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Anonymous users2024-02-10I'm a woman, but assuming I'm a man, I might mind my girlfriend's past, but that won't be the point, the point is that she's with me now.
My friend once told me that although he said that he would not care about his girlfriend's past, in fact, he would still care a little about his girlfriend's past, after all, it was his girlfriend, and who wouldn't want to look at the past history of his own woman?!
If you don't care about her past, then I can only say that this man who likes her now, the degree of liking her is not very high, and the depth of liking for her is not very much, if she really likes it, then she will definitely involuntarily understand her, even if she doesn't say it, she must go to her space to take the initiative to understand her past history.
Why learn about her past relationship history? Because her past relationship history represents her character as a person, and it is her real life state. As the saying goes, we can't get to know a person by what he says, but we can know him by what he does.
By understanding a person's relationship history, we can find out whether the person in front of us really likes themselves, after all, there are predecessors to guide them!
Therefore, when you understand a person's emotional history, then you can conclude what a person's character is, many times we say that we don't care about other people's opinions, but in fact, we actually care about other people's past, because what a person has experienced in the past, we can see a person's truest state more easily.
For a boy, he may feel that a girl who has been emotionally rich in the past is destined to be a little cautious when she likes you, and you also said that your girlfriend was chased by many boys before, and there was a lot of love history on her body before, since you say so, it means that you have a sense of crisis.
In that case, you need to find someone where both of you are available.
time, let's talk about it together, ask her about her attitude towards those people who chased her before, what is it, if you are still entangled, then you don't need to talk about it now, because it is a waste of time to talk about it again, because this kind of girl who is chased by boys has a sense of superiority many times.
I feel that I have never been afraid of a boy chasing her, having said that, there must not be many boys who really love her. And those boys who chase her, presumably more boys who want to sleep with her, and there are not many who really like her personally.
Because a beautiful girl like this thinks she is beautiful, she thinks she can be very proud, even if she has a bad temper, it doesn't matter, there will be people who like it, but in fact, many times, this is not the case.
If I were a man, I would be more concerned about my girlfriend's past, after all, I have to think about my future, but I will not use this as an absolute judgment that a girl does not love me.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09Personally, I don't think it's very recommended to put because a person's past does not represent his present nor his future, since you chose him as your girlfriend, then you shouldn't care about her past, who the past is for, not for you Everyone has a different past, maybe you have a bad past, so does your girlfriend care? A woman's heart is the last to hurt. If you've chosen her as your girlfriend and you know she loves you very much, I don't think the past is a big deal, because the two of you are together and have a great future.
If you are a person who has been stuck in the past. Then I think it's hard for you to find a girlfriend because everyone has a different past.
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Anonymous users2024-02-08I don't mind if it's a little bit, but it depends on what happened in the past, but he's with you now, and the important thing is the feeling that she's with you.
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Anonymous users2024-02-07I won't mind, first of all, we analyze from the emotional point of view, people have a selfish side, they all hope that they are the only lover, they fall in love with themselves at the beginning of the love, they are the most important person in the lover's life, and the only lover, so that we will get great satisfaction emotionally, and psychologically will be very happy and happy, so it is understandable to emotionally argue about the past of the girlfriend, which is a manifestation of the man who really cares about the other party, and it also shows that he really loves his girlfriend from the side. I once saw a**, two men together, one man cares about his girlfriend everywhere, restricts his girlfriend everywhere, is not allowed to go to the bar, is not allowed to wear revealing clothes, etc., and the other man is very proud to say, I don't care about my girlfriend, she likes to go**. So the man who restricted his girlfriend asked, "Are you going to marry her?"
If you love someone and really want to hold the hand of the other person and grow old with the son, you have some emotional minds, this is understandable, this is a normal emotional performance.
Second, we look at the question of whether we mind if your girlfriend has a past from a rational point of view, you have met this person, and you have a relationship with this person, you are happy with each other, and you hope to be married with each other forever. And this person does not know that he will meet you in the future and fall in love with you until he meets you. Before meeting you, she has the right to love and the right to be loved, she is looking in the vast sea of people, hoping to meet her other half, to find her own partner, her love is also sincere, her past is just looking for the person who can be with her for a lifetime, she doesn't know that she will meet you, and she doesn't know which real prince you are to accompany her down, so, intellectually, what reason do we have to care about her past?
On the other hand, if we insist on caring about our girlfriend's past, then we will have a knot, and the love will not be pure, and the feelings will be estranged, at the beginning it is just a point, as time goes by, as we encounter all kinds of things in life, slowly this point will expand to a circle, and then expand, it is very likely to break out one day in the future, causing an irreparable end to your feelings, emotionally we will mind, but the past is still the past after all, People and things in the past will be drowned in the long river of time, and you are her present, her future, her long life's destination, is her harbor, as long as in the future life journey, she can love you wholeheartedly, loyal to you, love this home, to create a warm habitat of love, why don't we let go of the past, live in the present, and meet the future?
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Anonymous users2024-02-06If you like her. Cares about her. Can't mind his past? Be inclusive. Live well in the days to come.
Personally, I don't mind it, I've had two fights with my girlfriend over this issue. My girlfriend is one year higher than me, I graduate this month, I love her very much, and I want to give her the best, because of her company and dormitory, I don't have time to eat with her on weekdays, she will work overtime from time to time, because I have recently turned positive, so there are a lot of things, and I often can't reply to my messages, sometimes I forget to reply when I am busy, and I reply with my thoughts, but unfortunately I didn't receive it, and I will be a little left out because of this, but in the end, after chatting, I can also understand, to be a sensible man. I also want my girlfriend not to play alone with other boys, my request is to play with a group of people, but only one boy is not allowed, because I will be cranky, the previous thing is just a special case, because that time I didn't wait for my girlfriend to understand that I thought I was going to talk about her because of a friend of the opposite sex, so I got angry, coaxed for a long time, she also knows about watching movies, she thinks it's just watching movies, of course there are no secrets in public, and she can't be asked to break off relationships with other boys (almost this means, I can't ask her to break off the relationship, because this is only yours She has the right to change her social relationship, and couples can't force each other to change, which is not scientific, because the change is voluntary, so she who doesn't want to change for you may be fake.
Don't mind, why should you mind, what era is it now, it's normal for a girlfriend to have a boyfriend. It's not normal if you haven't handed it over.,Unless it's a leftover girl.。。
Mind, since you are in love with yourself, you must keep an appropriate distance from the opposite sex around you, even if it is a male girlfriend, otherwise you will be jealous or misunderstand each other.
Love, sometimes as big as the sea and the sky, sometimes so small that it can't tolerate a grain of sand. If you really want to meet this netizen but are afraid that your boyfriend will be angry, you can ask your boyfriend first and let him know so as not to cause misunderstandings. As a man, no one wants their girlfriend to date another man, and it will be even worse if you go behind his back. >>>More
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