What should I do if my boyfriend always thinks I m ugly?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-10
46 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    First of all, you don't have to feel inferior, there is no doubt that a woman's appearance is very important, but appearance is not everything, and appearance can also be adjusted by makeup and dressing. Maybe he has been with you for a long time and is used to it, and he thinks you are average. You can change your hairstyle and outfit from time to time.

    When the key problem is not you, if he is a person who is destined to die by appearance, then you don't need to follow him at all, just leave him, women usually don't do this, because they are soft-hearted, women are sensual, and often can't pass the love barrier. But you have to think about the consequences.

    If a woman is rational, then the woman is more attractive... This charm is unmatched by any beautiful appearance.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Think about why you make him hateful, sometimes because of yourself, don't always doubt others.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Prove that he has a lot of grievances with you now, your relationship is already very weak, and there is a high probability of a breakup.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Faint to death, what do you want such a person???

    Now that you are young, he thinks that you are not good, that is not good, so what will happen to him when you are thirty or forty years old???

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Then let him find a good look, you don't want him first.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You ask him why he likes you, and he says you're ugly, and he looks even uglier.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In a word, there are no ugly women, only women with low self-esteem.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    = Why does he think you're ugly and still be your bf ......

    It's divided...

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Leave him, he looks down on you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Yes, I'll give you an appraisal q693354916

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There are only lazy women, no ugly women.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Poor woman、I deeply sympathize、

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Since he is already your boyfriend, it means that you have accepted him as a person at that time. I must also like him, and I may have seen the advantages in him, so it's okay to be together.

    It's just that now that you've been together for a long time, maybe slowly you will feel that the two of you are a little dull together, and you will pay attention to his appearance. will feel that other people's boyfriends are better looking than him, subconsciously.

    You may have some thoughts about him. But your boyfriend is very kind to you and cares about you very much, so it makes you feel hesitant.

    Now you must calm down and ask yourself if you really love him. Because loving someone really doesn't care about his appearance, but more importantly, on the inside, as long as the person has a good character and truly loves himself.

    The most important thing is to be genuinely good to you. In your love life, it's so rare to meet someone who is good to you regardless of the return. We can appreciate good looks, but life depends on sincerity to go on.

    People who are really good to you will not meet a few in your life. People who really have you in their hearts are worth cherishing for a lifetime. True feelings will never be lost to time in a lifetime.

    People are always dissatisfied, your boyfriend treats you well, but dislikes him for not being good enough; A handsome boyfriend won't be so good to you. People live their lives always striving for what they don't get and ignoring what they have.

    What cares about you, you don't care; What you care about, don't care about you. There is a so-called to you, but there is no indifference; It doesn't matter to you, but you're eager to try.

    The world is so big, what a good fate it is to accompany you from beginning to end; Sooner or later, sincerity can accompany each other; There is no distinction between deep and shallow feelings, and cherishing can be long-term. In fact, the person who is good to you in life is the most precious possession.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    My boyfriend is ugly, but it's good for you, and this one is good too.

    Since he is already your boyfriend, it means that you have accepted him, as long as he is good to you, works hard, and is kind, there is no need to care too much about his appearance, after all, how beautiful a person is, in the end, he is also an old man, live your own life, how others love it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Your boyfriend is ugly and treats you well, which means that his appearance is not very good, but his character, including his attitude towards you, is very good, you must cherish such a person, such a person will definitely be better for you in the future!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think it mainly depends on whether you like him or not, if you like him, it's okay, if you don't like him, even if he is good to you, don't continue, that's not real love.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think that if your boyfriend is very good to you, and he has a good character, self-motivation, and appearance, it is not very important, don't miss him easily.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's not so ugly that you can't stand it, so it's too bad to be separated early.

    But now that you're together, I don't think it's going to be bad.

    Don't be in the midst of bliss and don't know the bliss.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In the eyes of the ugly girl, it is a great happiness to find a boy who cares for you like a father for the rest of your life, is reluctant to let you suffer a little grievance, and pays attention to every detail of your life. If a handsome and golden-looking boy is just a fancy to you, then his gentleness does not belong to you alone, and if a very ugly but very good boy to you, he will let you have the whole world.

    What girls need is to be treated gently in love, and boys have an empty skin but turn a blind eye to you, even if it is the honey whispers before the moon, they can't incite his tenderness.

    The minimum requirement for a male ticket is to be handsome and above 180 tall, but in fact, such a requirement is quite difficult. Now the standard of a high-quality boyfriend is rich and handsome, and he can spoil women, but in fact, such a standard is also very high, which creates invisible pressure on those short and ugly boys.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Everyone's aesthetics are different, you think he is ugly does not mean that others think they are ugly, just adapt slowly, everyone is born like this, you can change it in the later stage, there is no need to say that a person is ugly, appearance is not so important to me, the important thing is to see if the character and the inner are good, if he is very good to you, you have to see, really good, don't hang him, if you don't like him, you tell him directly that you can't let him waste time in vain, he is not good for you, you must learn to respect each other, You tell him he'll fix it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If your boyfriend is ugly but treats you well, it depends on what you think, if you like him too, you can be together, if you don't like it, leave as soon as possible, because the longer it drags on, you really don't like it and don't know how to leave, and you will feel guilty and indebted when you leave.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    A man is very good to you, but he is very ugly, in this life, it is not easy to meet a person who is really good to himself, it is not easy to meet someone who is kind and kind, such a person, you must cherish, a person's appearance is not the most important, as long as the person is good and behaves very well, I think this kind of friend must be made, must be cherished, and a kind person is a blessing, must not be missed.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    In fact, it has nothing to do with a person's ugliness and handsomeness, he just needs to be good to you, if you think he is good to you, don't care about his handsomeness and ugliness, then you can continue to be with him, if you think you care a lot, she is ugly, then you can tell others.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you like him, you shouldn't be surprised, although the beginning of all feelings comes from physical attraction, if you really care, make it clear to him as soon as possible.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    First, don't force yourself; second, do you have no feelings for your boyfriend because he is ugly; Third, if he is genuinely good to you, find someone who loves yourself is happier than finding someone you love others, think for yourself.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    The boyfriend is ugly, but he is very good to you, first of all, you should know whether you love him as a person or love his looks. If you are a person who values looks very much, it is recommended that you do not continue to be with him.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's not easy for a girl to find someone who is really good to you, don't judge a person because of some external things, since your boyfriend is very good to you, cherish it.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If your boyfriend is ugly, but very good to you, then you can slowly accept him, because it is really not easy to find a boyfriend who likes you and is good to you.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    In the eyes of the lover, the so-called ugliness of the boyfriend and girlfriend is just what other people say, you don't have to worry about it, as long as he is really good to you, you are the happiest.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    At this time, you should be mature and treat your boyfriend well, because you can't just look at your face when you fall in love, if you are really good to you, you can make up for your external image.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    In fact, there is a way to solve it at this time, ugliness can also be changed, you can give him a comprehensive transformation from his image and temperament and skin care, and after a period of time, he may reach your ideal person.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Of course you're going to have to treat him well. His appearance is not high, it is not his fault, the important thing is that he is good to you, as long as he has a good character.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    The ugly man is really good to you, he spoils you and cherishes you. It's normal for you to like handsome guys, but handsome guys must be just playing with you temporarily.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You have to cherish such a man, he doesn't look good at any time, but he has a heart that loves you, such a man will be very single-minded and rare, remember to get along well and don't miss it.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If your boyfriend is genuinely nice to you, I don't think it's a big deal. It's more practical to find someone who is genuinely good to you than to find a beautiful boy with good looks.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Then break up! You don't like him, and you won't be happy with him. You will not be happy if you are just greedy for his good to you.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    A person's appearance is nothing, as long as he is kind-hearted, loves you well, thinks it's okay, and thinks about everything for your sake, this is enough.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Put character in front of appearance, it is good to be good to you, and being good to you is always more important than being handsome.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    My boyfriend is ugly, but he's nice to me, what should I do? Sister is already your boyfriend, then he is good to you, this is the most important thing, he likes you, loves you, cares about you, you should feel happy.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It's not up to him to decide what he looks like, but the degree of care he has for you is that if she is really good to you, you should cherish the relationship.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Your boyfriend is ugly, but he's good to you, what else can you do? You've made him your boyfriend, doesn't that mean you accept him? Do you want to reject him just because he's ugly?

    Why didn't you say no in the first place? He didn't hide it, you should know that he was ugly, and it would be good if he could make money to support his family.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    When two people are together, in fact, appearance is not the most important thing, it depends on whether the other party likes you? Hello to you, and then to see if she is a professional and single-minded person? Responsible people are the most important.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    It's up to you, people who are ugly are generally very secure because they don't easily deform and are single-minded about you.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    I don't think appearance is the only basis for judging a relationship, if you like him very much, what does it matter if he is ugly, it still depends on whether the relationship between the two of you is deep.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Since it's your boyfriend, it means that you have accepted him as a person, and it means that you can see his good qualities in him, just be together.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    The man is talented and good-looking, and the boyfriend is excellent in all aspects, but he is ugly, and you can accept him.

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