My parents want a divorce, should I agree?

Updated on society 2024-05-05
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Your parents want to divorce, first of all, you should understand why your parents want to divorce, and then analyze the specific issues, try to persuade your parents not to divorce, after all, it is not easy to establish a family, especially I believe that your parents have been married for at least ten or twenty years, as the saying goes: a day husband and wife are a hundred days! If you want to divorce for a little thing, it's a little bit less worthwhile, and in addition, it's not good for you, if your parents divorce the whole family will become imperfect, and you will also lack a kind of love (father's love or mother's love), such a growth road will be more difficult than others, and your life will not be sound.

    But if your parents are arguing every day at home, then you still have to find out the reason in advance, sometimes it may be a small knot that breaks up the family, so that a complete family tends to be broken. Parents may have divorced because the knot has not been opened, so as a child, you have the obligation and responsibility to help open the knot. In fact, most parents who want to divorce may lack a kind of trust in each other, in this case, you should help them build a bridge of mutual trust.

    In short, in my opinion, before you think about this problem, you should try to save this rare marriage as the basis, instead of blindly being irritable, to calm down and think about it, they care about your answer to this question, in fact, they still want to save it, but both parties can't find the steps, at this time you have to pave the way for them to provide them with the best steps.

    I don't know if what I'm saying will be useful to you, but I still think you should try to save it, for their sake and for your own sake. Finally, I wish your family a speedy recovery, and now a small spark will be a harmonious and common progress in the future.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you feel like you're able to be autonomous, they're happier.

    Don't force it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Divorce does not require the consent of both parents, but it does require a household register, which is not acceptable.

    If both husband and wife have voluntarily divorced and have reached an agreement on child support and property division, they can go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to go through the divorce procedures.

    The materials to be brought to the Civil Affairs Bureau for divorce by agreement are:

    1. ID card.

    2. Hukou book.

    3. Marriage certificate.

    4. Divorce agreement.

    It can be seen that the answer to the question of whether to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau for divorce without bringing a household registration book has come out, and you need to bring the household registration book to handle it.

    Divorce refers to the legal act of dissolving the marriage relationship and terminating the rights and obligations between the husband and wife through agreement or litigation.

    According to the provisions of the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China, if the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

    The Civil Code of the People's Republic of China came into effect on January 1, 2021, and in order to implement the provisions of the Civil Code on the cooling-off period system for divorce, the Ministry of Civil Affairs has adjusted the marriage registration procedures and added a cooling-off period to the divorce procedure. The newly adjusted divorce registration procedures include application, acceptance, cooling-off period, examination, registration (issuance), etc.

    Divorce route: Registered divorce.

    If both husband and wife reach an agreement through consultation, they can go to the marriage registration office to register the divorce. The content of the consensus should be reflected in the divorce agreement, including but not limited to the following: expression of intent to divorce, ownership of custody, payment of alimony, division of property, etc.

    Divorce by lawsuit. If the husband and wife cannot reach an agreement, they can only go to the court to sue for divorce, and the court will decide whether the divorce is granted, and at the same time will rule on issues such as the ownership of custody, the payment of alimony, and the division of property.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Both parents are not required for divorce. Divorce is only a marital matter between the spouses and does not require the involvement of both parents. In the case of divorce by mutual agreement, both husband and wife shall submit an application for divorce by negotiation to the marriage registration authority where one of the spouses is registered.

    If the application is not withdrawn within the 30-day cooling-off period, the divorce certificate can be obtained. If a divorce lawsuit is filed, only one of the spouses needs to file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court with jurisdiction.

    Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

    Article 1076: [Divorce by Mutual Consent]Where both husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration office.

    The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' willingness to divorce their brother and their consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.

    Article 1079:[Divorce by Litigation]Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organizations may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

    The court will mediate the case of divorce and marriage, and if the mediation fails, the divorce will be announced, I hope mine will be helpful to you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Divorce can be handled, first of all, both parties need to agree, and after the joint property and the child's custody and maintenance issues have been negotiated and resolved, the parents of both parties do not need to approve and agree to handle it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Divorce does not require the consent of both parents, as long as the relationship between two people breaks down, you can apply for divorce, but now there is a divorce cooling-off period, not so fast to get a divorce.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Divorce does not require the consent of parents, as long as both husband and wife agree to divorce, both bring their ID cards and marriage certificates, and the household registration book can be handled.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Divorce is pure search over freedom. There is no need to go through the consent of both parents, if two leaky pure people do not love each other, they can be divorced casually, provided that there are no children and financial disputes.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Marriage is a matter for both husband and wife, has nothing to do with the children, and does not require the consent of the children. However, in order to create a harmonious family, it is advisable to listen to the opinions of children.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    No, it's a consensual act.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Marriage is a matter for both husband and wife, has nothing to do with the children, and does not require the consent of the children. However, in order to build a harmonious family, I suggest listening to the children's opinions.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you are not mistaken, divorce actually only needs to be separated by two people, why do you need the consent of both parents. After all, it's you, not your parents, who live together.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Summary. Dear, if you want to divorce, you must be very disappointed in this marriage and dissatisfied, if it really comes to that point, the choice is your own.

    I want to get a divorce, but my parents don't agree, what should I do?

    Dear, if you want to divorce, you must be very disappointed in this marriage and dissatisfied, if it really comes to that point, the choice is your own.

    My husband belongs to the kind of person who doesn't care if I don't give me money.

    My mom said last night that the marriage certificate was gone, and she didn't agree with my divorce.

    1: You can tell your parents about the current situation, talk about your pain, listen to your parents' advice, every parent in the world wants their children to be happy. It's also normal for them to disagree.

    Kiss, my husband can't give you the happiness you want, we can talk about it, if he still doesn't take into account your feelings and can't have the responsibility that a man deserves, then we should give up.

    But he wants to share the property with me, and he wants the child too, and then my mother said last night that the money will not be given to him, and the child will be given to him, but he has a brother who is a lawyer and insists on asking for money and children.

    Kiss, the property after marriage is originally shared by your husband and wife, and it should have been divided in the case of divorce.

    How can there be money, partly as a bride price, partly as a dowry.

    If your husband is at fault and there is someone outside, as long as there is evidence, you can score more. The court will also award the child to you.

    The bride price and dowry should also be divided?

    Kiss, as long as you can prove that it is premarital property, he has no way to divide it.

    It was given without a marriage certificate before marriage.

    On the contrary, if it cannot be proven, it can only be divided together.

    Handling in judicial practice: (1) Gifts with a small amount may generally not be returned. (2) Gifts given purely voluntarily in a relationship may generally not be returned.

    3) The degree of fault of the parties shall be considered when returning. If the marriage contract is dissolved due to the fault of the paying party, the proportion of the bride price returned is smaller, and vice versa, larger. (4) Where the marriage formalities have not been completed, but the parties have already lived together, or have completed the marriage in accordance with customs, and the bride price has been converted into joint property, or has been converted into a dowry, it will generally not be returned.

    5) If they do not live together after marriage, they can be returned. (6) Where both parties have lived together for a short period of time (generally not more than one year), and the payment of the bride price causes hardship to one party, they may request a return.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Legal Analysis: Not required. If there is a loss of a marriage certificate, the party shall handle it in accordance with another marriage certificate after the written statement is lost, and if the two copies are lost, both parties need to accompany Huiming in writing to the loss and go to the archives to retrieve a copy of the marriage registration file, affix the special seal of the file, and then handle it.

    After the preliminary examination is completed, the receipt of acceptance of the divorce registration application will be issued to both parties. Wait for the 30-day cooling-off period for divorce. After getting the aforementioned receipt, the husband and wife calmed down and spent 30 days.

    After the 30-day cooling-off period, if the parties still decide to divorce, then within 30 days after the expiration of the period (the last day of the expiration of the period is a holiday, and the first day after the holiday is the date of the expiration of the period), both parties should take three copies of the divorce agreement (which must state that the divorce is voluntary and agree on the handling of child support, property and debts), marriage certificates, two recent half-length bareheaded photos of two two-inch single persons and ID cards, and jointly go to the aforementioned marriage registration authority in person to apply for the issuance of a divorce certificate.

    Legal basis: Marriage Registration Regulations

    Article 10: Where a mainland resident voluntarily divorces, both men and women shall jointly go to the marriage registration authority for the place where one of the parties has a permanent residence to register for divorce. Where a Chinese citizen voluntarily divorces a foreigner in Chinese mainland, or a mainland resident voluntarily divorces with a Hong Kong resident, Macao resident, Taiwan resident or overseas Chinese in Chinese mainland, both men and women shall jointly go to the marriage registration authority at the place where the mainland resident has a permanent household registration to complete the divorce registration.

    Article 11 Mainland residents who have gone through divorce registration shall present the following documents and supporting materials: (1) their household registration booklet and identity card; (2) The person's marriage certificate; (3) A divorce agreement signed by both parties. In addition to the certificates and supporting materials provided for in items (2) and (3) of the preceding paragraph, Hong Kong residents, Macao residents, and Taiwan residents who have gone through divorce registration shall also present their own valid passes and identity cards, and overseas Chinese and foreigners shall also present their own valid passports or other valid international travel documents.

    The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the opinions reached through consultation on matters such as child support, property and debt disposition.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Legal analysis: If the mother wants to divorce and the father does not agree, then the mother can end the marriage by suing for divorce. Where one of the spouses requests a divorce, the relevant organizations may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

    People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation. If the relationship between the husband and wife has indeed broken down and the mediation is ineffective, the people's court shall grant the divorce request of both parties.

    Legal basis: Article 1079 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China [Divorce by Litigation] Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court. People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation. If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

    In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted: (1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person; (2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members; (3) Having gambling, drug abuse, or other vices that have been repeatedly taught; (4) They have been separated for two years due to emotional discord; (5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife. Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

    Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Summary. I want to get a divorce, but my parents don't agree, what should I do, first, how many years have you been married, and then? What are the reasons why you want a divorce?

    Is the spearhead between your husband and wife? Have you ever thought about it? There is also whether you have tried to communicate, tried to solve, or said that the idea of divorce was there at the beginning, which has to be combined for very, very many reasons, as your parents, they definitely don't want you to divorce, because persuasion and not persuasion to leave, this is normal, they don't understand your personal inner thoughts, don't understand your experience, don't understand your care, so they definitely won't want you to divorce.

    I want to get a divorce, but my parents don't agree, what should I do?

    I want to get a divorce, but my parents don't agree, what should I do, first, how many years have you been married, and then? What are the reasons why you want a divorce? Is the spearhead between your husband and wife?

    Have you ever thought about it? There is also whether you have tried to communicate, tried to solve, or said that the idea of divorce was there at the beginning, which has to be combined for very, very many reasons, as your parents, they definitely don't want you to divorce, because persuasion and not persuasion to leave, this is normal, they don't understand your personal inner thoughts, don't understand your experience, don't understand your care, so they definitely won't want you to divorce.

    If you want to get the support of your parents, you must explain to your parents what the reason is, your parents will think more about what to do with your life after divorce, and you have to give them enough confidence to tell them, because you have your own certain plan, and you can live well.

    My parents, thinking about the children.

    Also, tens of thousands of loans, divorced to give child support, so my dad asked me to let me settle, but the relationship is not good, the personality is not compatible, and it will not go down.

    Are you as a man or as a woman? It's normal for parents to tell you like this, because if you really get divorced, what should you do with your children, right, Liang Xiao thought about it clearly, and his parents disagreed, and they were talking to you from an outsider's point of view.

    Parents stand in the perspective of hundreds of people, he thinks that you are not suitable for divorce now, because he takes into account the children, then what about you, as an insider, you only think that you can't live with the other party, without taking into account other factors including future life, if you want to divorce, you must make it clear to your parents, you can handle it.

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