In the face of him, what moment did you especially want to give up?

In every marriage, there will be an urge between couples to give up on each other, and no one can love forever. There are no two identical personalities in this world, and it is normal for couples to have contradictions and conflicts, especially after two people get married, they will face the cruelty of reality. It is said that it is easy to fall in love and difficult to stay together, and no matter how strong the relationship between two people is, they will fall into quarrels.

Especially women are always in a weak position in marriage, and when their husbands become decadent and mediocre, everyone will have the urge to give up on the other party. In my marriage, if I encounter the following situations, I will also have the idea of giving up on the other party. <>

First, when I find out that he has a new love, I will not hesitate to give up on him. The most feared thing in marriage is betrayal, every woman is afraid that her husband will have a new love outside, especially after the woman gives birth, she will become very unconfident. Because a woman's figure will be deformed after pregnancy, and her appearance will not be as good as before.

If my husband dislikes me and looks for a new love behind my back, I will not hesitate to fulfill him, and there will be no intersection in the future, because a man who is unkind is not worth our life. <>

Second, when the other party is not motivated and lives in a mess, they can't spend their lives together. Every woman is not willing to stay with a man who has no future for the rest of her life, such a marriage is like being in a quagmire, it is impossible to live a good life, and there is no future to speak of. If the husband is not motivated, he cannot bring a better life to his children, nor can he maintain his marriage.

In case my husband can't make money, and I can't go to work because of my children, I'm afraid my husband won't even have the ability to support his family. <>

Third, when the other party is a mom boy, every woman will have the urge to leave the other. Women are most afraid that their husbands are mothers, and if their husbands obey their mothers, he will not respect his wife at all, and he will not know how to manage marriage. In case my husband is a mom boy, I will not hesitate to divorce him, such a marriage will not be happy.

Because the mother-in-law is not willing to withdraw from her son's world at all, and interfering too much in her son's marriage will only lead to the fragmentation of a family. In a marriage, both partners should reflect on themselves and not wait for the other person to give up on you before trying to change your ways.

In the face of him, there was a moment when I wanted to give up only a moment of wavering. I am still grateful to have stayed with him through the ups and downs.

There is no doubt about him, he must be the one you love, when he is not enterprising, does not care about you, does not care, and even touches your bottom line, you must especially want to give up on him, and even want to leave, and have nothing to do with it.

When you are physically and mentally exhausted, it is the kind of time when you will not care about your thoughts and emotions, and will not take the initiative to apologize and cherish.

When he and his ex-girlfriend rekindled their old relationship, I felt that everything I did was not worth it, so I stopped fighting for it and decisively chose to break up. After the breakup, I felt a lot more relaxed.

He doesn't pursue self-motivation, he is always unmotivated, he always feels that he is very satisfied with his current life, such a man will make me have the idea of giving up in an instant.

Two people have been together for a long time and feel that the other party is not suitable for them, and if they want to break up with each other, what kind of breakup method should they choose, which is generally divided into saying it in person or using online chat tools, text messages, etc.

If, when the two parties are together, the communication is straightforward, neither of them likes to guess each other's thoughts, and if they have any ideas or suggestions, they will say them unabashedly.

Although this method seems to hurt each other's feelings, some people like this way of communication, understand the words, forget them in the past, and never remember them.

The biggest advantage of the way lovers get along with each other is that they don't have to worry about the future, just say it directly, which may cause the other party to be unhappy, and after the incident, the other party will not settle accounts with you because of this.

The biggest disadvantage of this way of getting along is that it hurts people bluntly, and many times, women like to be coaxed and spoiled. If you always get along in a straightforward way, after a long time, the other party will think that you don't love her at all.

Because, in your eyes, how unbearable she is. Even if you are outspoken, the other party doesn't like this kind of direct criticism very much, no matter who you are, you don't like this way.

But after the fact, I feel that such a person is straightforward, not careful, all the joy and anger are on the face, and they are very easy to get along with, but this kind of outspoken hurt is sometimes difficult to accept for a while.

If you don't love each other, you have to break up in person, so that the other party can feel that you respect him, Yinmin and said what was in his heart, because when they are together, they are very direct communication.

The other person will not hate you because you have given him the respect he deserves. If Feng Muzhi and the breakup person Nai Zheng used text messages or chat tools to say that they had broken up with each other, they would instantly anger each other.

On weekdays, I communicate bluntly, why is the breakup quiet, and I don't even have the courage to break up in person, so I will be very unwilling.

It will cause the broken party to feel a feeling of love, and it is necessary to find the breakup person to discuss it face to face, as long as the two people meet and talk about it, they will no longer entangle each other like that.

If the breakup person always avoids the breakup, it will cause the breakup person to hate the breakup, and the two people will be entangled in the emotional whirlpool and make trouble endlessly, which is not good for both people.

Therefore, if the way couples get along with each other is a mode of direct communication, they should choose to break up in person, don't hide it, the more this is the case, the more it will provoke each other.

When this relationship not only does not bring me happiness, but is constantly draining my energy, if a relationship still fails to adjust to a better state after one of the parties has worked hard, probably because of the despair after trying to fight, I think it is time to break off.

The reason why it is necessary to take the premise of the right way is because although some people work hard, but the opposite direction is equivalent to useless work. For example, boys usually have a very cold attitude, the message is slow and cold, there is no feeling of love, many girls want to change this situation, the first reaction is to argue with the other party, blame and even quarrel, although this way is also very hard, but the result is often only worsening the situation, making boys more resistant to communication. The correct way of thinking should be to realize that the boy may be busy lately, or it may be that there are some difficult problems that cause him to have no time to take care of his girlfriend, and take proper care of him in daily contact.

If it is a girl, the boy should not use cold violence and other methods to solve the problem, but should communicate peacefully, express his feelings, and try to give the girl a sense of security.

That way, at least you're doing your best to solve the problem. But even so, it is possible that the other party still has not changed much, you say that he has a wide range of defects, or two people are not suitable, the fact is that you can't do anything about the status quo, and the status quo brings you endless suffering, under which giving up is the best choice, at least you have tried your best, even if you are separated, you can do it with a clear conscience.

Of course, there are also enlightenment implications for the other party, many times the other party seems to compromise, but it is already an ultimatum, and if there is no result after observation, it may leave at any timeSoYou need to always be in awe of your feelings, reflect on yourself, and cooperate with both parties to run in, so that the relationship can be healthy and stable.

Not for a moment, but for many, many times, I thought: if I can give up something at this moment, it must be my inner desolation and damn sense of ritual. Last night I went to see the movie "Crazy Alien", when the name "Geng Hao" appeared on the screen again, this name seemed to have become a symbol to me, it represents mediocrity and helplessness, it is an unlucky racing driver, a singer who is out of gas without fire, a quintessential craftsman who is unanimously evaluated by earthlings and aliens as a stinky monkey, and thousands of ordinary people who are tricked by life and reality.

Geng Hao's life is no matter how tragic it is, but there is always a quality that is moving, Geng Hao never feels that life has blocked all his ways to live, just like he often said in the movie, "A living person can still suffocate urine to death?" "In today's prevalent mourning culture, I have seen too many people crying and denouncing the injustice of life, complaining that life never gives them a good life. But we ask ourselves, are we really running out of ways to live?

Is it because you can't live anymore or because you can't stand your mediocrity. So, in those moments when I was very sad, I wanted to give up getting rid of my inner desolation, I could accept that I was an ordinary person, but I definitely couldn't accept that I was willing to be mediocre.

I wanted to give up my efforts. When I just graduated from university, I was confused about whether I should continue my studies or look for a job. If you take the exam, it is a carp jumping over the dragon gate, and it is very difficult.

If you want to find a job, you also know in your heart that sooner or later there will be a day when the degree of an ordinary university will not be enough.

When the company lays off employees in their thirties, the mortgage is not paid off, and the children are still using the money, how will life be lived? After the relatives took the demolition money, they all turned into "local tyrants", wearing gold and silver and looking at people with their nostrils. A few houses in the family can be rented, even if you don't go to work, it is enough to live the rest of your life.

As for me, the conditions at home are not good, so I can only rely on my own efforts, and I have to make my own down payment to buy a house. A few days ago, I had a big fight with my family because of buying a house. Parents feel that there is no need for girls to buy a house, and it is okay to live with their husbands.

But I think that even if I am a girl, I want to provide a house of my own, at least if the marriage is not going well in the future, I can still have a place to rely on. When I was a child, my classmates who dropped out of school early were going to get married, and when I became an adult, I did a slight facelift, married a rich second generation, and lived a happy life by eating and playing every day. And I, at four o'clock in the middle of the night, looked at the blank document, and didn't know how to explain to Party A's father.

You can suddenly cry when you look at the light. Either you don't work hard, anyway, the hard work of getting up early and greedy late can't catch up with the life that others live casually. Either you can be a little clerk, marry an honest man, have a child, and live in poverty, but you can get by. ‍‍

On December 22 last year, that night, it was a full moon on this side of the UK, I had my first date with an American boy, on Kingston upon Thailand, the lights were bright on the other side of the river, the moon was in the sky, it was originally a very romantic scene, but I didn't feel it, the boy wanted to hug me and kiss me, I was very resistant, because I didn't feel it with the other party, I didn't want to force my inner feelings, and I didn't want to give people the illusion that there was something to follow. The date ended in an awkward end. On the train back, the mood is very low, recalling the past few years, all kinds of difficulties in my feelings, and I have just started a business in my career, many things are difficult, every time I meet the opportunity to contact with a good boy, I still have expectations, after all, which girl doesn't want to meet that person, have a beautiful love, every time I go to an appointment is a kind of courage, but I am always lost.

All these things in the past were projected in my mind, and for a moment, I felt that I was tired, and said to myself, close the window of love, it's good for everyone, my emotions were not well controlled, and tears fell.

There was a moment when I wanted to give up a lot of things, and I felt really tired.

I used to think that life was good, but when I arrived at the battlefield, I found that I had no ** and equipment, and I was embarrassed by the defeat. I never thought that because of an opportunity to go out, my colleagues and me fought both light and dark, and in the end, I ended up gossiping that I was not kind. I never thought that in front of the leader, I let down my guard in just two months, and made mistakes carelessly step by step.

The stubbornness is still big, and he secretly left his job, and when he was looking for a job again, he began to be so anxious that he couldn't sleep well. Of course, there are a lot of little things, but in short, I can't breathe. On the day I was looking for a job again, I decided to take a break and let go of everything.

When I was a child, my parents taught me to be tolerant and considerate, to be kind to others, and to learn to look at people's faces. Now I want to give up this, because others are intolerant and inconsiderate to me and no one takes care of my face, so I want to give up these now, I want to learn to be selfish.

A project that I stuck to for a year and there has been no progress so far, I feel that I should be going in the wrong direction, so I want to choose to give up.

When I came home for the Chinese New Year and saw my parents' gray hair, I instantly understood that family affection could not wait, and I had to give up the high salary from afar and stay with my parents.

There was a moment when I wanted to give up the love that I had insisted on for a long time, because my family was opposed to it, and the pressure of life was also very great, and I didn't know how to persevere.

Love is a commitment between men and women to rely on each other, tolerate each other, and stay together for a lifetime. Therefore, love has uniqueness, selfishness and exclusivity, and no one wants to share their love with others.

What moment made you resolutely decide to give up on the long-loved him, but generally speaking, only when you are very sad will you make such a decision. For example, when he finds out that he is fooling around with other women or doing ** actions. Normally, I don't think so.

As long as the two parties of love can pay for love, have a share of responsibility and responsibility, can change for each other, and stick to this love, it will be fine.