My daughter s willfulness hopes that she will slowly get better, but more than ten years have passed

I hope that my daughter will get better, your original intention is good, but the way you take it is not good.

Don't you know that blind "connivance" will only lead to the opposite direction and get farther and farther away from the goal.

Or according to the specific performance of different periods of life, communicate with my daughter to help her get through smoothly.

Human character is complex, and there is a great deal of controversy in the academic circles: some people believe that human nature is inherently evil and can only be changed by acquired education, especially family education; Some people think that human nature is inherently good, and the acquired environment changes the good side; There are also people who think that human nature is a blank slate, and what becomes of it depends on how you draw it. Personally, I think that people have a natural side, which is beyond doubt, the so-called dragon gives birth to nine sons.

With the same parents, environment, and education, the results will definitely be different; Family education plays a decisive role, and in the process of growing up, the most instinctive thing for children is to imitate, imitate the behavior and way of life of the closest people; The third aspect is the circle, what kind of friends he makes, what kind of circle he is in, especially in primary and secondary schools, which has a great impact on him. For the child's education, not enough attention is definitely not good, too much attention, always take him as the center, as if he is not good, there is something delicious for him to eat first, good things are given to him, there is no teaching him to be humble, courteous, return and grateful, then what such a child does will naturally think that I am the center of the universe, you do not take me as the center is your fault, it is your fault to be good to me, you are a bad person if you are not good to me, everything I do is right, you are wrong to say that I am not right, you are wrong......Children who grow up with such a mentality can imagine what it is like to enter society. Nowadays, it is often said on the Internet that "being rich is capricious", and the sad thing is:

The post-90s and post-00s are so capricious, it's the same whether they have money or not!

Children's education is cultivated from an early age, and this needs to be changed slowly.

The country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change.

What's the matter? Can you get better on your own?

Rebellious psychology at this stage, I used to be like that, just according to what I thought, so angry that the teacher can't do anything, is there any reason for her, is there pressure to study in the third year of junior high school, don't force her to study, give her some freedom, and talk to her friends in general. Take her to play, or go out to eat or something, and get together as a family, without mentioning what you expect from him...

When I saw this problem, I thought of my junior high school junior high school, which is similar to your daughter, to strengthen the exchange of ideas, talk well with the child, and let the child have everything to do with you, this period is very important for the child and directly affects the learning of high school.

Strengthening ideological and moral education is the key to this period, and we must not let children learn badly. Of course, as parents, we must pay attention to the way of education, and we must not indulge in the combination of rigidity and softness.

9 years old should be the age to understand things, you should reason with her more, and if you make a big mistake, you must resolutely correct it. Communicate with her more, discover the root cause of her willfulness, and communicate on an equal footing like a friend.

Are you in a hurry, if you are in a hurry, I will help you.

It's changed! It has to do with the environment in which you live.

I'm not so willful anymore, because I've grown up.

You can't blame the child for this kind of thing, the first is that you didn't pay attention to it when she was a child, and now it's all formed. The second is the inheritance of the parent's personality, and the third is the rebellion of adolescence. Maybe I'll grow up in a few years.

Today's children are generally reluctant to study, but now there is no sense of crisis in primary school, and when they take the high school entrance examination and college entrance examination in the future, they know that they can study in a hurry.

You have to try to communicate with your daughter. If you can get into her heart, I think you'll succeed.

First of all, be friends with her, follow her will, and at the same time, observe her, to see what she really wants.

Taking her out to play and asking her what she thinks about something will help you understand something inside her.

Don't treat her like a child, you can't always count her down or hit her, it will only get worse.

Children are now rebellious. Be patient and guide her, talk to her or give her some material rewards.

Poor students are created by poor teachers and poor parents... Zheng Yuanjie said).

You have to guide her in different ways and motivate her.

She's still so young, there's room for change!

You'd better be patient and be responsible for yourself and your daughter!

She'll be grateful to you when she grows up.

This is because what you have done in the past has made others have a bad impression of you, and although you want to try to change your original image now, others still have opinions about you, but there is a saying that go your own way and let others say it.

First of all, you have to establish self-confidence, be honest with your friends, sometimes it's okay to suffer a little loss, isn't there such a saying, suffering is a blessing, keep an optimistic attitude, don't complain, behave well, if others have any opinions, you can explain that you are not malicious.

You pay too much attention to other people's attitude towards you, as long as you are sincere to others, others will be good to you.

Don't keep saying that you're not good or bad, people like this are basically good people.

Always tell others that you are not good, and others will slowly think that this is the case, don't be humble.

You should also be glad that they think about you every day, mention you, and who else can do this, and that is parents.

You become the center of them.

Do you think that when you talk to someone, others think that there is an attempt, but that is just what you think, and others tell you?

Be sincere to people and get better slowly. Believe that you haven't done anything wrong! Just continue to do it, and you have to grasp the strength.

Be happy, sing, go shopping, and live each day happily.

Take care of yourself and don't get old thinking about other people.

One word! Change yourself with your heart!

Let go and see everything. You'll feel so easy to be alive.

One, it must be spoiled by you, and second, now that you can remedy her willfulness, you should be harsher with her and let him know that you are angry.