I chose him, but I was even more unhappy!

Our situation is very similar, the same age difference of 4 years, I broke up with my ex-boyfriend after 7 years of dating, maybe because it was too long and we didn't feel anything between us, and then started with him, in fact, being unhappy with him sometimes loves him and sometimes doesn't love him, so I'm also very embarrassed to break up with him now and I'm afraid of hurting him, but what I want to tell you is that life is dull, money is something outside the body, as long as he is good to you, the two people can have a happy heart-to-heart communication feeling is the most important, It's a lifetime thing, and this person is going to be with you for decades to come, so choose well, good luck!

It feels like you're vain, you're selfish, and most seriously, you don't know what you want.

Anyone can tell if the shoes are good or not, and only you know if they are comfortable or not.

I don't know what caused you to break up with someone you've been in love with for 4 years

If you are looking for the life you want right now...Then go on with it

Say don't mind ...Not optimistic about the two of you...

You can't ask too much for everything, nothing can be perfect, remember that those who are content are always happy, learn to be content, don't ask too much, you will feel that you are very happy I wish you a happy knot as soon as possible, and be in a good mood.

I don't think your choice is wrong, because in this society now, you can't just talk about feelings and live a lifetime, you should try to find the good in your current boyfriend, instead of worrying about unhappiness every day!

And since you abandoned your ex-boyfriend and got with someone else, it will be difficult for you and your ex-boyfriend to be together again, and it's useless for you to think about him, isn't it?

Finally, I wish you an early acceptance of your current boyfriend!!

Who is to choose? You shouldn't choose, it's to persuade and persuade, if your wife asks you to choose her or your parents, that's her fault, your parents want to ask you to choose them or your wife, that's also their fault, you are in a dilemma in this matter, even if who's right and who's wrong, you can't choose, if you really choose, I still choose my parents, my parents are one, my wife is gone, it's not easy for my parents to raise us, she has no right to tell you to choose who you can only persuade and do work.

What to choose whom? You make the problem clear.

You love your parents and you love people, 2 kinds of love are different, can a man only have one kind of love? When you have children, it's another kind of love, don't you want one another?

I'll look at them because they're arguing, and then I'll see who's wrong. But I thought I'd help my dad.

At this time, you have to be a lubricant, as long as it is not too much, and you don't have to dig into who is right and who is wrong.

Parents and lovers need you to communicate! It's not a question of who to choose.

If I am now a new graduate and have nothing, I will choose the former, the salary is high but the work is unpleasant, because the mood can be adjusted by myself but the salary cannot be adjusted, I will try to adjust my mentality, separate work and life, do not bring home the unhappiness at work, and do what I like to do after returning home, and adjust it. But if I have a more comfortable life and there is no need to worry about money, I will definitely choose the latter. After all, happiness is the most important thing.

For me, I don't love money, but I need a certain material foundation to allow me to enjoy life, so I have to work hard first, and when I have a certain foundation, I will enjoy life. But some people don't care about the material foundation, they think that the best enjoyment is the happiness of life, so it still depends on what they care about.

Is a friend here for help, or is it here to be an examiner? Huh-

It depends on whether you are short of money or happy ......

You can choose not to think about it, but there are always times when the unpleasant things come out on their own.

Don't forget what you once had, don't be so similar to the way to not think about it,

Stay up until you can't stand it anymore.

You'll find that you learn a lot while you're boiling. You will learn to smooth out your sharp temper. Know that you have to listen calmly to the leader's nonsense and big words.

You will also learn how to get along with others. Because this society not only has good people, but also many villains. You will learn to keep your heart in mind and know what you can and can't say.

If you haven't been in pain, you can't learn if you haven't failed. You will slowly change from anger to indifference and then realize some truth. You might as well use this job as an opportunity to exercise yourself!

It's hard to think about it!

A famous man named Charles Darwin once said, "Survival of the fittest......”

The social status quo is like this, from a small place to a big place, you don't work well here, and after you change jobs, you will find that the new environment is also unsatisfactory in one way or another.

You have to learn to adapt to society, not to adapt to you. Wait until you have the ability to "change the society" (environment), and then consider making the society (environment) adapt to you and change for you.

I wish you a great time.

Stay there for now, use it as an opportunity to train yourself, and it's not too late to find the right job before changing jobs.

Let's solve it! Let's talk about it, and there can't be a stiff relationship between father and son, as a junior, you should let some elders, don't make things unending.

I don't want to go to school, because my dad didn't discuss it with me in the first place, so it's his fault, and now he's looking me for a relationship to go to work and hang out of school.

Since you want to go, convince him to go out and study, and come back to work after graduation!

I really despise such a man, he has no sense of responsibility at all, he is too irresponsible, if he can't give you and the child a home, then what qualifications does he have to give other women a home, obviously he has no conscience, and what excuse do he make. Such a man, I advise you to let it go, it's useless to pull it back, there will be a second and third time after the first time, don't say anything about forcing yourself to continue for the sake of your son, there is no need, with such a bad example, the impact on your son will be even worse. If he is so ruthless, you should also make up your mind to let him go and let yourself go.

When he chooses another woman, he definitely doesn't love you anymore. The process of not loving you is to make a lot of trouble, do you have to endure such days? Neither you nor your children will be happy.

You think that when you get married, you will settle down, and when you get married, you can improve the situation, and then you find that it has not improved, and then you can have a child, and then you can adjust it if you have a child. Then he can change, and what will become in the end, the result will become, "I don't know whether to continue this marriage for the sake of my children or give up the marriage to choose a new beginning in my life completely." "We want to defend love and marriage, but there are always so many unhappy breakups, which we can't count.

But when I understand that there are some things that he does not belong to, he should not be forced to stay. No matter how much you try to keep him, you find that you can't keep his heart at all.

You just asked this question, and you must be in pain right now. If "he said it was impossible to give me and my son a home" has been confirmed, I wonder if you have registered your marriage? If not, you can only solve it privately by yourself, and if you have met each other's parents, you can ask them to intervene, but you can't force it.

If you have already registered, it is best to ask the parents of both men and women to intervene, once the marriage includes a third party, often as the woman has resentment and other emotions that affect the outcome of the process, so it is best to need the support of the seniors.

Of course, if "he said that it is impossible to give me and my son a home" and you are not sure, you can tell him to give him a chance to turn back. If you don't look back, you'd rather lack than abuse!

Wouldn't it, it's still like this when you have a child? Then you are polite and let him pay the cost of raising the child. Then hurry up and find another one, the more you drag it out, the more troublesome it is.

Hungry, hungry, hungry... Do you still want such a man? There is no sense of responsibility...

Even if you are together, will you be happy in the future.

It's a big deal not to live with him, and he's not the only man in the world.

Women want to be independent, all said so, is this man still reliable? The landlord thinks about it himself.

That's a problem.

It's like what was said upstairs.

The economic base determines the superstructure.

However, if he really wants to be what you say, then there will always be a day when he is prosperous or proud, and you should communicate more with your parents.

If I were your family, I don't think I would have agreed. At least for a person who doesn't have a job, there is no security for your life, and now you are talking about life and death, but when you face the firewood, rice, oil and salt in real life, you will feel why the family did not agree with your boyfriend in the first place.

At the very least, you need to get your boyfriend a stable job and prove that he can guarantee your future life.

Don't make a fuss for now, I'm really reluctant, just let him find a job first. How can a man feed you if he can't afford to make money??? Love can't be eaten,。。

There is no economy without work, how can it be good to you without economy, your parents are naturally not at ease, and many times you still have to listen to your parents, after all, they are the most sincere people who love you and will never harm you!

The economic foundation determines the superstructure, and the poor and lowly couples mourn everything!

Whether you don't have it at the moment or don't want to find something to do, there is a difference, if it's the former, just look for it slowly, and the latter, then forget it.

Our company is short of people. You can let him come to us and try it.