What kind of psychology is it to feel that your friend s luck is better than your own?

I think this kind of psychology may be due to unwillingnessThere is not much difference between yourself and your friends, why can friends have such good luck, but they don't, and at the same time there is a little bit of envy, although they are sad in their hearts, but not because their friends are lucky and sad, but because they are not so good luck and sad, once we have this mood, we must adjust in time, do not let this emotion continue, we must face the difficulties, through their own efforts to get what they want.

Some people get a lot of things because of their friends' good luck, but they don't, so they have a kind of jealousy, and gradually they will alienate their friends, such an idea is wrong, because the luck of friends and their luck are two completely unrelated things, even if friends are unlucky, then it does not necessarily represent their own luckI believe that through my own study and hard work, I will eventually be able to get what I want like a friend.

In fact, luck is only one aspect, the most important thing is to have strength, we must usually master all the skills, always ready, when the opportunity comes, we must seize the opportunity tightly, if someone gives us this opportunity, we do not have the ability to grasp, this situation does not mean that we are unlucky, but because we did not prepare in advance, so good luck is also reserved for those who are preparedThere are some methods that we can learn from our friends and then apply them to our own work and life.

When we see others have good luck, we may feel a little unwilling and feel very sad, but what I want to say is that this kind of emotion is best not to have, because it will not play any role, it is better to work harder on your own.

With a jealous mentality, you may think that you and your friend's conditions are the same, but why can she have such good luck, get a high-paying job, and have a handsome boyfriend? Actually, some things are not just about luck, you think about where you are worse than her.

Feel sad that your friend's luck is better than your own, you are a kind of jealousy of others, you can't see others better than you, only when you recognize that your friends around you are good, in fact, it is an intangible asset for you.

It shows that you are narrow-minded, jealous, and depressed, this mentality is very bad, you must adjust this mentality, you should be happy for her if your friend is lucky, and if you have a good attitude, your luck will naturally be good.

This is a normal jealousy mentality, under the same conditions, your friend's luck is always better than yours, which makes you very unhappy in your heart, a little jealous and contrasting.

I think it's a kind of comparative psychology, and an unbalanced psychology in my heart, thinking that I am not lucky enough.

Summary. Pro, is it not a psychological effect, their friends, generally similar magnetic fields can be friends.

Pro, is it not a psychological effect, their friends, generally similar magnetic fields can be friends.

Colleagues only. I've found out that I've been having a lot of trouble lately, and it's all because of her.

If you really think that this friend has brought you bad luck, you can stay away from this colleague, if it is not her intention, you should try to stay away from her, do you think she is targeting you.

Are you usually good in the unit, and is she envious and jealous of you?

Some people are more cautious, you don't care about this kind of person, if he is aimed at you, you pay more attention to protecting yourself, the so-called state of pure harm is not to have, the heart of prevention is indispensable, you don't care about him to hide the skin, please try to stay away from him, after a long time, it's fine.

Everyone thinks that it has an effect on you, and he will be happy to do it, and if he does something that does not affect you, he will not do it over time.

Dear, that is, don't take him seriously!

I consider myself a lucky person from the bottom of my heart. Luck is because you feel lucky. Although this is the logic that sounds so strange.

But I felt from the bottom of my heart, "God bless me, my luck is good, I am lucky." ”

When did this idea start? Maybe it was a sleepy afternoon when I sorted out my memories of my childhood. I think of the countless scars on my knees, the countless moments when my Chinese teacher laughed at me, every pencil case filled with correction fluid and a dusty pencil case.

Suddenly, a keyhole squeaked in my heart, and I felt ashamed. It seems to have failed God's good intentions.

I'm actually so lucky, but I didn't know it all along. When I was a child, loneliness created another unique temperament for me, I was sensitive and delicate, and I enjoyed the charm of art even more. Maybe that's when my fortunes began to turn.

No matter what happens, I naturally think about the good, including the homework I didn't finish during the winter break. All the obstacles in front of me have disappeared, and the wishes that have come true are increasing. There are almost no unfulfilled wishes.

Even if there were one or two, I knew they would hail in the future, just as Hepburn knew the moon would come running for her. I lived an easy life, and until now, I have become a "leak king" existence. Some people are worried about the teacher's roll call, the final exam is smashed, some people are criticized by the boss, and the performance is declining, and some people are worried about dark circles and edema, gaining weight Zheng Hengfan and thick legs ......

Of course, there are such people around me:He loves to laugh, is positive and optimistic, open-minded, and dares to face reality. He is happy to live, optimistic and optimistic, and the light around him is beautiful.

He infected everyone with happiness, so he met a lot of friends. The luck of people who love to laugh will not be bad in the body of TA, who not only has many friends, but also ranks among the best in school! On the contrary, if you like to complain, your sex is as fierce as fire, you are angry, and you often complain about your partner, friends, family, environment, society, etc. because of a little thing, such a person can't think independently, can't look at both sides of things rationally, can't live happily, and will slowly become narrow-minded, short-sighted, selfish, and the whole aura will become very strange, not only the people around you will be affected, but even the living environment will be filled with resentment and anger, and optimistic people will gradually stay away from you and get help from others. Luck is getting worse and worse.

Life is never smooth, you will encounter all kinds of unsatisfactory things, and sometimes you will find that life can be very sweet when you lower the standard and change the angle. I hope everyone tries to be a positive and optimistic person, for example, I am lucky to catch the bus when I get off the building, I am so lucky to be able to eat the food I want to eat today, I am so lucky that my friends like me very much, I am so lucky to sleep until I wake up naturally, I am so lucky to buy the clothes I like, I am so lucky to meet strangers who smile at me. It's a day to be happy, it's a day to be unhappy, but when you start to be optimistic and positive, your aura will get better, there is no bad luck, only good luck.

I'm the lucky one! I don't have any luckier friends around me! Every time I encounter a problem that I find difficult to solve, I don't worry too much, because before I even start to solve the problem, the problem has already been solved hahahaha, let me tell you a few things that happened to me.

One. Career Stories

When I was a child, I lived in a small city, which should be considered a county-level city, and when I was in the sixth grade, I didn't know which tendon I said I was going to go to the provincial city to study in middle school, and then I went to that middle school to take the exam. At that time, I really didn't expect to be admitted, because that school is one of the best private schools in the provincial capital, and I think that question is so difficultThat's how I got into that private school.

Two. College Entrance Examination Story

That's right, I was still in that private school in high school, but because I was a bit of a cook, I used to go out on weekends when I was a child, and I didn't go to any cram school, so I couldn't compete with others, and my grades were ranked lower in the grade all year round. I was going to die in my first and second years of high school, and I felt that I couldn't afford to get into a good university, but I was inexplicably relieved in my third year of high school, and then I felt that the more I studied, the easier it became. Three months before the college entrance examination, my grades suddenly began to rise, until more than 200, I studied science, originally very poor in science, once I actually got a perfect score in biology, and I was in the top 50 in chemistry in my grade.

On the two days of the college entrance examination, it was very hot for my friends to meet the day, I was not bitten by mosquitoes, and it was unusually smooth, I ate well and slept well, and as soon as the results came out, I got a full score in the biology test, and the total score ranked more than 100 in the gradeOn 211, I was really surprised and delighted.

Three. Summary

Since I was born, I haven't met any people or things that particularly bother me. I'm not good at communicating, but no matter what time of day, I have good friends around me, my classmates and teachers are very good during my stay on campus, and the sisters in the dormitory are very nice, and I have never encountered school bullying or isolation. Although my grades are not good, I can always meet teachers who encourage me, meet people who appreciate me, every one of my relatives is very good to me, and the family atmosphere is very harmonious.

My parents are also tolerant and generous people, they never lose their temper with me, and every one of their friends and colleagues is kind people and give me a lot of love when I grow up. Really, I'm a very lucky person, I'm surrounded by love, and my friends aren't as lucky as me, but they say that they will be lucky when they meet me.

Luck is a really magical thing. Some people's luck is not very good, while some people's luck is so good that it is so good that it is like the saying goes: luck cannot be stopped.

I consider myself a person of good luck. I vaguely remember that when I was a child, I often picked up money on the way to school and home, and my friends always envied meThey all said: "How can you be so lucky, you can always pick up money, why can't I pick it up?"

At that time, I was very happy and felt that I was really lucky. I live in the countryside, and sometimes I go to the fields to play everywhere, and when I play, I pick up duck eggs. I remember one time I picked up 5 duck eggs in the field, and I was so happy.

I also have friends who are very lucky. I have a friend who was really lucky, when she was in the high school entrance examination, her grades just pressed the admission score of our key high school, so she studied in that school. When she took the college entrance examination, her score was also just the score line of Yiqiao Sun Bridge.

But what I never expected was that,She was admitted to a Kaixin college, and it was a very good college. originally thought that if she was admitted to such a good college, she would definitely be transferred to other majors, but she was not transferred, and she was admitted to the first major. Academically, this friend of mine is really lucky.

I think she has such good luck in her studies, in fact, part of it is because of her own efforts, in her studies, she has always worked hard and is very diligent. All the luck is blessed by her hard work.

Summary:

If you're lucky, cherish that good luck; If you think you're unlucky, that's okay, just work hard and do what is in front of you, and always believe: the harder you work, the luckier you are!

"Girls who love to laugh won't be too lucky" I feel that this sentence is really in line with me, and I think Shoulead's own luck is super good.

Next, I will share with you a few things that are still fresh in your memory. For example, after graduating from junior high school, I left home for the first time to work, and I didn't know anything at that time, but to work as a waiter.

After hearing this, I still had some panic in my heart, but I still went, what I didn't expect was that the boss was very good to me, very kind, he would help me when I was too busy, and my brothers and sisters in the back kitchen would also teach me how to cook (because I eat three meals a day in the store, and I won't use anything in it) or help me do it, they never bullied me; Then there was another time when I graduated from high school and went to work, and the store manager I met this time was a 'bad sock', always bullying me, but the manager was very good, and my ability to resist pressure was okay, so I took what she said as a motivation for progress, and I was recognized and appreciated by the general manager later.

Then there is my junior accounting title certificate, which I feel is partly ability and partly lucky. The reason why I say this is because I only brought half of the books home to study in the year of the exam, and the other half wanted to study in school after the start of school, but what I never expected was that the epidemic came, resulting in me only listening to online classes at home every day, without textbooks, but three days before the exam, I swallowed the books I put in the study, so I passed the exam, and the results were quite good, at that time I really felt that the goddess of luck had come.

Finally, I am very good at my current job, the boss lady is very good to me, I have not worked in the company for a long time, and my ability is also lacking, but this does not affect my promotion at allI took four months off for my own reasons, and I thought she would fire me, but she didn't, and she kept caring for me during this time.

I feel that this is a great honor, I have increased my salary three times in a year, and my position has been promoted twice, I feel that I am really lucky. By my side, I haven't found any lucky friends at the moment.