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Selfishness is human nature, as the saying goes, people don't kill for themselves!
The nature of the Lord is to prison you are"The self"
You are the great and noble in your wishes"Superego"
Wandering in the self, the superego, the selfish, and the great, noble me"Ego"
Don't be fooled by the ego, and don't try to be a superego. Live well in yourself.
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A person's mind is narrow if there are many desires, and wide if there are few desires.
Happiness is a state of mind, regardless of wealth, age, or environment. With a contented heart, happiness is in you. If you want to be happy, don't let yourself be listless, and if you want to be happy, you don't want to increase your wealth, but to reduce your desires. Reconciled!
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The questioner is a **!! You don't care about watching that woman's death in front of you, you are indirect homicide.
In addition, tell you, don't wail all day long and let people give you money, other people's money is earned by yourself, even if it is very illegitimate means. What qualifications do you have to let others give you in vain, and if you don't give you such a big opinion. You look at what you've written, what you've said.
I saw only a filthy soul, a creature that could no longer have dignity.
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Don't ask for help. It's on your own.
The way people exist is through cooperation and dedication.
Isn't it noble to feed yourself.
At least the dignity that you have gained by yourself.
And did not depend on anyone.
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I agree that human nature is inherently evil. Selfishness is something that everyone has. It is impossible to get rid of it. It's just that through education, the environment will make everyone have different choices. But don't go too far. From a different angle, the sea and the sky are wide.
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Selfishness and kindness are not incompatible ......
The landlord is a strong dissatisfaction and helplessness with the selfishness in society, so everyone should not argue with him, and they can't fight who is right and who is wrong;
I just hope that the landlord and everyone will not go with the flow.
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Personally, I think that at the beginning of human beings, they are inherently good. But many people have been influenced by the social model we have created, and thus they have become degenerate. Think about our society! At least think about what kind of movies we like.
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Of course, people are selfish, but there are also good people, but you haven't met them yet.
People in the world are different, just like people and animals, people blindly kill animals and eat animals, can you not say that people are selfish? The world is very realistic. It's better to ask for someone than to ask for it!
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Well, I agree, I love and hate, and I am very desperate for this world. I don't care about the world around me.
But I still hold on to my beliefs, all my selflessness is given to my husband, and I will not hesitate to give my life.
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Good words! But there is goodness in private, so the world has warmth!
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There are some things that you believe and do not believe ... This is especially true of faith!
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Alas, there is no way, people will always feel selfish.
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Here comes the whining. Show sympathy.
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Most people say that at the beginning of man, nature is good, and there are a small number of people who say that at the beginning of man, nature is evil, I want to say, at the beginning of man, sex is selfish. To put it simply, people are born to be selfish.
Any instructions given by the child to change are related to himself, and the adults are the same, they will consider their own interests in everything they do, which is why it is said that only parents are the most sincere to their children. However, I feel that this sentence is limited to normal parents, as the saying goes, the world is big, there are no wonders, there are all kinds of parents in the world, and there are countless selfish parents, and children are copies of parents, so there is a sentence, what kind of parents have what kind of children.
In fact, every sentence left to us by the ancients is worthy of our deep consideration.
I have experienced so much and understood a lot of things.
I thought before, why do two people have such a good relationship, but they still divorce? Why do people cry and say, I love you, but I let you go.
Why are there depressed people? Why do depressed people not think about it?
In fact, to put it bluntly, these people just think about everything too beautifully. I think that love should be pure and beautiful, I think that life should be happy and happy, I think that society should be just and selfless, you are good to others, others will be good to you, and so on, in short, there are too many requirements for beauty, and this is not the case. Of course, this is not the only reason for the trembling of marriage, everything is like this.
I remember that there is a saying that at the moment of a tantrum, the IQ is zero, and it will take a minute to wake up, which is why some children jump off just because their parents confiscated their mobile phones or their parents quarreled with themselves, and their IQ at that time was not **.
Therefore, when we educate our children, we should find a safe place, wait for a minute, and after the impulse has passed and regain calm, the child will slowly think and accept.
The road is long and difficult, let us learn while walking on the road of education.
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The first sentence of the Three Character Classic is the beginning of man, the nature is good, I think when a person is born, he does not have the ability to distinguish between good and evil, if you want to be good, you need to have a good environment, evil is because there is an evil environment, the environment has made you, and the environment has harmed you.
Confucius once said that there are four kinds of goodness, compassion, and benevolence; The heart of shame is also the end of righteousness; The heart of resignation, the end of courtesy; The heart of right and wrong, the end of wisdom, why do you say to do good? I think these four ends are the four emotions of benevolence, righteousness, propriety, and wisdom, the heart of compassion, the heart of shame, the heart of courtesy, and the heart of right and wrong. And their four mentalities make up the four ends.
These four mentalities are very important, can it be said that one is missing? Compassion, when you see others being hurt, empathize, do not do to others what you do not want, this is compassion, with compassion, when you do evil things, you will reflect, you will pause, you will pause, or a manifestation of kindness, shame, I have heard a sentence, the achievement of countless prison overlords, that sentence is shameless people, invincible in the world. Why?
If you do something evil, you do it, and others know about it, you will be ashamed, shame means that you still have a conscience, you still know that what you are doing is wrong, you still have a face, and you can change it, but if you don't even have shame, then you are almost hopeless, because you have pushed yourself from the side of the good to the side of the evil. So I think if you want to be invincible, if you want to achieve, you have to have shame, without shame, you can be invincible, but that's invincible on the opposite side, with shame, you can also be invincible, that's to convince people with virtue, when you suddenly feel that your conscience is gone, you engrave the words to serve people with virtue on the carrot and give it to yourself, don't eat the carrot. The heart of courtesy, this courtesy, is very, very important in Chinese culture, and who doesn't want to give others an impression of humility?
This involves the first impression, will only have a great impression on your communication, if you see someone for the first time and stare at him, they will also stare at you, if you send a flower to someone for the first time, even if they want to say something bad, they can't live their face. It's better to make more friends than less. After all, you are a foot of me, and I respect you.
The heart of right and wrong, the heart of right and wrong is very important, it allows you to distinguish right from wrong, for example, a little girl, she has a great power to kill, but she doesn't feel a little guilty, because he thinks it's right, he doesn't think it's wrong. So there is no heart of right and wrong, everything in front is in vain, you can distinguish right from wrong, not what you can decide, but the decision of the environment, which can be said to be the only thing that you can't decide.
Everything is shaped by the environment, you are good and evil are given to you by the environment, so reincarnation is still a technical job, my technology is very, very good with a smile, envy wave? Jealous waves? So when you meet a wicked person, the first thing you think about is why he is evil, sympathize with him as a wicked person, and tell him that reincarnation is a technical job by the way.
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This is a philosophical question, and different thinkers hold different views. For example, Mencius believed that at the beginning of human beings, nature was inherently good, but Xunzi, another representative of Confucianism who was the same as him, believed that at the beginning of human beings, nature was inherently evil, which was also an important reason why he attached importance to the rule of law.
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Human beings are inherently good. It means that when he was born, he was good, but because of the growth process, the learning environment of the sedan chair was different, and there was a difference between good and bad temperament.
This sentence comes from the "Three Character Classic", and the author is Wang Yinglin. Some excerpts are as follows:
Human beings are inherently good. Sex is similar, Xi is far away.
If you don't teach, sex is migration; The way of teaching is to be specialized.
Xi Mengmu, choose a neighbor; If you don't learn, you will be cut off.
Dou Yanshan, there is a righteous side; Teach five sons, and be famous.
If you don't teach, it's your father's fault; If the teaching is not strict, the teacher is lazy.
If the child does not learn, it is not appropriate; If you don't learn when you're young, what's the point of being old?
The jade is not cut, and it is not made; People do not learn, they do not know righteousness.
Part of the translation: At the beginning of human birth, the nature itself is good. The natures are also similar, but the acquired environment and education are different, and each other's habits are very different.
If you don't educate well from an early age, your good nature will become bad. The most important way to keep people from bad is to concentrate on educating children consistently.
If jade is not polished and carved, it will not become a fine utensil; And if people don't know how to learn and realize their own value with their own knowledge and skills, they don't know etiquette and can't become talents.
Extended Materials. 1. Enlightenment: People are born the same, but if they are not educated well from an early age, their good nature will become bad. Therefore, people must study hard from an early age and distinguish between good and evil in order to become a useful talent to society.
2. In terms of format, the three characters are catchy, because of the characteristics of popular, smooth and easy to remember, it is called the three major readings of traditional Chinese Mongolian studies together with "Hundred Family Names" and "Thousand Character Text", collectively known as "Three Hundred Thousand".
Personally, I think it's still human nature.
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