What are some of your untold heartaches?

Everyone will encounter a lot of setbacks and sad experiences on the way to growth, and then we all gradually become mature and steady. There is no such thing as a smooth sailing life, maybe you envy the achievements of others, but there is pain behind him that you can't bear. What we see is always an illusion, and it is impossible for anyone to expose their scars to others.

With these bitter experiences, we can know that happiness is not easy to come by, and we will cherish the good things in life more. I have also experienced many bitter experiences that no one knows, and it is these setbacks that have made me love life even more. <>

First, I was dumped by my boyfriend when I was young, and I felt so faceless and my dignity was shattered. My ex had promised me a romantic wedding, but in the end I didn't fulfill my promise, and he and his new love entered the palace of marriage, and every time I think about it, my heart aches. A girl will feel very shameless when she is dumped, but if you think about it, it is not her fault.

A man who messes with flowers and grass is simply unreliable, and I don't have to pay for other people's mistakes, so I was relieved later. <>

Second, waste your youth in the factory, but now you don't have a skill. After failing the college entrance examination, I embarked on the road of the factory, because I could only do assembly line work because of my low education, and no matter how much I paid, I could not increase my knowledge. Later, when I quit my job and stepped into society, I realized that I was like a caged bird, and I never entered the factory since, but I didn't have any skills.

Now that I am married and have children, I understand the pain and helplessness of not having a school, so I attach great importance to my children's education. I think that a person must learn endlessly, and must have the ability to support his family, in order to live a more dignified life. <>

Third, everyone will have a sad experience in their hearts, who does not fly all the way with scars. It is the sadness and pain of the past that have made us who we are now, so we don't need to be sad about the past experience, but have a heart that looks forward to the future. Anyone's success comes by stepping on thorns, and how can you reap the success in life without experiencing the baptism of life.

We must turn the sadness of the past into motivation, and live our wonderful life with a strong heart, so that success will be closer and closer to us.

When I go to work, the salary is very low, and sometimes when I am not busy at work and on vacation, I only eat one meal a day. When I come to work, the hardships and sweat are unimaginable to ordinary people.

I still remember that when I just bought a house and paid the down payment, I was really poor at that time, and I began to worry about the next month's mortgage, and I ate noodles for a whole month!

I think the most sad experience may be that no matter how hard you work at work, others will not be understood, but others will think that you can do better, but in fact, many times you have done your best.

When I first came out of society, I experienced an incident that made me very sad, which left an indelible impression on me. ......At that time, I had just entered the workplace, there was a person who was very enthusiastic about himself, and he had a good relationship with him, and he had a lot of work for him to do. But when the work was finally done, he took credit for it alone and ignored me.

This is the most sad thing for me. ......The reason why I feel this way is because the person's behavior hurt my feelings so badly, because it changed my way of thinking about people and things, and because it made me realize how complex the workplace can be.

1. That person's behavior seriously hurt my feelings, so I feel very sad.

At the beginning of my career, I was very touched to meet a colleague who treated me warmly. I even think that I have met a nobleman. ......But the truth made me feel extremely sad, that person was just using himself, and this incident caused serious damage to his feelings, and I still felt extremely sad until I looked back on it much later.

2. This incident has changed my way of thinking about people and things.

Before this incident, my view of people's shortcomings and things was relatively simple, thinking that the merits are obvious, and as long as you pay sincerely, you can reap the rewards. ......But the truth made me feel extremely sad, and my true feelings were nothing ...... in the eyes of the person who used himSince this incident, my perception of people and things has changed dramatically, and I have become calmer and more rational.

3. This incident made me deeply aware of how complex the workplace is.

Through this incident, the deepest feeling for myself is that the workplace is really too complicated ......In the past, everything was so simple and idealistic when I was in school, but when I really entered the workplace, I found that the people and things here were so complicated that I could hardly imagine. ......Through this bitter experience, I fully realized my own shortcomings, and since then I have begun to observe and analyze the people and things around me attentively, and I have become more and more rational and calm, and there will be no more deceived people in the future. ......This can be regarded as a receipt brought to me by this incident.

When I first quietly stepped out of society, the most sad thing for me was that in this highly competitive society, many opportunities that could have been tried have not yet come, and I can only face everything that exists, and this is the problem I am facing now. At that time, I had just graduated and only had a little education, not even any work experience, so I encountered a lot of problems in the process of looking for a job, such as companies recruiting me to have a certain amount of work experience, but I didn't, or some companies required me to have a certain degree and I didn't, and even some companies didn't consider me at all, because they thought that I didn't have any value to bring them sleepy cherry blossoms, so they didn't consider me at all. So, one job opportunity after another slipped away from me, every time I felt sad and disheartened, I could only go home helplessly, tell my parents about the difficulties in front of me, look at them helplessly look at me, can only comfort me and say don't be discouraged, hope I can find a satisfactory job, all this makes me extremely sad.

Later, I slowly learned how to deal with this situation, slowly found a suitable job, and slowly walked out of those difficult days, but when I look back on those days, I still have palpitations and sadness.

Every time I think of those days, I remind myself that I must work hard and have a good economic foundation, so that my children can live a better life in the future, and when they graduate, maybe they will not have such sadness as me.

I once had an experience that made my heart ache. It was my first job out of college, and I came to a small business as a marketing assistant. At that time, I was full of enthusiasm and confidence to show my ability and create more value for the company.

However, it soon became clear that the management of the company was chaotic and the working environment was extremely cumbersome. My boss was constantly assigning me all sorts of menial tasks, which was very stressful, and it was difficult to get recognition. I work hard, but the results are often not as good as I could be.

What saddened me the most was that the company's business was sluggish, its business conditions were deteriorating, and its employees' benefits were gradually reduced. Once, when I learned that the company was going to lay off employees, I was very worried. Even though I worked it, I was made redundant.

At that moment, I felt extremely lost and painful. I used to work with confidence and enthusiasm, but in the end, I couldn't get a stable job. I felt that my abilities were being questioned and that my future was dark.

However, time passed, and I gradually came out of my loss and pain. I began to re-examine my career planning and career development, and re-recognize my strengths and weaknesses. I know that life cannot be smooth sailing, and only by going through difficulties and tribulations can I be stronger and more mature.

Heartache is a feeling that must be experienced in life, it makes us cherish the beauty of life more, and it also makes us stronger and braver. No matter what kind of difficulties we encounter in life, we must maintain faith and courage, believe in our own abilities and values, persist in moving forward, and continue to pursue our dreams.