Why does he always like to lie to me?

Man, do you understand?

If you understood, you wouldn't be here asking questions

Men, the most faithful idea of the person they love is that they are willing to fold their wings and send you to fly Steal the fun, you have someone who loves you. Don't dwell on this little thing, you don't know you're surrounded by happiness right now

Maybe it's true, the food was not good when you started to hit **, but when you hit ** for the second time, the food was good again?

Ay! Why do you think we women are so miserable? We will never be women again in the next life when we think about everything!

Don't overthink it, maybe today's meal is what he likes.

The military is very strict, you have to trust him.

I'm afraid of you, you really like this man, you belong to the kind of people who rub people, remember the advice that the master of love gives you, you hold a handful of sand, and the tighter you hold it, the faster it will flow away!

Maybe you're thinking too much, the first time he told you that the food was not good, it was really bad, and the second time he was afraid that you were worried about it, he said that the food was good, so you don't have to worry about him, you didn't feel his kindness.

It's that you think too much, maybe his food was not good yesterday, and you hit ** today, maybe the food is good, or maybe he doesn't want you to worry, lie to you, maybe he said that the food was not good before because he wanted you to care more about him, don't think too much about two people together,

Personally, I think that if the person you love deceives you, you shouldn't choose to be friends again.

Nobody likes **. In fact, no one wants to lie. As long as cheating involves personal safety and property safety, it cannot be excused because it is intentional harm and calculation.

But in love, the person you love lies to you. What do you want? Some say it's unforgivable, while others say it depends on what it is.

In fact, whether you forgive or not depends on how much you love the other person. When two people are together for a long time, they will feel more dependent and trust each other. If the other party deliberately lies to deceive you, no matter what excuse is used, there is only one psychology:

I don't want you to think too much, I don't want you to misunderstand, I don't want to hurt you, he or she cares about you.

People will say, if you care about me and are afraid of hurting me, don't be a fool. Instead of lying by doing things that hurt me, you should hurt me directly. Any lie can be forgiven, except for physical betrayal.

Why not? Because physical infidelity is an instinct, once the instinct is no longer loyal to you, don't talk about the rest, because the bottom line has passed. It doesn't matter if you're drunk or not.

Lovers should have a bottom line. Maybe he she cheats because he she cares because he she's afraid to get angry or in a hurry to get angry. But don't forget that trust is the first thing lovers need the most.

If you tell the other person what you are hiding and cheating, it is not only a kind of trust, but also a test of the other person's empty fortune to see if they understand and understand you.

Love is a matter of two people, so don't think that lying, concealment, and deception can make the other person feel better, on the contrary, it will make the other person feel more sad, not to mention that if the other person gets angry after knowing the true situation, if someone else's mouth knows about his lover's deception, I think anyone will feel uncomfortable in their hearts. If you love him or her, you should be honest. If two people love each other, there is no problem.

If two people are gently in love with each other and separate when they have problems, it can only prove that he or she is not the person in your life.

Of course, the other party who has been deceived and concealed should also consider the other party's situation, why the other party is cheating, and whether the problem is with themselves. If he has a problem himself, he should communicate with the other party in time to avoid causing a bigger fuel gap. Do it and cherish it.

If you love each other, be honest with each other. Don't cover up your problems with lies in the name of love. Only by facing it bravely and solving it positively can you get true love.

Summary. Dear [Bixin], hello, I'm honored to ask you this question, I am Dabang, a member of the editorial board of Chinese university textbooks, a national registered first-level emotional counselor, a family relationship counselor (teacher), a second-level psychological counselor, good at: emotional repair and recovery, marital crisis management, psychological healing, love trouble, emotional management, 10000+ hours of service, 10000+ people.

Dear [Bixin], hello, I'm honored to ask you this question, I am Dabang, a member of the editorial board of Chinese university textbooks, a national registered first-level emotional counselor, a family relationship counselor (teacher), a second-level psychological counselor, good at: emotional repair and recovery, marital crisis management, psychological healing, love trouble, emotional management, 10000+ hours of service, 10000+ people. I am sorting out the answers to your questions, if you have more information, you can continue to express it, I can better answer it for you.

Why does my husband always lie to me? In fact, there are many times when men lie because they are afraid that a woman will be angry, and they will be afraid that they will be angry when they love her. Don't force him to do some things, some men lie and women force them out!

You don't allow him to do it, you don't allow him to do that, if he does, and he's afraid that you will be angry, he will lie! In fact, men are the same as children in their bones! You don't have to ask him about his past, you know that you are also sad and cares about his present and future, since he is very good to you, let's share some things together!

In fact, husband and wife should be as intimate as friends, you have to understand him often, and he will tell you everything in his heart. If he tells you something, you cry and make trouble, he won't tell you anything, and you'll be lying if you ask! Men will become accustomed to lying, and so will women!

The more you understand him, he will change it, and he will be very sorry for you if he lies.

Once or twice deceiving may seem like nothing, and it is impossible for two people to have no secrets at all, but if they always lie to you, you need to give him a warning. If it's a white lie, then it's understandable, if it's not, it's an addiction to lying and not honest enough.

Why do men love to lie?

1. Avoid arguing and lying.

Men sometimes lie to avoid arguments and to avoid trouble. Because they know that women are easy to win, women are very difficult to deal with, and it is a stupid thing to tell the truth in front of women. Therefore, in many cases, in order to avoid contradictions, they have to lie about their losses.

2. Make you feel that marrying is worth it.

Men often exaggerate when describing their bravery and strength, their experiences, or their pivotal position in the workplace, just to make you remember that you are married to the right person, and that you are only satisfied with your own good feelings.

3. Self-defense. They often sigh: Since we have given up our infinite yearning for you female writers, the wonderful and attractive single life, I really don't understand how you can be so disappointed in us!

Forgive him when you forget to call your partner, or when he's late for a date, or when he doesn't get cold medicine for you before the pharmacy closes. If you complain about some unworthy mistakes, he can only deal with them by telling small lies.

Men generally don't cheat on a woman's feelings for no reason, to hurt each other, to give to their own sincerity, if he deceives you, not because of my last resort, it means that this man and you may really have different motives and purposes.

A man cheats on a woman's feelings, on the one hand, it may be because he doesn't love you so tenderly, he may be good to you or just treat you as an emotional spare tire, maybe he has a heart, but his current emotional status is not satisfactory, at this time the man will find a way out for himself, he may want to change his goal to make up for his emotional dissatisfaction.

In addition, a man deceiving you sometimes shows that the man is attentive, irresponsible and not responsible. Maybe this man is hiding from you because of his own emotional problems, maybe he and you are hiding his own economic conditions, some of this kind of men like to get a sense of accomplishment from the opposite sex's good feelings about themselves.