What should I do if my boyfriend s family thinks I m short, what is the best way

Updated on psychology 2024-04-05
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In fact, the gap is not very big! I think the most important thing at this time is to look at your boyfriend's attitude, if he is resolute and thinks that height is not a problem, then you will try to meet his mother, maybe I will like you when I see you, after all, height is not a matter of principle. Of course, if your boyfriend himself is hesitant, then you have to think about whether such a man is still worth your effort.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you really love each other, how can height be an issue! My friend 153 and her husband 178 His family didn't agree at first, and in the end they weren't together. Happiness also needs to be fought for!

    If your boyfriend is the first to back down, then you need to take a good look at ......I wish you happiness ......

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The key is your boyfriend's attitude, the rest is not a problem, his mother is just an opinion, it doesn't work absolutely.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Time, distance, borders are not a problem! What is height?

    The relationship is you and his, after all, you have been with him! As long as he doesn't care!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    How can his mother think so, she doesn't want to think about it, and she doesn't like his son because of his height, it's true that she likes each other, slowly let his mother like you Okay, don't worry, you will be happy! Come on!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I remember the first time I met my husband's parents, I pp also asked about the height, I pp asked your height is 140cm, I directly said that I was only 130cm, and then I will smile heartily, and the person who wants to live in the future is not to take height, to take looks, first to see what kind of parents are like each other, whether the other party's parents are good or not is directly related to your future life!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I also encountered such a problem, and now I have broken up and died of depression.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    For girls, they all hope that their boyfriends can be tall and handsome, but in fact, some girls' boyfriends in life are relatively short, but they have feelings for him and are good for themselves, so they are more entangled in their hearts, and they don't know what to do if their boyfriend is short, but he is very good to me, and his boyfriend is too short to have face?

    Boyfriend is very short but very good to himself, in fact, it still depends on personal thoughts and situations to deal with, if the relationship between the two is better, when getting along are more comfortable, there is no big problem, but there is a height problem, in fact, there is no need to care too much, after all, height is external, if you want to get married, it depends more on whether the personality of the two people is suitable, but if you have height and nothing else, there will be a lot of contradictions in life.

    If you don't have a deep affection for him, but you just feel good for yourself, this situation is unfair to the boy, anyway, you don't like it very much, you should make it clear to the other party directly, so as not to delay yourself and others.

    In fact, the height of the boyfriend is not the decisive factor, more you still need to look at the connotation of the other party, character, etc., and you need to look at your own feelings, if you really like it, don't care too much.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    As long as you and your boyfriend are sincerely in love, the two hearts are harmonious and have true love, you will be brave enough to get married together, let go of pressure, and open your mind. If your parents don't approve of your boyfriend's relationship because he's too short, I don't think that's going to stop you from dating. Because it's a matter of the two of you that you love each other, and if your boyfriend hurts the feelings between you because of something out of line, he doesn't do anything to make your parents unhappy.

    No one is perfect, everyone has advantages and disadvantages, if two people want to go long-term, they must tolerate each other, learn to appreciate each other's advantages at the same time, but also learn to tolerate each other's shortcomings.

    Young people's marriage is inevitably to listen to the opinions of the old people on both sides, some old people do not interfere too much in the marriage of their children, even if the young people are immature, they just explain the reason to the children, let the young people choose for themselves, some parents are the children to decide, they choose the object for the children, they like the children to talk, they don't like the direct veto, quite strong, maybe you meet such parents.

    I think your parents may just lack understanding of your boyfriend, only see his short shortcomings, as the saying goes, people can't look good, all that is condensed is the essence, short people generally have higher emotional intelligence, you communicate more with your parents, let your parents know more about your boyfriend, let your boyfriend show his strengths more, learn from each other's strengths! I believe that as long as your boyfriend has the approval of your parents in other aspects, he can pass this hurdle.

    If you think that your boyfriend is responsible, responsible, takes care of you, and is worthy of your life, you can talk to the family, maybe the family will not accept it for a while, but after a long time, they will see that your boyfriend is indeed worthy of your life, and they will definitely not say anything. Find a time to talk to your family, I believe this problem will not become an obstacle on the road to your happiness, and finally, I wish you happiness!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You should have a good talk with your family, as long as the two of you have a good relationship, and I don't think height is particularly important, you can tell your family what the two of you think, so that your family can rest assured.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You continue to date your boyfriend, and then go and convince your family to tell your family that your boyfriend has no shortcomings other than being shorter.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You should find an opportunity to convince your family that your family's height is not a reason to hinder the relationship.

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