Am I too used to my boyfriend. My boyfriend always says he can t get used to me and treats me badly?

Give somebody a taste of his own medicine.

Well, we're in a similar situation, my boyfriend is usually very gentle, but sometimes it's very emotional, and I'm just putting up with it now.

Let's break up! This man has nothing to do, a man has no cultivation at all, he will not have any potential, and he is very irritable, this temper develops to get married, maybe he will beat you, how do you plan to live your life! It's too embarrassing!

Copying between lovers is also flirting, but it's not okay to be too short-tempered, when he's angry, you just follow him a little, to find the reason for his temper and help him solve it.

To love someone is to love all about him, including the strengths and weaknesses.

Guarding love requires tolerance and tolerance.

If you can't tolerate it, break up, after all, it's not suitable.

I'm going to blackmail you with a breakup, don't be a boy with this!

You can try to be separated for a while, at least the attitude should be cold, if he can realize it, and then you can talk about it together, and achieve respect and understanding that both parties can accept, after all, feelings are the business of both parties, not one party blindly seeking, the other party blindly paying, remember, hehe, I wish you a smooth love.

I think it's a long-term relationship, maybe I'm tired of it, maybe he has something in his heart that you don't know, if you want to continue dating, have time to sit down and talk about it.

Such a man is not so much to say goodbye to her!

Boys and girls treat feelings differently, when boys pursue girls, they feel that the better they are for her, the more girls like themselves, and girls think that the better you are for me, which means that you need more, have some kind of purpose, and are more alienated from you, but those bad men who have various requirements for girls are deeply liked by girls.

A man's value is determined according to his attitude towards others, if you are usually cold, give girls the feeling that you are particularly postureful, principled, and even social value is not lower than other men, so the attitude towards girls has always been very cold, and will not accommodate girls, on the contrary, if you accommodate girls in everything and get used to her, then she will be subconscious.

thinks that you belong to the kind of man who is worthless and needs to please girls in exchange for love.

First: the attitude of replying to messages.

Some boys in the face of girls do not care about themselves, do not reply to themselves, are accommodating, girls may say: "I'm busy, I'm sorry not to see", boys will tolerate one by one, after a long time, girls will feel that you tolerate her is deserved, she will be more inch-inch, do not take you seriously.

On the contrary, if a girl forgets to take care of you once, in the eyes of a bad man, it is a disrespectful practice, maybe a bad man will hang this girl for a day, and when the girl notices that something is wrong and then finds her, the boy will count her down, so that the girl deeply realizes that it is a very wrong behavior not to reply to the message, and she will not dare to do it next time, which is at least a matter of respect.

Second: Give up your dignity for the sake of girls.

Girls often tell boys that true love is to love until they give up the bottom line, is this really the case? A girl is just looking for a reason to make you treat her better, at most she will deceive honest boys, is it true that you have to give up your dignity for the sake of girls?

Often the boys who do this end up with the name of a good person, and the girls also abandon themselves and leave with other boys, your dignity is your capital, and girls will only be attracted to you because of your dignity and attitude, and will not be with you because you are good to her.

Third: Give up your social and life for the sake of girls.

Pursuing a girl requires a lot of energy and time from a boy, so some boys give up their original lives and friends, and work hard for the girl, just in exchange for a smile. But what did the girl give you?

She didn't ask you to do it, you just subconsciously felt that being nice to her could get you the love you wanted, the girl didn't say that, and then you gave up friends, gave up socializing, and in the end you didn't get anything.

Socialization and life are important criteria to attract girls, for example, girls will look at your circle of friends.

to decide whether to date you or not, you have discarded it, what capital is there to attract girls? Therefore, the richer the social circle of friends, the better, only if your life is good, girls will naturally take the initiative to come over.

He's afraid of spoiling you, he just wants to love you in moderation, not that he doesn't love you...

Choose one person to prefer, and understand the meaning of this sentence.

Summary. Don't be too accommodating to him, there are some things to make him bear! Let him feel like a man, if you have arranged everything for him, he will feel that he is very useless, and the inferiority complex will come up, you must know that everyone will have inferiority complex in their hearts, just how much is the problem, sometimes experience can change the mentality.

Boyfriend says I'm too used to him + he's going to get lost.

Don't be too accommodating to him, there are some things to make him bear! Let him feel like a man, if you have arranged everything for him, he will feel that he is very useless, and the inferiority complex will come up, you must know that everyone will have inferiority complex in their hearts, just how much is the problem, sometimes experience can change the mentality.

So what should I do.

Pull a relationship with him, it's okay to be cold and hot with him, don't care too much about him.

But I like him very much, and I don't take the initiative to coax me when I quarrel, and in the end, I coax him, and I take the initiative to tell me not to get used to him too much, and tell me not to do this, he will get lost, but if I ignore him, he will get angry.

You just are too used to him, he is angry and needs a woman to coax, so don't be good to him, he will be good to you.

Good. Have a great day!

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When your boyfriend tells you that you are used to him, he means that he hopes that you can coax him more, spoil him, and be more understanding and tolerant of him.

My boyfriend said to me and told me to get used to him, what did he mean?

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Your rough boyfriend said to you that you are used to him, and he means that he hopes that you can coax him more, spoil him, and be more understanding and tolerant of him.

When he said that you are used to him, he actually hopes that you can be more considerate of him and take into account his feelings more in terms of thoughts and emotions.

People will grow, the heart will change, you must learn to grow, know how to cherish, you can wake up when you are hurt, feelings are the same thing, for a long time you think that you are different from others, and in fact, you are the same and nothing. Feelings that float on reality are flawed, and this flaw lies in the immaturity of you or him. Who said that he could be so romantic and childish in his seventies and eighties.

Who can be sure that they will only love one person in their life.

Maybe he's too busy at work. Sometimes men are a little more stressed than women. Lovers should complement each other, and trusting each other is the most important thing! Don't be so sensitive. You can try to care for him. I'm sure you'll be happy too......

It's definitely useless for you to ask him, you have to observe it from the actual situation, for example, when he chased you before, he did those more childish things, and now you ask him to do it again, if he doesn't do it or makes excuses, then there is really a problem.

Don't blindly enjoy other people's love for you, love is two-sided, since you love each other, you have to let the other party perceive your love, so that the other party will also make you feel his love, I hope it helps.

No, it's because he figured out that if he gets used to you again, he will make you more willful, and in the future, when he is not there, you will suffer because of your willfulness.

Everyone wants to have a good love, a happy marriage.

Love is maintained by two people together, so that it can last forever, not one person's contribution, there will be a beautiful love!

I have doubts about him, and think about how I did it to him

It's called the seven-year itch.

Yes, I don't like it when it's cooked.

Love is not the same as accommodation.

When you understand, you will know what love is.

I think it may be that your boyfriend is tired of you, so he will treat you like this.

It's really not obligated to get used to you, girls don't know how to cherish their good fortune, too much will make the other party disgusted, you have peerless beauty, extraordinary talent, the ability to make money or superb cooking skills? If not, it's just unreasonable, relying on trouble to catch your boyfriend, it won't last long.

If your friend suddenly says that he is not obligated to get used to you anymore, then it means that he may no longer care about you, and it is a sign that your relationship is coming to an end. Maybe he already has other ideas (I guess he may like other girls), and he may have tolerated you to the limit. The only thing you can do now is have a good talk with him to see why he's changed like this.

Try to redeem it and be less pretentious.

It may be that your boyfriend used to be used to you a lot, so he got used to a lot of bad problems, and he wanted to make you correct your previous mistakes and become better in the future.