What do you say if you lend a book to someone else and are afraid that he will break it??

Say, I like this book very much, you be careful, we have a good relationship before lending it to you, and I have to think about the others for a long time.

I feel numb. Then you say, if it's a woman, you say, Well, this book is lent to you, you know I cherish this book, this is a gift from so-and-so, you be careful, hehe.

Male, just click on it Hey, you watch carefully, you brothers are very careless when you read books, and you can break my books every time, you know.

That's all I can think about.

You say: I cherish this book, I really can't help it, I have a good relationship with you, since you have spoken, how can I not borrow it, but cherish it!

If you think that person will definitely spoil your book and don't want to borrow it, then say that someone borrowed the book before him.

In a joking tone, I said: Don't work too hard to read the book, you will lose ten copies if you break it!

In fact, it's okay to be direct, it's not a difficult problem to say.

You say, "Be careful, I love this book." ”

Tell him, "Don't break my book."

I also borrowed this book, lend it to you, help me keep it, otherwise I won't be able to return it to others!

Directly said, this is not a big thing, easy to speak.

The safest way: don't borrow.

I also liked this book very much, and I even bought a book jacket to wrap it in. You're going to take care of it for me

What should I do if someone borrows a book from you? Would you rather lend your books to others?

Two days ago, I chatted with a colleague and told me the idea of a certain book and told me the title of the book. My colleague thought the book was very good, so he asked me if I had it and wanted to take a look. At that time, I was very hesitant, and one of my inner reactions was the boss's reluctance.

But I still want to fulfill the request of my colleague. So an alternative method naturally popped up in my mind: I said, you usually like to look at your mobile phone, I'll send you an electronic version, it's convenient for you to look at.

As a result, he said: They all say that if you don't borrow a book and don't read it, you can borrow it from me, and I'll pay you back after reading it.

And just like that, the book was lent out. Book, that's it, two months have not returned.

In other words, he is not usually the kind of person who picks the door, but he is still very concerned about the borrowing of books. First, I want to re-read it recently, and it is not as convenient to see the electronic version as it is to read the paper version; Second, I'm always afraid that the book will go out and meet someone unladylike, and it's serious, but I'm actually more afraid that my beloved things are entrusted to non-people. The most important reason is that books seem to me to be extremely personal objects, and they have a special emotional meaning.

In fact, I can't blame my colleagues for not agreeing on the time to return the book. After thinking about it, there are many ways to avoid such distress.

1.If the other person is not very familiar with you, and you care a lot about your book, you can just say no.

In this way, the other party may be very unhappy at the time, but it is also quiet and provincial. If you don't know each other well and don't have emotional baggage, don't let embarrassment hurt you.

2.The relationship is good enough, and the other party opens his mouth, you directly buy another copy for him. Or a compromise point, send a digital version of it.

The other party refuses the electronic version, so I think we have to think about it. Borrow, be prepared to return it after a long time, or return it beyond recognition, or not pay it back. Don't borrow it, be prepared to be attacked by eyes and not understood.

3.If you plan to lend your book to the other party, it is important to agree on a date for returning the book. In this way, there is no need to be embarrassed to ask for it after borrowing it.

Finally, in the eyes of many people, this is not a big deal. You may feel that your books are borrowed by whomever you like, and if you don't like to borrow, you won't borrow. You are the owner of the book, and this right is gone.

But for an introvert who loves books, this situation is difficult.

Every book lover has an unspeakable emotion for books. When immersed in the sea of books, you can travel through time and space. Turn on a light, a book in hand, and listen to the whispers of every soul.

Turn the pages of the book, look slowly, and begin the spiritual journey again and again. If you also understand the charm of words, I believe you will understand that cherishment.

If you love books, are you willing to lend them to others?

If you don't want to lend your books to others and don't want to affect your relationship, then you can try the following methods:

You can put the book that the other party wants to borrow on the desk, it is best to open it, if the other party comes to borrow, you can claim that you are rereading, and you are ready to write a related **, you need to look at it at any time, it will take a long time, so as to dispel the other party's idea of borrowing.

You can hide the books you have read in a hidden place. If the other party comes to borrow it, it can be said that it has been lent to someone else or given to one of your relatives or friends. Of course, it can also be said that I accidentally lost it.

Wait for someone to return it or find it before lending it to the other person. This is a delaying tactic, and after a while, the other party may forget or have borrowed it from someone else.

Another way is to make some marks on the book you have read, which is inconvenient for others to see, hoping that the other party will understand, and politely refuse.

The above methods can achieve the purpose of not lending books to others. However, after all, it is an unkind approach. If the other party detects that it is "intentionally not borrowing", it may cause unnecessary estrangement between each other, and even worse, you may lose a good friend.

Then I don't like to borrow it, I don't like to lend the books I have read to others, and I don't want to use textbooks, there are notes I made myself, and every stroke is very emotional. After a few years, I will look back and look through it, full of memories, there are serious notes, there are scribbles in class...

When I was in college, I advocated the recycling of textbooks, which is to suggest that students in the lower grades borrow books from their brothers and sisters. I also borrowed someone else's textbook, and there were some notes in it, and out of respect, I didn't make any marks on that book, because I knew that the book was not mine, and of course I couldn't scribble, and sooner or later I had to return it to someone.

However, when I am in class, whether I am serious or distracted, I always like to pick up a pen and scribble on the textbook, and it is normal to take notes. However, it was not his own book, so he could only look at it and not even dare to move, he was really embarrassed to death.

After borrowing that semester, I don't borrow books anymore, I buy them all by myself. Although it costs at least four or five hundred yuan to buy books a semester, I also think it's worth it, at least I can draw as much as I want.

Later, some of my younger brothers and sisters came to borrow books from us, but I was unwilling. The book is full of traces of me, I don't want to be destroyed, and I don't know if that person is a book lover, so if I can't lend you a semester, and finally return the book to me beyond recognition, then how heartbroken I am, it feels like giving my own woman to someone else to be ruined.

This is true for textbooks, not to mention other books. I won't lend it unless I'm sure the person is also a book lover. In the past, I borrowed a lot, because I wanted to see others, so I had to lend them to others and exchange them with each other.

Now it's less, after all, as a housewife, there is no life circle, woooooooooo

It's just that I love books, and it's also a habit of my own, in fact, everyone has some of their own habits that people may not be able to understand and won't care about, but here they are the bottom line of a thing, and even their own principles, so they will feel disgusted because such things are broken.

This is actually a very normal thing, speaking of this, in fact, my boyfriend also has this habit, that is, the books I buy and the books I read must not be lent to others, and the books I have read will not be thrown away, even if it is me, I want to see what books my own boyfriend has read, he will not lend it to me, and I want to buy it again, or he would rather buy me a new copy.

In fact, I didn't understand him at first, and I thought he was overkill, and he would quarrel with him at first, but gradually I found that some of my habits were also incomprehensible to him, but in my opinion, such things should be taken for granted, and then we began to understand each other and understand each other.

So, in fact, if you really feel that you will feel disgusted by lending the books you have read to others, you have no problem with yourself, you just want to know what to do when you may offend people like this, right?

In fact, if the other party is your very good friend, I believe you should make it clear to your friend that you are not right about the person, not just for him, and make it clear that one of your own habits is just a habit, in fact, there is no other meaning, in fact, your friend can also understand you.

If you really find it difficult for you to explain, then you can change yourself, think of this as a normal thing, read the book yourself, and when you borrow it, think of the book as if you bought it new, from a friend who borrowed it.

Let's look at what the other person is like, if he is usually a person who doesn't love books, you can directly refuse, saying "I love my books very much, I know your usual attitude towards your own books, I don't worry, and if it is broken, my family will also say that I am sorry." "Of course, it's also up to you, if you feel that your conscience will be overcome, you can also borrow, but if it is broken, you need to compensate.

If the other party is also a person who loves books very much, you can consider whether to borrow it, it depends on you, you can borrow it, tell him a few words, tell him not to break it, otherwise your family will say, if the other party still breaks it, the same as above.

It's nothing to ask for compensation, because I've already told you to protect my book, and I've told you that if it's broken, you'll have to pay for it, and since I've already said it, don't think there's anything about it.

Then, the thing is yours, and if you don't want to borrow it, no one else will have anything, and even if there is, it's because he doesn't deserve your trust in this matter.

You can tell him to press the deposit, which seems a little bad. If he returns it to you in good condition, you give him back the deposit: if it is broken, you don't give it back to him.

I usually buy a new one and lend it out.

You didn't break it, tell your parents.