Do I really love my boyfriend? Is it time to break up

A man is a good man, and you are a good girl, but you may not really be love, just a touch and habit.

It's better to break up or not to divide or follow the feeling in your heart, you haven't reached the age where you can't get married, right? Damage is always inevitable, and it can only be minimized. Although many girls who choose the person they love later regret it and should choose the person who loves her, you are still young and still have the opportunity to experience everything.

If you don't break up, as time goes by, you don't meet the person who makes your heart move, and you will also have two situations, one is to gradually treat him as a family member, how can you have a feeling of love for your family? The second is that something suddenly happens to make you really fall in love with him.

All I can say is that now you have the opportunity to pursue the love you want, but the one you choose in the end is probably the same as the one you have now.

That's not emotion, it's moving, and moving sometimes sublimates, but it can never become true love. True love is a heartbeat, especially in the first love, there is a joy as soon as you see each other, an impulse——— and not a heart like still water! He's really not the type you want, it's just that he showed up when you were ignorant, met the wrong person at the right time, he's a good person, but not someone you love?

Just think about it calmly and you'll be free!!

What is easy to get is often the most insensitive, because at the beginning of this relationship, you didn't plan to go on well, just the freshness, but he was too good to you to bear to hurt him, and he only walked step by step for a year!

But time is also eating away at how you feel about him.

It is recommended that you separate for a while, give each other some time, give each other a little space, and think about whether the relationship is necessary to continue!

Trapped in a relationship, you can't understand the feeling of separation, the authorities are confused! If he loves you enough to wait for you for a while, it's not a matter at all!

There is a saying called "cherish the person in front of you", maybe you still understand what true love is, maybe you don't know whether you love him or not, maybe you liked him at first, but after a long time, he took it as a habit, and slowly felt a lot less freshness.

Maybe you don't love deeply enough, so let's get along in a different way.

Imagine his first reaction before making a conclusion.

You just feel that he is always by your side to take care of you, you are used to not knowing it, if you come to a little goodbye, if you miss him at this stage, there is no doubt that you love him, if you don't think much about him, if you don't worry about him much, you know the result.

It's not feelings, it's a habit.

You can look at it separately for a while.

This kind of thing is very difficult for outsiders to ask your heart.

It's just that you don't love him as much as he loves you.

Long pain is better than short pain, why waste other people's youth?

Can you ask how old you are?

When your boyfriend is a little financially calculating, you need to take into account the other person's behavior and background.

Before making a final decision, it is advisable to try to communicate and discuss to find a solution. You can quietly try to understand the other person's reasons and thoughts, and at the same time analyze your contribution and gain in the relationship. Liang Yuntong.

If you find that even if you want to try this relationship, you still can't accept the other person's behavior and feel uneasy about the future, then breaking up may have become an inevitable choice.

It is important to note that when dealing with all these issues, make sure to maintain communication and understanding. Even if you decide to break up, it's still okay to be polite at the end and express full feelings that will leave a positive mark on your relationships.

You shouldn't break up with your boyfriend because you still love him in your heart. Because:

One is that since you still love him very much, you shouldn't break up and leave yourself regrets;

The second is that love should be true to the heart, if you find someone you don't love, are you willing to stay with him for the rest of your life?

The third is Tanjiandong, you have to be responsible for yourself and find the person you love. You still love your boyfriend very much, keep him, don't break up, otherwise, in the future, you will make it very painful!

You shouldn't break up with your boyfriend, the two of you are emotional, and it is right to cherish each other and support each other, so as to make life sweeter.

In this case, you shouldn't break up with your boyfriend, it's right that the two of you must cherish each other well, which can make love sweeter and happier.

If you are beautiful, you can stay with me so that you will be happy.

Some time ago, Hongyu had several girls who had emotional problems and came to me to confide, and the situation was very similar - they all still loved their boyfriends, even loved each other, but wanted to break up.

Such a uniform consistency makes me wonder - why are many girls like this now?

With my doubts, I conducted a small investigation and found that there are not a few girls who have thoughts like "I still love him, but I think it's time for us to break up".

So, let's take a look at why girls still love their boyfriends, but choose to break up, and what is the reason. I also hope that after reading it, the boys can know a little more, and stop asking "why do you want to break up" and "don't you love me?" If you still love me, why break up".

Below, here are the five girls I picked.

a；24 years old.

He doesn't understand now, and he will understand later. When loving someone becomes a burden, and this burden is unbearable for you, I think anyone, whether it's a boy or a girl, will choose to break up. When I was chatting with my boyfriend every day with really boring stuff like 'what are you doing?' 'have you eaten?' I think it's time for us to finish.

I still love it when I think about it, but I can't love it anymore."

b；24 years old.

I love him very much, but I can't see hope or future in him, and I'm very reluctant. But after all, I will grow old, can I wait for you for a year or two without success, do I have to wait for you for ten or eight years without success? Without the ability to resist risks, how should I live in the future? ”

c；22 years old.

He didn't understand at all, he didn't grow up at all, he didn't think about me at all. He keeps saying that he loves me, but when I need companionship and comfort, I feel that he is perfunctory to me. Love can't be eaten, of course, maybe it's just because I'm not talking about the kind of love that can be eaten.

If my boyfriend doesn't know how to love me and take care of me, then why should I find a boyfriend? ”

d；28 years old.

Do you have to give a reason? This reason is more hurtful... Maybe I'm comparing that, I'm a bit unconventional, I think sexual things are important to me, but he can't give it... There's no substitute for love, I'm sorry."

e；32 years old.

I don't feel safe. More than an hour later, no less than 200 times I replied to my messages; I waited for news from him more than twenty times in the middle of the night. I think if he really loves me, he should tell me his whereabouts as soon as possible, at least he will understand that I am worried about him, and I have had enough of this worry."