Ask the master, does she have a boyfriend, what should I do????? 20

Updated on psychology 2024-05-04
45 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    That's it, my friend and I talked all night.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I don't think so! Nowadays, even if they are good friends, they can talk for a long time, girls! There's always a lot to talk about, just wait! Time to observe longer, understand her more, and treat her with sincerity! There's always something to be gained!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Well,,, this one... Maybe it',,, or maybe you're self-inflicted

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Since you raised the question, let's not talk nonsense! You question her in your heart like this, and I give you the question:

    1: Have you ever had a subtle bad feeling for her before? Yes! No?

    Perceiving the answer--- Yes! Yes! No, then no!

    2: Her style (when chatting with you) does she say hello?

    Perceiving the answer--- say! Yes! Don't say no!

    In fact, there is no standard for the third party, the order problem, the object problem. Good luck.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    A good friend and a girlfriend are just one step away, and I'll talk about it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Not necessarily, he may not be able to chat with his good friends, girls sometimes talk for a long time.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The point is that do you "love" her? I'm talking about "love", not "like", you can't get out of the so-called emotional whirlpool now, and naturally you can't tell what is "love" and what is "like"? Of course, it's not your fault, as Eileen Chang said:

    Even God cannot remain wise in love, let alone man." You need to take your time to understand this, and no one can help you.

    The most important thing is ......

    Give me the + ......-

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    She's just treating you like a regular friend, obviously.

    Also, there is no need to make unnecessary guesses, it is better to have ideas and direct collusion.

    Knowing the other and winning all battles, let's find out her situation first.

    Good luck.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Just guessing.

    Tactfully rejects you.

    At the same time, I have other boyfriends.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Judging from what you said, I think that there is usually a boyfriend After 9 o'clock in the evening, it must be a relatively close person **Isn't there a couple pie Isn't it easy to use after 9 o'clock Analyze the matter yourself After all, you are a person at that time If you really have a boyfriend, you can be a friend who doesn't talk anymore Besides, you can also ask her in person It's nothing.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Just ask! Or inquire! Or simply give up.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Dead grinding, looking for her every day.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Communicate your thoughts with him truthfully, admit that his desire to control makes him very uncomfortable, you say that two people live to meet in their 20s, each other's personalities and habits have long been stereotyped, and they should be more adaptable and tolerant to each other, rather than forcibly changing and controlling, in addition, when dealing with this kind of grumpy man, a fake breakup is also a method, because the love between men and women is sometimes like a war, either the east wind overpowers the west wind, or the west wind overpowers the east wind, there is always one person who has to compromise and retreat, Since you don't want to, and you feel very sad, then you have to use a bombshell to force him to comply. Between losing you and controlling you, he can only choose one. However, this method of fake breakup can only be used once, because it is a risky move, and the reason for the breakup is to pick the one you mind the most to make him compromise, don't come to several demands at once to reconcile.

    The time to break up is 2 weeks, if he wants to reconcile in these two weeks, let him show sincerity, such as what made him the most unhappy before, and what you want him to compromise the most, you will do something at a high frequency in these two weeks to force him to adapt to the status quo.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Let's talk to him Boyfriend may have lived since he was a child and caused his personality to be like this You have to understand him Love is based on the two of them running in with each other If you really can't talk about it, you will be cold first I still hope you are happy Think about happy days The more you want to be sad The more unhappy you are depressed I hope you solve the problem as soon as possible

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The personality is not compatible, hurry up and adjust, and the adjustment can't be adjusted, only 88

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    They all say that persuasion and not persuasion are not discouraged, and in such a situation, I persuade peace. The reason why your boyfriend is like this is because of his personality and temperament, and you have to be mentally prepared, a person's personality and temper are the most difficult to change, and you have to accept it for a lifetime if you marry him. Let's talk about countermeasures.

    First, calm down and talk, let him know that his anger is your aggrieved feeling. Remember, he can only understand if you say it, stop arguing in a useless way.

    Two, he definitely loves you, but he also said that he is very stressed and tired. So, you have to love Him with your thoughtful care. Between men and women, if there is any problem that everyone has to face together, you have to tell him that you can fight with him, he is not alone, and he does not need to face it alone.

    Third, don't quarrel with the Cold War, it's just the way stupid people use it. For example, if he gets angry again, you can say to him afterwards, if I scold you in public, can you accept it. Make him aware of empathy. You're his girlfriend, not his punching bag.

    Fourth, be firm in your love, if you really don't love, then when what I say is in vain. How to strengthen your love, first of all, strengthen his love for you, do you think that after breaking up, you can find another man to love you so much.

    Fifth, you just can't stand his temper, it's not that you don't love him as a person, if it's because of the temper separation, do you think he's wrong or you're willful, remember, there is no man in this world who can completely fit your heart.

    So, calm down with him and talk about your feelings, let him empathize, and we will face the difficulties together.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    In The Psychology of Love (essay), it is said that your boyfriend is that type of need. If you meet his needs, then he will be 100% attached to you. This relationship is like the relationship between mother and son.

    Sometimes he is like a child, he listens to you every time, sometimes he is like a father, and he wants to manipulate everything about you every time. The environment in which he grew up determined his temper and character. If you want to continue your relationship with him.

    I suggest you communicate with him as much as possible. But it's not the kind of reasonableness, it's to be honest with each other, so that he can see your dedication and love. Maybe it will be able to bring him out of the shadow of his childhood.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Actually, I think I love it. Everyone asks what it means, and the true meaning is only understood by those who have experienced it.

    If you think your boyfriend has a bad personality, you can communicate with him more appropriately, after all, you cherish each other.

    Because your boyfriend grew up alone, there will be some shadows in his heart. You can give him a little more care instead of being angry with him. It's really embarrassing for your boyfriend to scold you in public, and if you really care about him, then put up with it.

    I think he'll see some of the things you've done for him, and I think your boyfriend loves you anyway.

    The only drawback may be due to the upbringing.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Typically, "Don't Talk to Strangers", get angry now and do it in the future, you think about it carefully, it's better to find people with similar temperaments. It can't be denied that he loves you, but it is because he loves you that he feels entitled to be angry with you, you think about it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    This may have something to do with his family environment.

    You can talk about it when you're all calm and in a good mood.,He's so macho.,I hate this too.。。

    He's going to get angry at you if he doesn't like it, and that's scary

    In other words, a person's personality is not very easy to change.

    You can try to talk.

    I really can't feel like you can't stand his temper and so on.

    Just leave him.

    A man's character is still very important.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Your boyfriend has a strong sense of self-preservation, because he has to take care of himself since he was a child, and children from single-parent families are very independent. So sometimes it feels overbearing! You choose him, and you have to tolerate him.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The wilder the animal, the more difficult it is to tame, and once it is tamed, the more trust and patience it will have towards its owner. Your boyfriend is not a normal person who comes over, and his personality will be more special. Like that kind of beast that is difficult to tame, it often erupts into wildness.

    But as long as you care for it sincerely, he will die and be faithful to you wholeheartedly in the future. I will be grateful for your efforts for a lifetime.

    I hope you can care more about him and be more patient. You will be happy.

    May your animal taming operation be complete.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Confused. There is no perfect lover, choose the person who suits you for a lifetime.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You wait for him to be in a good mood and talk to him about it. If he refuses to change himself, then you can change it.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Children in single-parent families have very problematic personalities, and they generally have a potential personality when they know them psychologically, I think your boyfriend is like this, family makes an individual, prudent.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    This is determined by his upbringing, and his cheerfulness shows that he has an inferiority complex. He needs to feel his worth by controlling you and make up for his lack of self-confidence. If you're sure you can go on like this for the rest of your life, or if you feel like you can save him, just stick to it.

    If you can't, find a way to solve it, or you'll be even more uncomfortable later

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's called machismo, but having such a good man around you doesn't necessarily mean it's bad, and you need to get used to it slowly. Submissive.

    He can think about everything in advance, although his temper is not very good, but no one is perfect. You can only do your own ideological work, and such a man is very helpful to you out of comprehensive considerationsCan't be lost!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Hello friends, we have the same experience, but you are happier than me, at least she likes you, but I don't know if she also likes me, I have now left her and gone to another city, far, far away, I believe that long pain is better than short pain, or let each other be happy, since they can't be together, why do you want to do this, it will not be interesting, just let everything be a thing of the past, a good memory! No matter what decision you make, I wish you a happy life, someone with a common destiny!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's a fool to fight hard with the other, with your brain, kid.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Your question is too long.

    I'm not in a hurry to finish reading it.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    First, you are now dealing with two people.

    You have to tell her very clearly. You like her. You won't give up on her.

    The second is her current boyfriend. You're going to fight with him. Tell him that it's not you that she loves. It's me.

    You have to figure it out by yourself.

    But if it were me, the first, I wouldn't give up, the second, wouldn't give up.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Why can't people who love each other be together? She loves you, why can't she give up someone she doesn't love for you? She doesn't love that man but still wants to be with him?

    For what? Is that fair to you to the man? How can she say that she has no choice?

    In this society, everyone can choose who they love? Is it really just what she says? Think about your future!

    After many facts have proved that there can be no pure friendship between men and women, don't be stupid......

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Ask Rabindranath Tagore, he's a good friend of mine.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Since there is love, you should not give up.

    Kiki.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Is he her boyfriend or husband?

    If it's a boyfriend, you can make it clear to him! So that the three of them will not suffer!!

    If it's a husband, then why does that girl agree to marry him when she has someone she likes?

    If you get married, there is a famous saying, "It is better to teach people to beat their sons than to teach them to divide their wives".

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Boy, don't spoil the little couple!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Hey, quarreling doesn't mean that people are in a bad relationship, the relationship is still the two people who understand it best, I advise you not to appear at this time, if they really have a bad relationship and will break up, then you have to wait until someone breaks up, if you are embarrassed by three people now, it is likely that it will be bad to blindly make a decision and regret it later.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Hey, the man's careful, someone is going to intervene.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Forget it, be careful, one day your girlfriend will run away with someone like this.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    It's not that the relationship is very good, so what's not to do.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Because the girls you like are good, so they all have boyfriends.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Confess to her, ask her who she really loves, and give the two of you one last chance to choose. If she chooses a boyfriend, then you let it go. Amu has a song "There is a love called letting go", listen to it, it's all I want to say. Then go and pursue your own happiness.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Since everyone is married, I still treat you as a friend You just bury the pain in your heart If you can see it, go to be a friend and attend the wedding, if you can't see it, don't even be a friend Just be the most familiar stranger, turn this page and continue to find your own happiness.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    She doesn't love you, she just treats you as a good friend, so, wake up and go find your person.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    It's time to go! He is not embarrassed, what do you have like Maybe you will die faster, make yourself better, whoever leaves can live, the only thing you are angry with yourself is the saddest!

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