I feel stupid, I often can t speak clearly, and my expression skills are very poor

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I'm like that, but the more I do it, the more my boyfriend likes it, - it's paradoxical. It shouldn't matter if it's a girl, it's stupid and cute.

Maybe he is cautious and quick to act.

Oh, it's the same end of the world

My oral expression skills are also very poor, and I am often hung by my boss, which makes me depressed to death, which makes me very annoyed lately.

So now I have just started to practice this ability, and I often go to the library to read some books on eloquence. It's still somewhat useful. Although it is said that what you learn from books is some theoretical things, but when you think about it carefully, there is really some truth. 、

Now I've found a way to listen, even though I'm not very good at talking, but I'm listening. Because listening is also a virtue. Most people like to be listened to by others.

Therefore, as long as you can listen to others well, you can still make others like you. When listening, pay attention to the other person's eyes and don't feel embarrassed, so that others will think that you care about what he says, and everyone likes to feel valued. You respect him, and he will respect yours.

Slow down a bit. Pay attention to the clarity and conciseness of the speech. Don't be afraid to say yes. You pay more attention. If you practice more, you will definitely improve. Take the usual conversation as a practice.。。 After a long time, classmates and friends must look at you differently. Come on.

It's a lot of practice for others.

Don't be afraid.

There are two kinds of difficult expression skills:

The inability to express may be due to poor language organization. But the logic in the mind is clear.

The other kind of nonsense is that it is very likely to be unintelligent.

Language ability refers to the ability to use words, words, sentences, and paragraphs in the process of oral language (speaking, speaking, making reports) and written language (answering argumentative questions, writing articles), both of which are based on language.

Let's face the differences of people.

There are two types of poor expression skills: the inability to express may be due to poor language organization skills. But the logic in the mind is clear.

The other kind of nonsense is that it is very likely to be unintelligent. An illogical forcible expression will only expose how bad your logic is.

Reflect on what kind of situation you are in. That's all I can say.

The term stupid bird flies first is best for you.

Stupid is not an interface that prevents you from improving. Reading more books, watching more news, and historical allusions will increase your capital by 100% to chat with others. Specific performance:

1. Improve your logical thinking ability.

2. Improve your knowledge base, and naturally your comprehension ability will also improve.

3. Enhance the huge capital of letting others listen to you in the process of communication. Because among normal people, there are not many people who know history.

Knowledge is **! The more your brain moves, the more flexible it becomes. After reading more books, you will know for yourself that there is more than one solution to many things.

In fact, people who say they are stupid are not stupid, because you already know where you have a defect, then it proves that you have a very smart brain, what I mean, under normal circumstances, there may be no one else in the language who will speak, and no one may be happy in doing things, this is not a problem, the character is fast, the character is slow, the reaction is fast and the reaction is slow, this is normal, if you really want to do something well, I suggest that the past sentence still applies, called the stupid bird flies first, I suggest that from now on, remember the situation, think about life, work, study, and family everything in advance, and think of countermeasures, think of ways to solve problems, I think you will mature soon.

Du Luo listed his own shortcomings, that is, he has made great progress, find a big blank piece of paper, list your shortcomings, and look at them, find solutions, and break them down. Low self-esteem is not a reason, struggle is life. Make use of your strengths and avoid your weaknesses, overcome difficulties, and work hard.

This problem is not a problem, and many times it is a lack of experience in interacting with people and a lack of experience in oneself.

General chat, don't have to be too serious, if it's an important thing, you can't hear it clearly, just politely ask the other party to repeat it, listen clearly, don't understand, you can also ask.

Comprehension and expression skills are usually practiced, that is, proficiency. What we have to do is reduce the time of this phase.

Socialize with people more, and the more you experience, you will naturally understand.

Be serious and be patient.

In your case, you should talk less and learn more for the time being. First of all, you should learn from books, buy some psychology and social books, and read them carefully.

Secondly, you should observe more about how the people around you speak, and you should learn more speaking skills from those with high emotional intelligence, so that you will slowly learn to speak.

It's your own, your heart is not strong enough, and when you encounter something, you don't know what to say or do, so you have to learn more from the people around you.

Talk less and make fewer mistakes, that is, you are not stupid and know how to speak, and you don't easily express your own opinions.

I felt so stupid that I didn't know what to say and what not to say.

I think that since you have suffered a loss, you have already learned a lesson, so you will talk about it later.

I don't know what to say or not, so you can pick the one that sounds good and is right.

Because people always like to listen to good words and don't like to listen to criticism.

You just need to take care of yourself, so why bother with others?

In fact, there are many things that need to be learned, and when you experience it, you will have experience, and you may still say that you have experienced too little, and you have not encountered enough things, so you often say the wrong thing.

Don't say uncertain words easily, so as not to feel embarrassed afterwards, you can listen to what others say and think more.

When you don't know what to say, try not to say it casually, and let yourself think twice before organizing a reasonable language.

Have some confidence in yourself. No one is completely right, and sometimes it's normal to say the wrong thing, so don't worry.

If that's the case, think carefully before you say every word.

I feel that I am too stupid, I don't know what to say, what not to say, when you are hesitant, then don't just say these words, learn slowly, just communicate.

You can say whatever you want to your friends, you can say less to outsiders, you can say less and shout more, and you can say whatever you want if you have the ability.

If you feel that you can't speak, then don't talk casually in general situations, and mainly communicate with a fighting attitude.

I feel too stupid to know what to say and what not to say, because everyone is you, just a few years of social experience, you know what to say and what not to say.

Then listen to others, be a good listener, and learn from others' better ways to become bigger.

1.I sometimes feel like I'm stupid, and sometimes I say things I shouldn't have said, and I regret it afterwards. But if I don't say it, it's hard to communicate with others.

2.Based on my own experience, I recommend saying less in front of others, or picking out the good ones. Don't talk about other people's privacy or other people's shortcomings, others don't like to expose their own shortcomings.

3.It's okay to say it in front of family or close friends, because they can tolerate us and they understand our straightforward nature. However, in order to adapt to society, we also have to be sleek, anyway, just choose the right thing to say.

If you feel too stupid to know what to say and what not to say. Then my advice is that you don't say anything. Wait until you know what to say.

Have the courage to communicate and grow from mistakes!

Say what you think is right.

It's okay to be casual.

You can't speak, so what about your personality.

The strong ones are still the ones who are easier to talk to.

Then it is recommended that you talk less to avoid causing unnecessary trouble to yourself and others. Have a great day!

The first: learn to listen.

This is the most important point. Around us, there are always people who like to grab words. There's a saying that I don't know if you've heard of it:

Listen to what you say. It is to understand what others are saying, that is, what we often say, and we must not interrupt others, so that others can express their emotions and content organically and completely, so as to better understand and analyze their intentions. Then express your opinion reasonably.

This kind of communication will make each other feel comfortable.

The second: empathy.

When you encounter a disagreement, don't get angry and rush to refute and justify. Think backwards at the right time, try to understand others, and think from a different perspective. Because behind everyone's expression, there is a certain trajectory of thought and ideas, he will not say something for no reason, and these words are about to be said to you, only by understanding the other party's purpose in doing so, you can do things perfectly, and say the most appropriate.

Third: more praise, less criticism.

No matter who you are, you like to hear compliments, so when we speak, we should also pay attention to one point, don't catch on to the shortcomings of others, and just keep going, which will make the other person unable to get off the stage. How should we praise it? The so-called compliment, is not to let you go against your will to flatter, but to be flexible, for example, a girl today to change a hairstyle, tie a bow, you can praise her, this hairstyle is very suitable for her, such a good dress, will make the other party willing to talk to you from the bottom of their hearts.

Talking stupidly is because he is kind-hearted and can't use scheming, such a person is reliable, and he doesn't need to change, which is good.

It's not that you're too stupid to speak, it's that you're exposed too little. Some of the wording was misused. Reach out to people more often. If you get used to it, you'll be fine.

You can read more communication books, and sometimes you can see how others communicate.