Mind if your girlfriend is flawed, and after being together, will you mind your girlfriend s flaws?

Updated on society 2024-05-16
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Actually, it shouldn't be anything.,You also said that you can't smell it now.,You usually pay more attention to hygiene, take a bath and wash clothes.,It's okay....It's best not to tell him, because he can't smell it now, but it's still a little uncomfortable to listen to...Even if you tell him, I don't think it matters...

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The garbage on the first floor, which one has the ability, get his IP out, Lao Tzu will kill him!

    Who is perfect? Top your lungs!

    The girl who asked the question, don't worry, it's okay, you tell him that if he doesn't love you because of this, you will talk to him immediately.

    Break up, don't live with this kind of person for the rest of your life

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think it's you who mind too much, since you've been operated on and the effect is very good, then what do you still think about it?

    If it were me, I'd forget about it myself, it's not a big deal.

    If you feel compelled to tell him, then say that if he breaks up with you for this, it is better for you to dump him before you get married, so as not to regret it later.

    Also, I understand your pain, after all, this is not a choice you could choose before you were born, and spit on those who can't empathize!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I faint how to talk on the first floor.

    Generally like the landlord has nothing to do with it.

    Besides, who doesn't have a little smell on them?

    Washing your armpits with sulfur soap will not smell bad.

    Quite normal. Don't have any psychological burden.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    To like someone is to like all of them, including all of his or her flaws and strengths, not a part of them, and I don't think he would care if he really loved you. Of course, you should also pay more attention to your personal hygiene, after all, you also know that you have this problem.

    Actually, it's not a big deal, believe in yourself, it's not as serious as you think.

    Good luck!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I suggest not to tell him, because if you don't smell it, it's nothing, but if you tell him, he will think about it. But if it's my girlfriend, I won't dislike her even if I think about it, and that's true, because I love her, it's nothing at all.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I have, but my girlfriends are very nice to me. And I don't think there's anything either. I don't feel embarrassed when people tell me this. I just have it, you can like it if you like it, and there is no way to do it if you don't like it. After all, that's who I am.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I suggest you tell him in advance, we can imagine that if he doesn't mind, then it's okay, if he minds, then such a person should not be good with him, and the couple will live together in the future, and everyone's shortcomings will be slowly exposed, and in the end, when he finds out, he will say that he doesn't mind, but you lied to him and gave him a good excuse to break up, not because you are flawed, but because you lied to him, and in the end he will want to cry without tears.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    What are you afraid of, there is also a 50% possibility that it will not be inherited, you can see that you are a kind-hearted girl, you can try not to tell him directly, if he really loves you, he will not care, and this is nothing Who does not have a little flaw? It's the heart that matters

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    How long have you been in it My classmate is your illness You are no different from nothing How long have you been there If you really have a little emotional foundation, it's nothing to say If it's not a disease at all, don't want you as a man.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Of course you have to mind, it's disgusting, it stinks.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Cut. I thought it was a big deal. It's not a terminal illness. I'm afraid not. Upstairs roll. Have the ability to show your ID out.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't mind, I really like someone, and I like her shortcomings as well. When we first like someone and are attracted to her, we may not know what is wrong with each other. During a hot relationship, even if the other person has some shortcomings, they will become cute under the action of hormones.

    However, as the period of passionate love and transition ends, the role of hormones is no longer evident and our idealized vision of a partner fades. We will start haggling for every detail and pay more attention to the shortcomings of the partner. In fact, everyone is imperfect and has big and small shortcomings, but many people choose to ignore it for the time being, believing that pretending to ignore it doesn't really matter.

    Everyone has their own values, love concepts, and lifestyles. Think about what he can't stand in the relationship. As soon as something in our partners touches our principles, we pay special attention to it, believing that there are "very serious problems" with each other and are inclined to judge these things as a threat to existing relationships, and this contradiction is "irreconcilable".

    When it comes to intimacy, everyone has a unique glow, but there are also drawbacks to the lack of humanity. Patience is not a virtue in a relationship. You have to come to terms with the fact that a relationship always requires patience.

    It may sound awkward, but it's only when you're truly aware of it that you can have more realistic expectations about how the relationship will go.

    It is not necessary to find the cause of the conflict from ourselves, but to look at the problem objectively from the point of view of a third party. When you don't like your partner, take a good look at yourself. Everyone is an ordinary person, and ordinary people have human flaws and weaknesses.

    The suggestive effect of psychology is to influence people's psychology and behavior in a hidden, abstract, and indirect way, rather than confrontation. Try to get rid of some of your own shortcomings, let the other person see your changes and feel the benefits of the changes, and then move on, love is the progress and growth of two people together in the course of a conversation.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    For me personally, I don't mind my girlfriend's shortcomings after being together, because in a relationship, two people need to tolerate each other's shortcomings.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    No, now that I've become a girlfriend, I like everything about her and tolerate her shortcomings, but in order to make my girlfriend better, I will help her correct her shortcomings together.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I don't mind my girlfriend's shortcomings, because I feel that to love someone is to love the whole of a person, including some of the bad things about a person.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    There are shortcomings to be pointed out, but at the right time and on the occasion. For example, when she is happy to chat.

    It can be pointed out, but it cannot be blamed.

    The best way to do that is for you to help her with it.

    Real buddies, just say it, and ordinary friends pull it down.

    What does a friend do? It's about encouraging each other. Help.

    Support. Since your friends have changed so much. Why don't we sit down and talk to him?

    Maybe he will have a hard time accepting what you say. After all, it's a word of advice. But you are for his good.

    You're doing it right. I will be able to have a clear conscience in the future. If you choose to leave him.

    It could hurt him. It will even make him even more unacceptable to you. Since you've said he's your good friend.

    So. Giving advice to a good friend is good for him. Because it is very difficult for him to find fault with himself.

    The bystanders are clear. So you have to analyze him well with his position and your position. I'm sure he'll listen.

    It varies from person to person, it doesn't matter if you are a student, you can stick if you want to, if you have been spotted how stressful it is in the workplace. Try not to stick to it.

    If you can afford it, you can try it! But it's better not to look for that kind of realistic girl! Don't look for it with a playful attitude, you'll be disappointed!

    If you have a favorite, you can chase it, and you can fall in love regardless of age, from eighty-year-old people to elementary school students, as long as the two are happy, why not?!

    Two suggestions: 1. This is allowed, if you like it, let it go!

    2. It's just that there are very few records of falling in love in college and not breaking up until they enter society. Therefore, 90% of college love is unreliable! It is recommended to chase after graduation.

    If you're satisfied! Go with the flow, don't do it deliberately. Don't blame yourself, don't blame others, don't blame. If she finds it, I wish her happiness If she chooses you, treat her well for the rest of her life, because you owe her.

    It's good not to do anything wrong, the love affair of eighteen is a sweet memory for a lifetime.

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