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Poor child, looking at your current situation, it seems that life is not going well, work is sad, you have no friends, and your relatives are ignored.
I don't think you should ask us, you should calm down and ask yourself, can you adapt to the current situation, and if not, how much can you change? Do you really love your boyfriend, and will you accept it all for her?
Will your boyfriend go back with you when you go back to your hometown? If not, what's the worst outcome? What do you lose and what do you gain?
Sit down quietly with your boyfriend, talk and communicate frankly together, find a blank piece of paper, write down the factors that affect your decision one by one, and finally see which ones are the most important to you or you, and then make a decision, and move forward bravely without hesitation!
On a final note, I believe that your boyfriend is so desperate just to give you a better future, I believe that your parents and friends are silently supporting and encouraging you, and I would rather your co-workers are just good-natured jokes. I hope you are happier and braver, show courage and drive, show sincerity and kindness, sometimes, it doesn't matter who you are with, what matters is your attitude towards life.
Happy to you!
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Since you are so uncomfortable with local life and work, why should you be wronged to stay there.
The way you are, even if you get married to your boyfriend, you still won't fit in.
When two people are together, it is not enough to love each other, but also to be suitable in all aspects.
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If you don't have a good time outside, go home quickly, you can't live for just one thing in your life, I believe your boyfriend will support you back, love and career are not contradictory, whether you can stick to the end depends on whether the relationship between the two parties is well managed, not necessarily together, if you are depressed, you are going to end, do you believe it?
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It is very important for people to be happy in this life, if you live a depressed life, it will not be good for you in the long run. Come out of here.
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First of all, you complain a bit too much, if you go back you will still complain that you can't be with your boyfriend, how to choose, it depends on your own heart.
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When you leave home when you are young, you want to be free, when you are young, you want to dream, and when you are an adult, you leave home and become confused.
When we were in school, we longed to grow up quickly and be able to leave home and live a free life, but when we really grew up and left, we missed it immensely. But no matter how we lived, we didn't want to go back. Why don't you want to go home and celebrate?
Some people say it's for dreams, others say it's for life, for their parents, their wives and children. In fact, no matter how we live alone, we will miss our hometown very much every festive season!
In fact, most of us leave our hometowns to make a living. We are old and young, and we dare not slack off in our work. Sometimes, when we are not happy with our work, we will not tell our family members, for fear that they will worry about us from afar; When we returned to our place without a bowl of ginger soup, we felt very uncomfortable.
Cavity collapse. We also want to go home during the holidays, but when we think that the travel expenses are enough for our children's school fees, enough for our wives to buy a few beautiful clothes, and enough for our parents to buy a lot of fresh vegetables, we can only smile bitterly and give up this idea. I endured this longing alone and didn't want to go home.
Nowadays, there are also some young people who are reluctant to go home, and the reason for this is that some of them are because relatives and friends always ask how their work is and how their income is, and they are not doing well outside, and they feel so stressed; There are also some people who are forced to marry because their families are too tight to face the pressure of their families.
Whenever the family heard that we were not going back, whether it was comfort or scolding, we felt very uncomfortable.
There are always some reasons why we can't go back, but I know we want to go back more than anyone else. In order to live, to dream, to be responsible, we have to choose a person in the field. No matter how hard it is, as long as the family members have a ** and a simple greeting, our hearts will be full of warmth.
What we are most afraid of hearing is that our family members do not understand, there is something at home, we can't help, and our family will say that we don't care about the affairs of the family, and we can't make money, so what's the use of you. We're also sad, we've worked really hard, but sometimes life really doesn't go as we want.
We are outside, we really need the support of our family, no matter who you are working hard in the field, I hope you can understand him, support him, the loneliness of being alone is always difficult to explain. I also hope that some parents can understand their child and not always force him to dare not go home.
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Why don't you go home? : There are three reasons for not going home. First,own problems.
The personality of the individual affects the relationship between the two parties, and the relationship between the two parties regresses. For example: gambling and losing everything.
Second,The other party's question. If you have a good relationship outside, fool around with others; Clause.
3. The two sides have discordant personalities, and they quarrel every day and are unhappy. There is no warmth and warmth in the heart of a warm family, a prison home, only confrontation, quarrels, and even scolding.
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In the final analysis, this problem is due to the fact that there are no people and things to care about at home, or the home, as a warm harbor, has lost the shelter function that people can get.
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Chinese New Year is one of our most solemn and longest-standing festivals. Chinese New Year means reunion and joy. Only during the Chinese New Year, the wanderers who went out went home, and relatives and friends gathered together to eat and drink, which was quite happy.
But there are always some people who don't want to go home during the Chinese New Year, or can't go back. Whatever the reason, it's a pity. After all, wandering outside, but not going home for the Chinese New Year, the feeling in my heart must be uncomfortable.
The reason for wanting to go home is the same, that is, homesickness and parents. The reasons for not going home are different. Either way, it makes people feel both sad and helpless.
If you can't grab a ticket, you go to a higher place, and the water flows to a lower place. Whether we are studying or working in search and travel, we are willing to go to the big city to find more opportunities. This has led to an imbalance between the urban and rural populations on weekdays, and when the Chinese New Year comes, people who study or earn a living in big cities flock back to their hometowns, resulting in a situation where it is difficult to get a ticket.
I want to go home but can't go back, which is really a very sad thing. The hardest thing in the world to buy is a ticket home for the New Year.
I'm afraid that as soon as I go home from being urged to marry, the seven aunts and eight aunts will see you alone, and they will hula and surround you. They care most about your life's work. Even if you say you don't want to fall in love yet, they won't pay attention to your thoughts, for fear that you will be left.
When I thought of them forcing myself to go on a blind date, I trembled, and I simply didn't go back, so I wanted to be clean. It's right that you care about the lifelong events of the younger generations, but please don't be too enthusiastic, don't let the younger generations be afraid of you, so scared that they don't dare to go home for the New Year. In fact, fate is coming, and it can't be stopped.
There is always the right person waiting for him in this world.
Work needs to be at any time, there are always some positions that need to be manned. For example, doctors, police, drivers, ......Everyone else is on their way home. They went and had to stick to their posts.
We should be grateful to these frontline workers who continue to serve the people during the festival. With them, we can have a good year in peace and happiness.
It is inconvenient to go home, many people have been working hard for many years, getting married, giving birth to children, and having their own small family. So I didn't go back to my hometown, and I wanted to guard my small home for the New Year. There are also those who have lived in other places for many years and returned home without adapting to the water and soil, resulting in physical discomfort.
It was originally a festive day, but he was uncomfortable, so it was better not to go back than to go back to suffer.
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There are many reasons for not going home, one is more special, that is, I have not developed the habit of going home since I was a child, so I am still not used to going home when I am older, compared to my father - his parents died when he was very young, living alone, it doesn't matter if he doesn't go home or not, so he prefers to get together with classmates and friends outside, and has developed the habit of not going home.
The other kind of Xiangdou is what I want to say, I don't go home because I can't give him what he wants to quarrel with at home. As for what he wants? Vary.
At this time, I would like to wait for the people who need to find out this at home, and after figuring it out, please satisfy him, and then he will slowly fall in love with going home.
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When I grow up, I will have no home, and my peace of mind is home.
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