasionally. I just can't stand him sleeping once in a while.

    You don't have a problem, it's your husband's family of origin that has a problem. There is no sense of boundaries between family members. In a family relationship, a mother loves her son more than her husband, and this is no longer a healthy family relationship.

    The mother and son are not psychologically separated, and this troublesome relationship will, consciously or unconsciously, prevent the son from establishing the closest relationship with his daughter-in-law.

    Is there any way to resolve this issue?

    You discussed it with your husband, and you never asked why?

    My father-in-law passed away last year, and I slept with his mother last winter for a lot of imitation days, and my mother-in-law was not comfortable with silver oak clothes tonight, and my husband was in my mother-in-law's room, and I came out to go to the toilet, and I heard my mother-in-law say that my husband should sleep in his room.

    It's understandable.

    are all in the same courtyard, why sleep in his mother's room. If you feel uncomfortable, you can hear it.

    Do you think your husband and her mother have an unveiled relationship?

    Legitimate. They don't have a sense of borders.

    It is recommended that you communicate with your husband.

    No, he's very filial, there's no way to say this, it's useless to say it, he listens to everything his mother says right or not, no matter how reasonable I say, it's wrong.

    Ma Bao Nan confirmed.

    If you persist in the year, you will continue, and if you can't persevere, you will leave. But you'll get tired and tired unless you can change both of them, and the result is very likely to be that you are changed, or divorced.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    1, Saho first wants to communicate with her husband, telling him that snoring will affect the sleep of other people in the family, and ask him to control his voice as much as possible.

    2. Arrange your husband's work and rest time, try to let him go to bed early and get up early every day, and maintain a good work and rest habit every day to avoid snoring at night.

    3. If your husband has the habit of snoring, you can consider giving him more supplements, such as eating more vegetables and fruits, and eating less greasy food to improve sleep quality.

    4. You can consider giving your husband a cup of tea or hot milk before going to bed to help him fall asleep.

    5. Consider buying an earplug for your husband, which can effectively reduce the noise of your husband's snoring, so as not to affect the sleep of other people in the family.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    According to the analysis of the meaning of the title, snoring indicates the fragrance of sleeping, this is the New Year, go home and live with your mother-in-law, and your husband snores in the middle of the night to explain the fragrance of going home and sleeping peacefully.

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If you live with your mother-in-law, I think you can bear it, after all, there will be a certain generation gap between people in the two generations, which is a normal thing, and I guess there will be, so if you feel unhappy, then take a look at whether you can bear it or not, just reason with him, right? If not, forget it.